So, at 26 weeks I had PTL contractions for three days straight (didn't know that's what they were at first), they only calmed down with magnesium in the hospital. No dilation, though. Cervix was 2.4 cm at this time. Then they put me on bed rest. Cervix went back up to 3.1 range. A few weeks ago, it went back to 2.4 range and it's been like that for 2 weeks straight (at least it's stable). In my last appointment, (Friday), they told me I'm dilated 1/2 cm. They've taken me off bed rest, though - they say light activity shouldn't affect anything, and a 1/2 cm could be a sign, or it could mean nothing. No contractions, fortunately.
Some questions...
Re: 34 weeks - 1/2 cm dilated, 2.4cm cervix - questions...
My first was born at 35.5 weeks, we took her home 2 days later, no NICU stay, no preemie "issues". Obviously, my story doesn't mean it's "always" like that, but I'd be comfortable w/ your doc's rec's if I was 34 weeks.
No idea about insurance, I'm assuming it will be under the babies?
We didn't BF. Assuming you have no BF'ing complications and a big IF your baby winds up in the NICU, you can BF while you're there, pump when you're not. We rented the pump instead of buying just in-case my milk never came (which it didn't). If you do have supply issues, you can meet w/ a LC and also look into milk banks. We just FF and it worked out just fine for us.
Cerclage placed @ 21w6d due to CI (IC)
1. My cervix was a 1.7 at 28 weeks and I went on bedrest. It went up to 2.1 at one point, but that was about it. I made it to 35 weeks. At 33 weeks I was 4 cm dialated, and still at home on bedrest.
2. Your baby could go home right away or have to stay depending on any complications. I dont know if any of us can answer that question.
3. By yours or his, do you mean your SO's? It depends who's ins you are going to put the baby on. H and I had seperate ins, because he had switched jobs and my policy at that time was better. I believe you have so many days after the child is born to call the ins company and have them added to your policy or your SO's.
4.. It doesnt sound like your dr is under estimating, but if you feel uncomfortable it cant hurt to ask to see another doctor, or talk to her more about your concern.
5. If you can't breastfeed your premie, you could pump, I would assume?
Just some advice...I know its so scary with a shirt cervix and being dialated. But I did go for 2 week dialated to a 4 before my water broke. I also went 7 weeks with a 1.7 cervical length. So it definitley can be done. Try to rest, stay off your feet as much as possible.
One last thing, my 35 weeker was 5 pounds when she was born, and we were able to take her home in 48 hours.