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TTC After a Loss
Shayliz
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Joining you here..
Shayliz
member
Although I'm not quite TTC again as my loss just occurred this week, I figured it is better to get to know the ladies here rather than sit and wait until we are TTC again to post.
My long-ish story is posted on 3T (https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/60712707.aspx) but the cliff notes version is my third round of Clomid and first IUI turned into a fluke ectopic pregnancy (O'd from right, pregnancy ended up on left) that resulted in a complete loss of my left tube on Monday.
The drugs and all the sleep keep me from thinking about the loss too much, but the one thing I can't get over is the fact that there was a heartbeat. It just makes it feel so much worse than if they had just found an empty sac in my tube or something. My previous losses were "easier" (hopefully that isn't offensive to anyone) because I never got to see a heartbeat, or watch them measure an embryo CRL.. but this one is much, much different.
I feel like I'm rambling, which I probably am.. but I hope to be able to offer support and encouragement to ladies here. I think I know a few of you already, but looking forward to knowing more.
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Re: Joining you here..
BFP#1 10 wk missed mc
BFP#2 DS born at 40+2 on 8/14/12 BFP#3 DD Born at 39+3 on 5/13/14
Dx: Feb '13 - HSG shows clear tubes but minor diverticulitis; Borderline DOR; Low DHEA and low testosterone.
Moving on to IUI or IVF.
We've got a peen.....it's a boy!
Little man born 11.17.2013 via c-section
I am so, so sorry for your losses. I have been rooting for you as a lurker on TTGP and PGAL. My heart is breaking for you. I completely understand the sentiment about how seeing a hb and then experiencing loss is devastating. All losses are devastating and I get where you are coming from.
I hope you can heal quickly and that you get your take home baby soon.
BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!!
BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
Congratulations to the fabulous KGS2003! Her sweet boys are here! Grow boys grow!!!
I am also sorry for your loss.
I too have dealt with insomnia due to our loss. In fact, at times I still do. It is a tough thing to deal with on top of everything else.
Welcome and (((hugs)))
I am very sorry for your loss. The women here are wonderful and big hugs and thinking of you.
I recognize you from TTGP and I want to tell you that I am so, so sorry for your loss.
I know that I can't say anything to make it better...all I can say is that it sucks and that I hope you are able to take the time you need to grieve. This board has been a great source of support for me these past two months, and I hope you find the same.
Big hugs to you and know that you are not alone.
I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. I hope you can find the support you need here during this difficult time. This is an amazing group of ladies.
BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD: 5/9/2012 ** Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks
BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD: 12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia 12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!
Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
my blog
TTC#1 starting Feb 2011, BFP #1:5/31/11, CP: 6/6/11; BFP #2: 7/9/11, loss confirmed 8/3 with D&C on 8/12 finding complete molar pregnancy. Forced break until Feb 2012. My blog
Bless your heart =( I am so so so sorry for your losses...
Welcome and Try to Stay Strong... (((Hugs)))
BFP #1 5/4/11 EDD 1/12/12 natural m/c 5/17/11
BFP #2 8/9/11 EDD 4/18/12 ectopic pregnancy (methotrexate) 8/24/11 ruptured tube and removal 8/29/11
BFP #3 3/9/12 EDD 11/19/12 Logan born 11/18/12
~*~*Everyone Welcome*~*~
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Welcome to the board.
((BIG HUGS)) I'm so sorry for your loss.
Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled. However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15! Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!
Surprise! Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due. Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!
I am so sorry for all that you've been through ((HUGS)).
T&Ps that you recover quickly from the surgery and that your time have to TTA flies by quickly.
Shay, sweetie. I'm so so so sorry you're going through this.
I've been thinking about you! Big (gentle) squishy hugs! 
Married my love 6/11/11 | MMC 10/11/11 | Eliza Frances born 9/18/12 | Rhett Garland born 2/24/14
BFP #2 12-6-11 and 12-7-11; EDD 8-17-12. US 6w6d measuring 5w6d. Misoprostol Assisted m/c 1-16-12 at 9w3d.
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