We have a sweet 4 month old boy are hoping to conceive again soon but AF hasn't returned yet. I am EBFing and don't want to start solids until 6 months....he has started STTN so I'm hoping that kicks my fertility back - anyone have experience with ttc and breastfeeding? Hoping to join you ladies eventually!! Happy holidays!
Re: Getting pregnant while EBF
Danica 10.22.10 | Milo 12.23.12
I am currently pregnant with my second, and I EBF still. It did take a LONG time for AF to come back, like over a year. We actively TTC for 2-3 months and starting charting on the 4th month. That's all it took- but everyone is very different. Just make sure you dont give up the BF too soon, just because you want to TTC- the bonding experience its like nothing else (my humble opinion) and If it helps any, I am still EBF and will until my son weans on his own.
I recently found out I am pregnant and I am still nursing my 13 month old daughter. I never introduced formula but did introduce baby food at 6 months, and started whole milk at 12 months. She currently nurses 2 times a day. My period returned around 6 months PP, even though I EBF.
Good luck. OPK sticks are great and the ones at the dollar store do work.
Thanks ladies! I guess I just have to be patient - I definitely agree and don't plan to reduce nursing in order to ttc! I used opks from the dollar store to conceive my Max! Thanks for the replies, hope to be back one day!!
We got lucky and caught the 1st egg before I ever had a period. Woot! DS was 9 months old and had been on solids for 3 months. He had been sleeping through the night since around 3-4 months and that did not bring my fertility back. When my fertility returned, he was down to BFing before his 2 naps and before bedtime
The week before I got my BFP, I actually had my annual with my gyno/OB and discussed how to bring my fertility back. She recommended substituting one BFing session with pumping because I did want to BF until he was at least a year.
Besides having sex all willy nilly, I am not sure how you could proactively TTC while EBFing. Not sure if you charted with your 1st or not, but you could start temping and checking CM. (Read Taking Charge of Your Fertility if you don't know what I am talking about.) I actually started charting a week before my annual appt but I was already on my way to being pregnant at the time. Oh, the irony.
Good luck!
Last year I had my first son August 14th 2010. I was EBFing him when I became pregnant with my second 3 months later. I had my second boy August 26 2011 so it is definitely possible to concieve will EBFing.
Two babies close together is so much fun! Good Luck!
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I got pg while ebfing and never having a period. I also was on the mini pill....
We started solids and she was bfing less than 6x a day so it jump started my system.
I was EBFing DD and AF came back at 6 mo PP. got KU at 9 mo PP without TTC. My supply tanked so at 10.5 mo we had to supplement. I was able to nurse just in the mornings until she was a year and had enough pumped milk to make it to a year with our nanny and we did formula at night and weekends.
I read some stat that about 50% of women get AF back by 6 months.
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