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1st Trimester
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I would of liked have a nice thing going on here at the bump, but from one single question if i could ride fair rides i have been called lots of hurtful things if im an idiot if im dumb ect.. I thot this website was for support...i'm only 16 trying my best and was looking for support but didnt find it here. wish you ladies luck to happy pgs!
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Oh boy, this will not be going over well
http://wwwcirillofamily.blogspot.com/
BFP#1 12/23/11 EDD 8/29/12. Frank P. Cirillo IV born on 8/19/12 at 2:34am. Grew his wings and went to heaven on 8/25/12.
My sweet angel Frankie. Love you so much!
BFP #2 5/21/13 EDD 1/25/14 Sam Frank P. born 1/17/14 Our rainbow baby is here!!
January 2015 PAL- Advice
Oh boy, this will not be going over well
http://wwwcirillofamily.blogspot.com/
BFP#1 12/23/11 EDD 8/29/12. Frank P. Cirillo IV born on 8/19/12 at 2:34am. Grew his wings and went to heaven on 8/25/12.
My sweet angel Frankie. Love you so much!
BFP #2 5/21/13 EDD 1/25/14 Sam Frank P. born 1/17/14 Our rainbow baby is here!!
January 2015 PAL- Advice
Just in general, don't post that you're going to do something that is stated "do not do while pregnant" such as fair rides because you "are 16 and want to have some fun."
You could learn a lot from this board. Your feelings will get hurt on here, I am sure BUT that is life. You are a pregnant 16 year old, you need to develop tougher skin to deal with your life from now on. If you think we're harsh, real life is going to be horrid.
Make a pregnancy ticker
carson&cj"sounds like you need a life! if you have kids and spend your time on here. I know what real life is about, and its not this."
was this directed towards me?
Bravo!
https://www.babycenter.com/
You'll fit in well.
It totally sucks what people were saying to you. I'd say roll with what your OB said. Women are not made of glass. You can still have fun while being preggers, especially this early. Just don't go on any rides called "The Gut-Punch" lol! I've known many women who kept up their normal life, jobs, activities, and such right up until they gave birth. Good luck with your journey and have fun!
And for the record I have heard of alot of people drinking while pregnant, saying a glass of wine is fine or one cigarette isn't terrible. My friend rode horseback during her entire pregnancy and the baby was safe. People are so mean on this 1st Trimester board and I don't know why. Remember the Golden Rule-Treat others how you want to be treated!HA! If you think people are "mean" on this board you should give up and move onto BabyCenter now. This board is so P&R it's ridiculous.
Was their really a point to you saying this? Or do you just feel better knowing it's not the "worst" why can't we just support each other in our common journey? Is it really that hard? I'd rather read positive and uplifting things where we encourage one another and don't put each other down =]
Hello, whatever your name is.
This is Cesar. I am Carson's bf soon to be fiancee, soon to be husband.
You, my fellow human being, are an idiot.
Pick on someone your own size, or at least me.
Sometimes things happen and we don't understand why, all we can do is keep going forward and be thankful for everything that happens.
I for one am thankful for this beautiful creation that will be born in August.
Why should you listen or even pay attention to what I am typing?
Because you are an idiot, and idiots say stupid things.
Your offensive words and negative attitude and behavior got you where you are today, which is exactly nowhere because you have the time on your hands to be judging others instead of finding productive ways of spending your sorry life.
Why do my words even matter?
Because you are an idiot. I am saying it more than once so you can remember.
I was accepted to Cornell U, Princeton, Harvard...whatever you name all those ivy league schools.
Look my name up on google "Cesar A. Garcia, Jr"
I spelled it out for you so your dumb ass doesn't type it wrong.
I don't get on this very much, but you pissed me off.
Idiot.
Anyways,
Hope I made your day better.
-Cesar A. Garcia, Jr.
Yep, and if she had been thrown from the horse, and it had killed her baby, that would have been something she would have had to live with forever. Likewise, if something happens on one of these rides, how will the OP deal with that? See, that's the grown up way to think about things. Not, oh woe is me, I got pregnant and can't do whatever i want.
how about contraceptive failure?
Idiot. Like I said.
I call 'em like I see 'em.
Plain stupid idiot.
Just stop typing before you make yourself look even more stupid.
And alcoholics say they can stop whenever they want, and drug addicts say the drugs aren't bad for you. You are giving horrible, uninformed, and possibly dangerous advice here. Just because someone once did something without any problem doesn't mean that it's safe. It means they got LUCKY. Why take those risks if you don't have to.
OP - I mean this in the nicest way possible (no snark intended). This is not the only pregnancy message board out there. No one was mean to you, they were honest and blunt. If that's not your style and you don't like it here, check out some other sites. Try babygaga.com or babycenter.com. They may be more your speed. Either way, GL to you.
Edit: typo
Cesar,
There are many other ways you could of handled this. You DO NOT know what is going on in any of your lives. And you are judging right back, and calling us names. I didn't say anything negative or offense, I just think you guys over looked anything positive said. Getting excepted into big colleges doesn't make you any better then any of us-or any smarter. Don't let your temper get the best of you, it'll only lead to bad things. I payed attention to what you were said, and I am certainly NOT and idiot, and even though I don't agree with a lot of things others say, I do NOT think they are idiots. Maybe your next note to this board could be an apology for how you reacted.
By the way, I have free time on my hands right now because I'm in Italy with my husband who is in the Army. He is currently in Germany for pre-deployment training. Plus it's midnight here, and I choose to stay home with my cat when it's late. I explained this so you might be able to understand that you DO NOT know anything about our lives. I hope your pregnancy goes well with your girlfriend. I will be praying for your family. Best of luck on this journey
*lurking*
The best way to not be offended is to know who you are, and decide before hand that you are who you set yourself out to be. TB is and always will be chuck full of hormonal women. ESPECIALLY in the first tri. BUT it gets better. There is another girl on here who is 15 and pg, and she seems to be able to keep her head up w/ all the BS that happens on here. When you are on these boards it is pretty much expected of you to already know not to ask the "simple" questions, otherwise you will get flamed.
BUT if you can't handle it here, you more than likely do need to stick w/ a more "PC" type website. I've taken breaks from here in the first tri because of things said on here, but after a while I realized that it was my hormones getting hurt... not my feelings. lol if that even makes a lick of sense. Just because one person or 50 people say something about you doesn't mean it's true. Because YOU know better. Have self satisfaction that these ladies don't know you, and can't make an informed opinion about you.
As for the BF... Honestly... you don't need to be throwing out your "ivy league" acceptances... pregnant ladies don't care. And name calling... you are just lowering yourself to the level of those demeaning your GF. Your girl said her peace, and that's all that was needed. BUT having said that... good for you for sticking up for your GF because that's what real men do.
*there
Wow you really managed to mess that quote up.
My point is that I don't want to have to read your melodramatic GBCB post in about two week's time, so move along to BabyCenter if hearts and squees is what you are looking for.
If a poster asks for advice, gets some good ones and then blatantly ignores the advice for a "Screw you this is what I think" post, of course people will get annoyed. Why ask for advice if the poster isn't going to listen to it?
I don't understand what point you are trying to get across.
I do have a tip for you: try being nice to people, it might raise your self esteem =] I know you tried to be and tried to give me your own form of "help" but it comes of as mean and kinda bitchy. Just trying to help you out so you don't run into further problems. I really hope things are going well and you're little one is healthy as can be! God bless =]BY THE WAY: It's not a quote it's a bible verse and all I did was reword it, so stick that in your pipe and smoke it =]
Mathew 7:12 "So in everything, do unto others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law of the Prophets."
Out of curiosity, who wrote your application essays?
OP-
you posted 3 different posts about fair rides and did not like the responses...soooooo GBCB!!!!
1. She was talking about The Bump's quote feature you messed up, and which you continue to mess up.
2. Did you SERIOUSLY just quote the Bible and tell someone to "stick that into your pipe and smoke it"???!!
Thank you for making me laugh today. I'm a Harvard grad, and I needed that. I am surprised you know how to spell "all those ivy league schools"
And alcoholics say they can stop whenever they want, and drug addicts say the drugs aren't bad for you. You are giving horrible, uninformed, and possibly dangerous advice here. Just because someone once did something without any problem doesn't mean that it's safe. It means they got LUCKY. Why take those risks if you don't have to.
OP - I mean this in the nicest way possible (no snark intended). This is not the only pregnancy message board out there. No one was mean to you, they were honest and blunt. If that's not your style and you don't like it here, check out some other sites. Try babygaga.com or babycenter.com. They may be more your speed. Either way, GL to you.
I don't think you understood my point, it was more that she did go horseback riding before she was pregnant and he doctor approved it. I'm sorry for the confusion. Thanks for trying to help. My feelings did get hurt when you said I was giving horrible advice, I am only trying to help, and I don't usually post or comment on here. I just don't like seeing people get attacked or being down, I guess I am just sensitive to others feelings.Then your friend and her doctor are both idiots. It is reckless to participate in activities that are a KNOWN RISK to your baby. I am a professional skier, and guess what...I'm not skiing this winter. No matter how good you are, you can fall or get hit by someone else, and even the best horse can throw it's rider. I'm sorry if you think that's a hurtful answer, but some things can't be sugar coated. Every pregnancy book will tell you that certain activities are not safe and not recommended. Your friend's baby was not safe, she was lucky.
Under each person's comment there is a "quote" button right next to the "reply" button. Hit that and it will take you to a screen that allows you to reply with the quoted person's statement above yours. You can edit whatever part of the statement you want to at that point.
I am laughing so hard at this that I hope it starts up some contractions for me! Who has their bf/fiance or whatever come onto a forum to start sh*t? This has been the most entertainment I have had all day (on maternity leave). Thank you Cesar A. Garcia, Jr. LOL
Thank you, seriously in tears because someone responded! Thank you Thank you!
(Note:First over-emotional time during this pregnancy-@12 weeks =] )