I met with my midwife for the first time yesterday and we talked about whether VBAC is an option. The hospital here allows it (very small hospital), but I won't even know until I'm 30 weeks whether I'll have a shot. There are no OB doctors here, and there is only one family practice doctor in this town that can be there for a VBAC.
When I'm 30 weeks I'll have a meeting with this doctor and he gets to say whether or not he'll allow it. The midwife thought he would probably approve since I delivered my son vaginally, but she couldn't guarantee. Then the other thing that could be an issue is his schedule. If he's gone, then I don't get a chance.
I'm just feeling frustrated with the situation. My only other option is to go 5 hours away, but that isn't really an option. With my husband's work and two little kids, we can't uproot for an indefinite amount of time.
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