I believe every man has a remote issue...lol.
Here is my typical experience: my DH can not watch commercials. So we are watching something...getting interesting, then oh no, a commercial. He switches stations...begins watching something else...ooh this is interesting and good...5 minutes go by.....switches back to original station which is already in progress......
Time goes by.....DH snores....I sneak up and grab remote and put on something I like....dh awakens..."I was watching that!!!"
Aaaahhhh! I'm not alone, right?
Re: Men and the remote
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I think your DH and my DH may be in fact be, clones. This is almost a nightly thing for us.... It drives me outrageously batty!
Me: 34 Dh: 41, Married: Oct 15th 2011
Me: Deteriorating Ovarian Reserve, Hostile Uterus
Dh: Slow but Healthy Swimmers
Round 1 Clomid 100mg 7/12/2013
BFP 8/2/2013 EDD 4/14/2014
Charlotte Born on 4/23/3014
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I like the nickname
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
Yes! Didn't mean to exclude ya! You are not alone! So annoying.....
Don't worry, I didn't feel excluded...I'm just glad there are other people out there driving their spouses crazy with the effing remote! My wife is basically the clone of all my (straight) friends' husbands, so this is not surprising.
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
Yup, me too...seems common in all age groups as well, my mom battles with my stepfather constantly about this.....that means we will deal with this forever! We need a support group lol
we can call it remoteless anonymous..ha ha!
I know exactly what u mean!
And me...
TTC #1 since March 2011
1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
DS1 born 2/14
TTC #2 since December 2014
May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
DS2 born 4/17
Haha my husband does the EXACT same thing! Also, if I am watching TV and he comes home or comes in from the other room or something he will walk over motioning with his hand like "give me that" to the remote. As if it belongs to him and I don't know how to use it! Or his famous "can I see that for a second, I just want to 'check' something" and then I never see the remote again for the rest of the night!
Lol! I thought this only happened in our household. This happens a lot with football. I think the monotone cheering of the crowd puts him to sleep. He can always hear me pick up the remote from the coffee table even if I pick it up slowly. So funny!
TTC #1 since Feb. 2011/Me 30, DH 37
Unexplained
Nov. 2012-IUI #1-Femara 2.5 mg, Ovidrel=BFN
Jan. 2013-IUI #2-Femara 2.5 mg, Ovidrel, 1 follie=BFN
Feb. 2013-IUI #3-Clomid 50 mg on CD5 only, 2 follies=BFN
IVF#1 (4/13)-19 retrieved, 18 mature, 16 fertilized w/ ICSI=lucky #7 frosties
ET cancelled due to OHSS
FET #1 June 2013/transferred 2=Chemical
FET #2 August 2013/transferred 2=Chemical
FET #3 October 2013=BFN
IVF#2 (2/14)-17 retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized w/ ICSI, 3 blasts, PGS= all 3 abnormal
IVF#3 (5/14)-13 retrieved, 11 mature, 9 fertilized w/ ICSI, 2 blasts, PGS=both abnormal
IVF#4 (8/14)-5-day transfer of 2 embies=BFP! (8/28/14) beta 99
U/S #1 (6 wks, 2 days)=1 bean, U/S#2 (8 weeks, 2 days)=180 HB, U/S #3 (10 weeks)=measuring 10 wks, 2 days
Oh yeah! The "check something"...I forgot that! Oh geez...they're all the same
My in-laws just have his and hers TVs...solves the problem but seems kind of lonely!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
Also, if I change the station once my husband falls asleep it will wake him up and he will comment about how stupid the show is and make fun of it until he falls back asleep!
Are we married to the same guy. This is the exact to a T situation at our house.
Clomid- No response
Metformin 1500 mg Femara 5mg + Trigger + TI Round 2 = BFP!
Beta 13DPO: 115, Beta 16dpo: 561 BFP Chart
I am the TV control freak because I love TV. I like watching commercials and I don't like flipping because you might miss the show when it comes back! Thankfully we like all the same shows so we don't need to argue over what to watch.
MH does have the "watch two things at once" problem. Where he will watch one thing on TV and then another show on his iPad.
((yells at H)) How can you listen to both at once??
In our house, I'm the one who can't stand commercials. I'm constantly scanning through the channels and I'm very good at watching a few things at once. (Only if it's junk reality or reruns, not a show I'm actually into- then I'll stick with one.) I'm just tired of the logging shows (Ax Men, Swamp Loggers) that DH is into. Really, how many times can you watch someone chop down a tree?
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