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agran
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Married October 28, 2006, TTC since March 2009 IUI #1-8 w/ clomid = BFN
IVF # 1 May, 2011 = BFP!!! Stillbirth at 26 weeks (placental failure/severe IUGR)
FET #1 February, 2012-- BFP! Beta #1=84 Beta #2= 207 Beta #3= 3,526
Our Rainbow Baby is on the Way!
Genetically Perfect-- Vent
agran
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Just got the call this morning that all our chromosomal testing of Lilly came back normal. So her loss was really just bad luck. Not sure how I feel about that. I wish there was an explanation so I would know it won't happen again but I'm glad she was perfect in every way. This sucks.
This is being a really bad week. A co-worker told me yesterday she is 16 weeks pregnant with twins. She did IVF and thanked me for having fertility problems because that's what made her get checked out. She had DOR and went straight to IVF so 4 months after she and her DH started TTC she is pregnant with twins. Her office is next to mine and I spent the whole day listening to everyone congratulate her and talk about IVF and how great it is. It's like water torture. I'm happy for her, really I am, I am just so sad I didn't get a happy ending.
Sorry... I just needed to vent and I'm trying not to be a Debbie Downer to everyone I know in real life. This really isn't a plea for people to feel sorry for me... it's just me needing to whine. Thanks for letting me do that.
Married October 28, 2006, TTC since March 2009 IUI #1-8 w/ clomid = BFN
IVF # 1 May, 2011 = BFP!!! Stillbirth at 26 weeks (placental failure/severe IUGR)
FET #1 February, 2012-- BFP! Beta #1=84 Beta #2= 207 Beta #3= 3,526
Our Rainbow Baby is on the Way!
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Re: Genetically Perfect-- Vent
This.
The Blog
Dude. If ANYONE even comes close to calling you a Debbie Downer IRL, let me know. I will go kick theirass. And I'm pretty sure MC has some diabolical skillz when it comes to impromptu exterior home decorating
I'm sorry for the good news, no news, bad news. That would make my head and heart churn too =(.
(((Hugs)))
I'm so sorry you're having to still deal with all this - from Lilly, to your coworker, to the not-so-good-good-news on the chromosones. You don't deserve all this. We're always here as a shoulder to cry on, or just an ear to whine to.
Ugh. Yeah, that would torture me too. I'm so sorry, Agran. That just stinks.
And I would totally get some ear plugs, or maybe ear phones and listen to some Chopin on low or whatever you're able to work while listening to.
Hugs!
((Hugs))
If anyone deserves to have a whine post, it's totally you. I'm sorry you're having a bad/sad day.
This. I'm sorry
Ditto, well said, Rssn.
BFP 12.20.2010 :: missed m/c 1/2011 around 8 weeks
BFP @ 9dpo 5.24.2011 :: missed m/c 6/2011 around 7 weeks
positive for ANAs (1:40) with a speckled pattern
MTHFR c677t mutation (heterozygous)
*folic acid, baby asprin, Prometrium, acupuncture, Lovenox*
BFP @ 9dpo 2.1.2012 || HCG = 8 : Progesterone = 19.2
2nd HCG @ 11dpo = 40 || 3rd HCG @ 21dpo = over 5000!
Stick, little one, stick! EDD October 15, 2012
ditto!
TTC #1 since February 2011
BFP #1 1/14/12 EDD 9/24/12 m/c at 8w4d on 2/20/12
March 2012- Dx with PCOS, started metformin
July 2012- SA completely normal