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Round Two Verdict...

LV1979LV1979 member
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BFN!!!!

We are bummed again but already looking forward.  Dr. is suggesting increasing to 100 mg of Clomid and I think we are going to.  Our game plane is for DW to go 4 cycles total then switch to me for a while.  So here I go diving in the fertility trenches on the patient end.  I have an appt next week so we can plan my testing and they are going to do testing on my January cycle for starting to try in Februray.  It feels crazy to be getting al this testing done before we are done her cyles but we both agreed that we dont want to miss any months of trying

I am REALLY hoping it just works in the next two cycles and it wont be necessary for me to try at all. DW is not the most emotional of women and got really bummed this BFN.  I cannot wait until we can just spend some time this weekend regrouping without vagina pills, testing appointments, sperm deliveries, and waiting, waiting, waiting.

I think we may even go out for sushi and a beer Smile

We had three BFN in the Fall of 2011. It is back on to some baby making come June. Swim little fellas, SWIM!!!!
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Re: Round Two Verdict...

  • mandykatiemandykatie
    Aw, I'm sorry.  BFNs always suck.
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  • hlkehlke member
    Sorry to hear about the BFN, that sucks, but glad to hear you are moving forward with your plan.  I think it all sounds very reasonable for you to get ready to take over when DW's cycles are over.
    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
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  • 2brides2brides member
    I am sorry. But have fun having sushi and beer! YUM.
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  • seattlekariseattlekari
    Aw, I'm sorry this wasn't the one. But I do like your consolation plan, go have a good time!!!
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  • leapgirl8leapgirl8 member
    I feel that consolation sushi is the most important part of a BFN cycle. Must not be skipped. Smile
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  • norika33norika33
    Sorry to hear about the BFN- beer indeed
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  • TryingToGrowTryingToGrow

    Aww, damn. I'm sorry to hear about your BFN. Sushi and beer is always good though :) 

    Here's to hoping for a BFP soon! 

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  • KershnicKershnic member

    I'm sorry about your BFN.  Enjoy the sushi and beer!! 

    TTC with PCOS since July 2011.
    IVF Oct/Nov 2012
    Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
    Cautiously optimistic.
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  • ball.and.chainball.and.chain member
    So sorry to hear it!
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
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  • JazibelJazibel member
    BFN's suck :(    Have  a great weekend enjoying sushi and beer.
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