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thought it was supposed to get easier

luckymrs718luckymrs718
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This is my second week back at work and I thought it was supposed to get easier not harder?  I love working but I hate leaving her... and right now, I'm sitting here in my office missing her like crazy.  Maybe it's just that I know I've only got 30 minutes until my weekend starts.  Either way, this sucks Sad

Big hugs to all you other working moms. 

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  • jen629jen629 member
    {{{HUGS}}} I go back in 2 weeks I am not looking forward to it
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    It does get easier. There are times that I just want to leave at like 9 am because I miss him so much.
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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin

    (((hugs))) It is tough.  I will be totally candid - for me it is getting worse.  I feel like I am missing everything.

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    Big hugs.  I go back in a week and am already crying about it.
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  • jinx75jinx75
    I go back on Monday and I feel completely panic-striken when I think about it.  With Charlotte it actually was more difficult to leave her the older she got.  Now that she's in preschool it's a little easier but I still miss her.  The only thing that offers me any solice with Maddie starting daycare is that her room has web accessible cameras, so I can watch her throughout the day.
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  • tew213tew213 member
    I do think it got better for me - the key is to stay busy! I teacher kindergarten so I have little time to miss her. At lunch DH and I text each other picutres of her and talk about how we miss her and all the fin things shes been doing (as I am pumping). Other than that I am so busy. I feel gulty about not thinking of her all day - but I do think that it makes it easier for me. GL it is hard. The weekends are that much more awesome now!
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