Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

Do you remember discussing hugging at daycare?

Someone was appalled once that their DCP hugged her child.  That's all I remember.  At the time C went to a neighbor who loved him and gave him hugs, which I thought was great.  Cuz I think kids deserve hugs and all.

Now he's going through a SUPER cuddly phase and his new in-home DCP has been commenting on it.  He gave her a great big hug goodbye last night.

I get that a more structured non-in-home daycare might have rules more similar to a school just for legal reasons etc.  but I am still very happy that my affectionate child is getting his hug quota at daycare.

And now that he's older I find it even more asinine that someone thought that her DCP should (if I remember correctly) have her own damn kids if she wanted to hug someone.

Would you agree?

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Re: Do you remember discussing hugging at daycare?

  • E gives hugs to EVERYONE. Her teachers, friends at school, family, etc she doesn't discriminate. Her teachers sometimes ask for them, sometimes she gives them without asking. As we leave her DCP it takes an extra 5-10 mins because there are always kids that want to hug E bye.

    I see nothing wrong with it. I figure they see my kid during the day more than I do so they deserve a hug (and a drink sometimes) when she leaves.

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  • LO isn't cuddly at all, but the one day I arrived and he was letting our in home provider hold him.  She kissed him on the top of the head and I loved it. It made me feel like she genuinely cared for him.  I felt lucky that he spends his day with someone who loves him!
  • My kid doesn't hug or kiss anyone. It makes me a sad panda.

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  • J hugs his teachers and they sometimes give him a peck like on the top of his head  I'm totally fine with both.  He goes to a small center.  Some of the toddlers are in a hugging phase and I get hugs when I come to pick him up.  I think it's adorable. 
  • If Ryan wasn't allowed to hug his favorite teacher at day care they would have a screaming child on their hands for 8 hours a day. He adores his teacher and he loves to give hugs.

    I have zero problems with them giving him hugs! The boy is a snuggler!!

    eta: He's in a center, not an in home

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    If Ryan wasn't allowed to hug his favorite teacher at day care they would have a screaming child on their hands for 8 hours a day. He adores his teacher and he loves to give hugs.

    I have zero problems with them giving him hugs! The boy is a snuggler!!

    I want to hear from the people who are anti-hugging.

    Where are you people?  I KNOW you're out there.  Unless you changed your mind.

     

    I don't remember this thread. Did a lot of people agree that they were anti-hugging?
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  • the bump has the highest percentage of people with their panties in a bunch over stupid shiit than anywhere else. 

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    The DCP at our gym make a game out of seeing who can get my kids to hug them b/c they aren't huggers.  I think it's funny

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  • I'm fine with hugs, but I don't like anyone kissing my kid but me, DH and family. 
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  • The first and last things my DCP says to Aiden day are "Give me a  hug!"  And he does it gladly :)
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  • I'm glad I didn't see the anti hug post.  It would have pissed me off.

    Kiss on the lips, I can understand, but a hug????

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    LO isn't cuddly at all, but the one day I arrived and he was letting our in home provider hold him.  She kissed him on the top of the head and I loved it. It made me feel like she genuinely cared for him.  I felt lucky that he spends his day with someone who loves him!

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  • It would break my heart if I knew my children were at daycare all day and not being loved on.  Both of my boys give hugs and kisses to their teachers when we leave (we go to in in-home, but it's run similar to a center).  We are a very affectionate family and they are still so small.  They need the LOVE!!!
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  • As a teacher - many of the kids will still want to hug you even past 5th grade.  That's when you move to the high five.

     

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  • My LO hugs both of her teachers everyday when I pick her up to leave and they tell her they love her. I love that they are so loving towards her and all the children.
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    I am very pro-hugging and kissing. Kissing on the lips is reserved for me and I'll probably stop that soon (I just don't want to admit he's not a little itty bitty baby anymore), but kiss his head, cheeks, hug him tight ....

     

     

     

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  • Never, because I hoped the DC workers would be affectionate. And they are. :)

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  • Mine are at a center and they both frequently hug their teachers.  I think it's great that they feel so loved and loving toward the people that take care of them all day.  What the heck is wrong with a hug?
  • I don't understand why someone wouldn't want their DCP to hug their child. You are entrusting them with the well being of your child for a good amount of time and you don't want them to hug your child? I mean do they not realize that the child is building a relationship with this person? I am all for hugging if you couldn't tell.

  • DS has even hugged kids we don't know. I of course redeirect him inmediately.

    I wouldn't mind him being hugged by his DCP.

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  • Wow, that is pretty odd. We go to a center and I think all the teachers hug & the more affectionate ones do cheek/head kisses too, doesn't bother me a bit, I like that they love my kids & give them affection.
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