January 2012 Moms

we lost our beautiful baby boy

On Tuesday Dec. 14 at 8:56 AM I gave birth to Gary Bruce DeBlois III.  He was stillborn at 30 weeks 4 days.  The cause of death was determined to be a cord injury.  The cord was wrapped tightly around his neck four times.  He weighed 2lbs12oz, had a full head of hair, mommy's nose, daddy's everything else, and was absolutely perfect.  We were able to spend about two hours privately with him in labor and delivery and feel so blessed to have had even that short amount of time with our beautiful son.  We know that we have a long road to healing ahead of us, but our love for our son and for each other has kept up pushing through these last four days.  Please tell those babies how much you love them today.  Every second with them is a blessing!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Just know that your angel baby will always be looking down on you.  Cherish those few memories you have with him.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. No words will make this better right now. I hope you find comfort in the arms of your loved ones.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. HUGS!
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  • I am so so sorry...we are here if you need us ..please check out the loss board when you feel ready I think you will find a lot of comfort there...many prayers to you and your family
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  • My heart is broken for you and DH!! I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and will keep you and your family in my T&Ps! 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
  • So sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
  • I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.  I would like to second Jen629; the loss boards are fantastic when you are ready.  Please take care of yourself.  ((Big HUGS))
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  • I am terribly sorry for your loss.  Having been through it just this past Jan, I know how hard it was for your to even type out those words.  I hope you and your DH find the strength you need in each other to get through this most difficult time today and everyday for the rest of your lives.  I can't say it gets easier, but you will get to a place where your feelings are managable to everyone else and you can handle your tears and hurt privately.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Please email me if you need anything.  I didn't have many people to talk to about stillbirth, only early miscarriages, and honestly, they are FAR from being the same or comparable. 
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  • Deeply sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my T&Ps.

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  • I'm sorry about your loss.  Someone XP your OP and I hope it doesn't offend you that I read it.  My T&Ps are with you and your family through this incredibly difficult time. (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little one.  I'm sending prayers your way.
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  • I am extremely sorry for your loss.  You will be in my prayers!!!!
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  • You and your Husband are in my thoughts and prayers. I have been where you are at almost the same point in my pregnancy with my Son in May of 2010. I pray your Husband and you can draw strength from each other and help carry your selves through this very difficult time. I will continue to pray for you both.
  • I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son Gary.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're feeling right now, but just know that we're here if you need and want to talk! Sending prayers and thoughts to you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  Huge ((hugs)) to you. 
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  • I am so very sorry.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your baby boy!  I am not part of this board, but I saw a post on another board I'm part of.  I experienced the loss of my son at 25 weeks 2 days.  I wish you and no other mother ever had to feel this way.  When you are ready, please visit the Loss board.  Most of the women there have experienced a late loss for various reason.  They are amazing women and we have open arms!  Again, I am sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Ill keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! We're all here for you.
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  • My heart is breaking for you.  I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss! You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my T&Ps.  I agree with everyone who said to visit the loss boards when you're ready, those ladies are fantastic.  

     

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you and your loved ones can find some measure of comfort in each other. 
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  • I am amazed by how strong you sound.  Many thoughts and prayers are being said.  I am so sorry to hear this.  
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  • I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss.  May you find the comfort and support you and your husband both need. 
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  • I am so sorry of the loss of your precious Gary.  I know there are no words of comfort to offer but please join us on the LOSS board when you feel you are ready.

    It is an amazing group of women.  Once again I am sorry.

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  • I am so, so sorry. 
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  • I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.  You, your family and your precious son are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • I am so sorry for your loss!
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. 

     

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.   

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  • Words cannot express the sadness I feel for you and your DH. I cannot imagine what you both must be going through right now, but please know there are people here who are thinking of you, praying for you, and holding you and little Gary close in our hearts.
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  • Omg that is horrible :(   I am so glad you got to spend time with him and so so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  T&Ps to you and your family.
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