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It's over.......again

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On sunday when I was at work (I work in a hospital) I started having very, very, very sharp cramps mainly on my right side. I could barley walk or stand up straight. So I finally manage to walk over to the ER to get checked out. To make a long story short, they did a u/s and found out that I was having another ectopic pregnancy. The ER  Dr. ended up admitted me over night until I talked to the Ob. On Mon. I talked to the ob and he gave me options if I want to have another surgery or injections. with my 1st ectopic just last year, I did'nt want to go through having another surgery again. So he gave me the injection methotrexate. So I'm home now and waiting to M/C. Surprising I'm ok wtih it. I havent shed one tear..........yet. I just cant believe that this is my 4th loss. I'm at that point where I dont want to do this anymore.  I wish everyone nothing but the best. Ladies have a H&H pregnancies. xoxoxo
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  • liesamliesam member
    I am so so sorry you're going through this again. ((big hugs))
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  • lovin life23lovin life23 member
    I am so sorry ((huge hugs))...dont give up! maybe a break might be good, DH and I took two solid months of a break (I wasnt ovulating anyway) to regain our footing, think things over, pray about a lot and it really helped.....I wish you the best girl!!
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  • HBayliesHBaylies member
    I'm so very sorry.
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  • MickeyM04MickeyM04 member
    I am so incredibly sorry for yoru loss.  My T&Ps are with you and DH during this difficult time.  Best of luck to you and I wish you nothing but the best in whatever you decide to do in the future.  ((hugs))
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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member
    Oh no!!! :( I am so so sorry. This is so unfair. ((huge hugs))
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  • emd2887emd2887
    I am so very sorry you are going through this again. 
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  • texasmeg1texasmeg1 member
    I am so sorry you have to go through this again. T&Ps for you and your family.
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  • HaleyCinTXHaleyCinTX
    So sorry to hear about another loss for you, lots of hugs your way.
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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    I'm so very sorry that you are going through this again and for your loss.  Please take care of yourself.  ((Big HUGS))
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  • walker03walker03 member
    I am so sorry to hear that you have to go through that misery again.  Hugs to you.  And best wishes for you!
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  • orange_rosesorange_roses
    Big, big hugs to you! I am so sorry you are going through this again. Lots of T&P to you!
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  • kellbelle618kellbelle618 member
    No, no, no. This is just not fair. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself lady. ((big hugs))
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  • bellablue2bellablue2
    Right HugI am so sorry for your losses.
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    I am so sorry for your losses, it isn't fair. Please take care of yourself as you begin to heal (hugs).
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  • EricaK28EricaK28 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • jaxie320jaxie320
    My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry you are going through another loss. Please take care of yourself.
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  • Babe2CBabe2C member
    My heart breaks for you, I am so very sorry you have to go through this again. Sending big ((hugs)) and you and your DH will be in my T&P...
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  • Kasi80Kasi80 member

    I'm so so sorry you're going through this again. 

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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    I am so sorry you are having to go through this again!

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  • pb&fluffpb&fluff member
    So sorry for your loss, beloved.
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  • candacek31candacek31 member
    I am so sorry you are going through this again.  I wish you the best as you make it through this terrible time.
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  • williams4mewilliams4me member
    I am so, so sorry you are having to go through this again.  Sad  (((((Hugs)))))
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  • racampbell1racampbell1
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.  Right Hug
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  • karma79karma79 member
    I am so sorry. 
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  • loves*green*mlkglassloves*green*mlkglass member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this heartache again.  Take care of yourself.  Big, big {{hugs}} to you and your DH.
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  • LuvmybellaLuvmybella
    I'm so very sorry.  This isn't fair Sad
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  • aflowersaflowers
    I'm so very sorry that you've had to go through everything that you have. You are very strong.
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    I'm so incredibly sorry, ((big hugs))
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  • ChristinaCTChristinaCT
    No one should have to go through loss multiple times (((bug hugs))). I am so sorry.
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  • charmedgrl517charmedgrl517 member
    ((huge hugs)) I am so sorry your are going through this a fourth time :(. You are so incredibly strong! T&P to you 

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  • xoladiebugxoladiebug member
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member
    Sonofabiitch. WTH universe. I am so sorry :(
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  • LottaLattesLottaLattes member
    Oh sweetie, I'm so, so sorry for your loss(es).  My heart breaks for you *HUGS*
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  • mbs79mbs79 member
    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you're able to find peace during this time.
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  • coastalmainecoastalmaine member
    It is absolutely unfair that you are having to go through this again.  Sending you strength.
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  • xnbridexnbride member
    What?! My heart sank when I saw your post. I am just  so incredibly sad, and frustrated, and angry and heartbroken for you. There are no words to bring you comfort. I am just so very sorry.

     

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  • kevinandmonica2011kevinandmonica2011
    ((Big hugs)). My heart breaks for you. I am so so sorry hun.
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  • E3A7AGGIEE3A7AGGIE member
    I am so sorry :( Many big (((HUGS))), thoughts, & prayers to you.
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  • lisaNDmike08lisaNDmike08
    I'm so sorry.  :-(  Sending you lots of hugs and t&p!
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  • NY-allieNY-allie
    I'm so sorry.
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