So, we've been on the waiting list for just over a month. Not long, I know. I still can't stop thinking maybe the Dear BM letter isn't quite right, or who is looking at our blog, etc. I know this has all got to be fairly normal, especially for those of us with an IF history who have been on the roller coaster of becoming parents for a long time. But I just want to double check with you all.
The blog gets hits every other day or so from the agency's website, but I can't tell who it is, so who knows who is looking at it.
I checked in with our SW today - to find out if there was any negative feedback on our Dear BM letter and if we could get a copy of our homestudy (we want to send it to an attorney friend in my hometown (in another state) so he can also help us). SW said she wasn't able to give us a copy of the homestudy because it contained criminal records and background checks. Strange, since we have spoken to 2 attorneys in other states who have both asked us to send them a copy. Hwo am I supposed to send anyone a copy if my SW can't give us a copy of it to send??
Then she said that only one BM has seen our profile and letter and there was no negative feed back.
Then she mentioned how crazy busy she has been with all the new BMs and babies.
Now I am peeved. There are 18 people on the waitlist at our agency that I am aware of. If there are so many babies, why are none of us getting matched?
Again, I want to believe these are all the same feelings everyone else has while they wait for a match, but could you all just reassure me? I'm dyin' over here.