Pregnant after a Loss

In Limbo :(

Well, I should be 6w6d today.  The largest measurement they could get on the u/s was 5w6d.  They could see the gest. sac and the yolk sac and something the tech thought would become the baby, but no official baby, yet. 

When we went back to talk with the doc, he wasn't completely pessimistic.  He said it could still just be early, but when he looked at my labs and I gave him what should be my O date, he wasn't completely hopeful, either.  If my HCG has doubled as it should, I should be in the 16,000-20,000 range and he didn't like that we couldn't see a HB if they're up that high.  We set up another u/s for next Tuesday, but they went ahead and took another five vials of blood.  If those numbers come back low, we'll know.  If they're good, then hopefully we'll see baby on Tuesday.

This waiting game SUCKS!!!!

BFP #1 9-15-11; EDD 5-28-12. US 6w2d, growth

BFP #2 12-6-11 and 12-7-11; EDD 8-17-12. US 6w6d measuring 5w6d. Misoprostol Assisted m/c 1-16-12 at 9w3d.

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  • sorry you're having to sit back and wait. I know it sucks. ::Hugs:: I hope everything comes back great on Tuesday!
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  • (( big hugs)) I am thinking about you and sending tons of t&p ur way. I wish you aren't in limbo and I hope everything is great with LO. I am praying for you :) hang in there and grow baby grow!

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  • Sending so many thoughts and prayers. ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry you are stuck in limbo.  Sending lots of T&Ps that your blood tests come back good and you see a nice strong LO on Tuesday.  Please keep us updated and ((Big HUGS)) for the meantime.
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  • Aw that does suck!  I hope that you get good news soon!  Good luck!
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  • I'm hoping you get some good news.  I'm so sorry you're stuck wondering. 
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  • Oh my goodness, ((hugs)). I am sending up lots of thoughts and prayers that everything goes well.
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    Sending major T&P's your way, praying for a very healthy LO. When will your b/w be back?

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  • The waiting game is the WORST!  I am so sorry your u/s didn't show more.  I'm thinking of you.  Keep us posted!
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    Sending major T&P's your way, praying for a very healthy LO. When will your b/w be back?

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    They didn't say and I didn't think to ask.  It will either be this afternoon or tomorrow.  If I don't hear from them by 4, I may call and just check.  We did it right around lunch time, so I'm not sure if that was too late to get it in today or if it will be tomorrow.  

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    BFP #2 12-6-11 and 12-7-11; EDD 8-17-12. US 6w6d measuring 5w6d. Misoprostol Assisted m/c 1-16-12 at 9w3d.

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  • the limbo game really does suck... thought & prayers going your way!
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  • Sorry that you're in limbo. I hope you get great news!
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  • I'm so sorry Maxsom. FX that the blood tests show good things and next u/s shows a healthy baby.

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  • Oh sweetie I absolutely HATE this for you.  You have all my Ts&Ps, will be waiting for Tuesday along with you.  I know you are a big charter, but maybe there was some kind of mistake?  I am sorry you have to worry!!!
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this! I am so sad to see you post this! I really hope things turn out for the best for you and your LO! I will keep you in my T&P! 
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  • Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts for great news this afternoon and on Tuesday. (hugs)
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  • I hope everything looks great for you Tuesday!
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this! Put your feet up this weekend and try to relax. FX the baby is just a slow starter or they didn't have a good view today and everything will look on track Tuesday. You and your LO will be in my T&P, ((hugs))!
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  • Oh Maxsom, I will be keeping you in my prayers.

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  • Ugggh I am so sorry you are in limbo too - I'm right there with you :(

    Hang in there and stay away from google! Prayers for you and LO.

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  • Oh this waiting just stinks!  Sending positive thoughts and prayers for you!  Grow baby!

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  • I am sorry about the limbo but keep the faith.  When I went in at 6 weeks the Dr. could see the yolk sac and gestational sac but wasn't sure about a baby.  2 weeks later the baby was there with a strong heartbeat!
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  • big hugs and best wishes to you in these next few days of waiting, and fingers majorly crossed for great bloodwork results and Tuesday's u/s!
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  • Thanks, ladies.  All of your support means a lot, especially from my TTCAL friends.  My husband told me yesterday that he felt like he "short changed" me for Christmas and to take $100 and get myself something nice.  So, I'm taking him up on that offer and going out for some retail therapy, then having dinner with my sister tonight.  I'll let you ladies know if I hear anything.
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  • Awww, FX that everything ends up turning out well for you!
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    FX that everything's ok!

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  • Sorry you are in limbo..... sending many positive thoughts to you. Good Luck!
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  • Oh I'm so sorry you are in limbo. Many T&P your way
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  • Sorry. I've been right there in your shoes once, and it sucked. There was a heartbeat the following week. don't give up hope.

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  • **sneaking in**

    Maxsom I am so sorry you are going through this. There is nothing harder then this waiting game. It is so hard but do your best to try to stay positive. I have everything crossed that your b/w comes back great and next Tuesday you see your healthy LO.

    **sneaking out** 

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  • I am sorry to hear that you are in this horrible waiting place. Praying for a healthy LO next Tuesday. 
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this and stuck waiting. I really hope you get good news from the b/w and you get to see your LO with a strong HB next week. ((Big, Big Hugs))
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  • Oh, Max, I'm so sorry you're in this place. Many prayers for you and your LO that b/w will be good and you'll see a hb in the next u/s!! (((big, squishy hugs)))
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  • So sorry you are in limbo. 

     

    My doc said we should see a heart beat when my hcg was 25,000, but my o date still put me at 5 weeks and some days. We didn't see a heartbeat until the following week. Fingers crossed for you.  

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  • (((Big hugs))) I am sorry that you didn't get to see more. Remember that you are still very early so don't lose hope. Wishing you all the best at your next appointment.
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  • T & P are definitely with you Maxsom! The waiting game is awful, but you're strong. Just remember that. GL!!
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  • I'm so sorry you have to wait so long to get some answers.  Sending thoughts and prayers your way that everything is ok.
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  • I am so sorry about the limbo. T&Ps all the b/w is good and LO is just a little younger than you thought.
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  • Aww that stinks. Do not give up. Sending you many positive thoughts.
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  • Oh sweetie! ( hugs) I'm so sorry your in limbo. Hopefully it's just earlier than you thought.
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