September 2012 Moms

Ok fess up

Who still hasn't had sex since their BFP? Or even since baby was conceived? (haha - guilty).

If that's not the case, let me live vicariously through you and tell me how much sex you're having.

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  • We usually do it once a week, but we've done it twice this week.
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  • not us, much to my DH's dismay. I'm more nervous about doing it due to previous loss than because I don't have the energy. I would, but I'm worried which I know is irrational, but that's how I feel!



     
  • We've had sex twice (I think) since we got our BFP (jan 9)  Actually yesterday was one of those times ;) 
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  • I'm Actually not allowed to have sex atm. Im high risk and having to take prometrium vaginally everynight. Which Conks me out like a freaking sedative lol. Although I dont know whether to be happy or worried I was having the morning (more like all day) sickness and it subsided 3 days ago almost completly. Embarrassed
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  • We did it once and I had some spotting after, which freaked us both out so much that DH is cut off until at least 2nd tri.  We've been doing other stuff, though.
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  • Not since BFP...I'm so nervous even though I know that it doesnt matter. But I'm still scared. Poor hubby, he is nervous it's going to be nine months like this.
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  • I have been far too nauseous....we haven't had sex since BFP
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  • Still doing it up to 2 times a day, every day unless He or I needs a break.

    Edit: I usually instigate, although I can admit I have a hard time being aroused right now. 

  • I was really nervous at first so we waited until after I saw the doctor. Even though I knew she was going to say it was fine, I needed to hear it from her lol. Even so, since my BFP we've only done it twice... and like PP, one of those times was last night =] 
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  • We're averaging once a week. I worried about spotting but haven't had any related to sex yet. 

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  • imageAppleMomma:
    Still doing it up to 2 times a day every day unless He or I needs a break.

    How do you have the energy for that?

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  • We haven't. 


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  • If I have no nausea, that's all I have been thinking about lately.  And if DH isn't around, I just take care of things myself Surprise

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  • We do it about every other day. Embarrassed I think the only reason I get a break is because DH works 24 hour shifts.
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  • We got our BFP on 1/2, the first day of our vacation. We had sex quite a few times that week... and then once a week or less since we returned back to real life. I've been so exhausted that evening sex is out of the question, and I've been sleeping hours later than DH on the weekends. I guess we could go for creative middle-of-the-day sex but chores and homework seem more pressing. :P 


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  • We haven't. I was on medication for a week and the pharmacist recommended not having sex. DH says he would like to wait until after the first appt. even though the doc said it was ok to have sex now.

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  • Twice since BFP.

    It was very uncomfortable for me.  But since DH was so great during my last fertile window, I thought I'd take em for the team.

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  • We haven't since the BFP. Hopefully I'll be able to relax after my u/s on Wednesday and it will help get things back to normal.
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  • We haven't done it since 3 days after conception. Too scared.
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  • once - christmas morning RIGHT after BFP and that's it -- soo not interested in it- I'm exhausted when DD goes to bed :)
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  • We have not had any naked time since the BFP. I work East Coast hours, so get to work at 5:30 in the morning. By the time we get DS bathed and to bed, it's all I can do to keep my eyes open.

    We had great plans for some naptime nookie this afternoon, however DS had other plans, and decided not to nap today.

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  • I got my BFP on Jan 20th.  I'm pretty sure we've had sex 4x since.  2x was in the last 36 hours.  

    I was really concerned that it would cause some problem (spotting), but it seems like everything's been okay.  And it's actually been more pleasurable.  :) 

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    imageAppleMomma:
    Still doing it up to 2 times a day every day unless He or I needs a break.

    How do you have the energy for that?

    After losing 85 pounds, sex is the easiest exercise I've found Wink
  • I think once since BFP 10 days ago. LOL
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  • Not since my BFP.  The day after my BFP, I was placed on progesterone suppositories.  I just can't get in the mood while I'm dealing with the mess.  Luckily, I only have a couple of weeks to go. 

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    DH: Low-T and borderline morph
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    EDD 9/7/12, Saw HB @7w3d,missed m/c 1/30 @8w3d, d&c 2/8
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    BFP#2 our little cycle break surprise on AL cycle 12! EDD 10/27/13
    Beta #1: 41 Beta #2: 398; perfect u/s 3/11 hb @133bpm
    u/s 3/25 one perfect hb @183 bpm, adjusted EDD 10/23/13
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  • We haven't. Sounds weird, but we both agree we'll feel better about DTD after the first ultrasound next Friday. :/
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  • imagemchupie:

    Who still hasn't had sex since their BFP? Or even since baby was conceived? (haha - guilty).

    If that's not the case, let me live vicariously through you and tell me how much sex you're having.

    Only 3 or 4 times but dh has only been home one week since bfp. If e was here it would be more. Luckily only 2 more weeks until he gets another week home. 

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  • got bfp on dec 30 and have done it once last week bc I felt bad for poor dh. Funny tho with DS i was like a cat in heat bet he wishes i was now ha ha

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  • oh and bc im on endometrin i made him wear a condom bc i was grossed out haha,..poor guy!!!
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  • I think we've done it 2 or 3 times since our BFP.  I just feel like crap.  Meh, sorry hubs.
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  • We havent were both on the same page with waiting until the first u/s which is tomorrow!!! Kind of scared though...I'm really gonna have to be in the mood haha
  • We aren't allowed to "put anything in the vajayjay" until after the first trimester per doctors orders. I have a CL cyst that is rather large and the doc is afraid it might twist around my ovary again if we do anything. We've done some other things though ;)

     

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  • H and I have sex at least 2-3 times a week (sometimes more), and pregnancy doesn't stop us, in fact the larger my breasts get the more gung ho he gets... of course if we're put on pelvic rest we'd stop, but I still enjoy sex while pregnant so no big deal here.
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  • I think we've only had sex twice since BFP.  I was way too freaked out about spotting and then now I feel like crap.  Poor DH...
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  • This girl!
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  • Once since BFP.  No drive.
  • I wouldn't have sex with him for the first couple of weeks after my bfp, but we were creative ; ). Now we are having sex every day or every other day when he is home (he's gone for 5 days and home for 4) I havent really enjoyed sex all that much though because Im nervous and can't relax all the way, but I do it for him, because there are times I dont feel good and I want to do it before I get huge and more uncomfortable.

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  • Not since conception. I feel like crap and usually have to initiate things and I do t have the energy. 
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  • Nope, we haven't had any.  I haven't really had the energy.  I do have a wicked headache right now that a quick romp could fix...but I just can't!
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  • Not since conception Sad.  Had visitors over the holidays, then I got a UTI and now I'm just too nauseous & exhausted.  I hope we can make it happen soon.
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