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So to top off my crappy morning..

I'm sitting here looking at baby names.. wtf is wrong with me.. Find a good man first VQ then worry about babies.. I guess I just can't turn that switch off Huh? I've always been a bit obsessive about baby names.. atleast I'll have an awesome list when I do finally find a man and have babies Stick out tongue
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  • Go ahead and work on the list!  That way when you find him you can let him pick a name from the pre-approved list- I have always thought about baby names- with or without a guy!  
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  • Step away from the baby names....

    But I totally get this. I constantly find myself thinking ahead of myself about where I will put the crib, what clothes I'll need to wear to hide my pregnancy, how we will tell people, and I'm thinking of boy names. We have girl names picked but that's it. And we're not even TTC!

    Sending ((hugs)) your way and I'm sorry you're having a crappy morning.

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  • Nothing wrong with that!  I love the Baby Name Game- except no one will play with me!

  • Sorry to hear you are having a bad morning.  I can't stop thinking of names ever.  I even watch movie credits just to look for interesting ideas.

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  • imageSoCoGirl:
    Go ahead and work on the list!  That way when you find him you can let him pick a name from the pre-approved list- I have always thought about baby names- with or without a guy!  

    This made me LOL!

    I guess as long as I'm not buying baby gear or anything, just looking at names I am ok. I mean I thought about baby names when I was little (Hey we all had baby dolls that had a different name each day right?)

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  • ((hugs)) I know that can be upsetting at times but at least you will have names you can use for when you do have a LO :D
  • Wait, it's not normal to bookmark baby names you like and baby gear you are getting for your phantom baby??

    We all do it sweetie. You aren't crazy, because if you were that would mean I am too.


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  • imageLaTi07:

    Wait, it's not normal to bookmark baby names you like and baby gear you are getting for your phantom baby??

    We all do it sweetie. You aren't crazy, because if you were that would mean I am too.

    haha the only difference is that you don't have a phantom husband to make the phantom baby with Stick out tongue

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    imageSoCoGirl:
    Go ahead and work on the list!  That way when you find him you can let him pick a name from the pre-approved list- I have always thought about baby names- with or without a guy!  

    This made me LOL!

    I guess as long as I'm not buying baby gear or anything, just looking at names I am ok. I mean I thought about baby names when I was little (Hey we all had baby dolls that had a different name each day right?)

    All of my baby dolls had awesome, made-up names!  

    Baby gear would be the line...don't buy it!  It is like buying heroin...it might feel good, but you are only going to hurt yourself (umm...I don't do drugs BTW)- but you may buy puppies or stuffed animals and use any of the names on your list! 

    Seriously- I hope that your day turns out to be awesome.  

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  • imageSoCoGirl:
    imageVikingQueen:

    imageSoCoGirl:
    Go ahead and work on the list!  That way when you find him you can let him pick a name from the pre-approved list- I have always thought about baby names- with or without a guy!  

    This made me LOL!

    I guess as long as I'm not buying baby gear or anything, just looking at names I am ok. I mean I thought about baby names when I was little (Hey we all had baby dolls that had a different name each day right?)

    All of my baby dolls had awesome, made-up names!  

    Baby gear would be the line...don't buy it!  It is like buying heroin...it might feel good, but you are only going to hurt yourself (umm...I don't do drugs BTW)- but you may buy puppies or stuffed animals and use any of the names on your list! 

    Seriously- I hope that your day turns out to be awesome.  

    hahaha!! I love the analogy!

    yall ladies are making it better!

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  • That isn't so bad.  I think I bought my first baby name book when I was in middle school.  I have always loved looking through them.  You'll get your good man, and your baby, the name will be all ready for you!!!
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  • Nothing wrong with that it takes time to pick the perfect name and now you have a head start! 
  • imageLaTi07:

    Wait, it's not normal to bookmark baby names you like and baby gear you are getting for your phantom baby??

    We all do it sweetie. You aren't crazy, because if you were that would mean I am too.

    This exactly! Don't beat yourself up Smile 

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  • Hope your morning gets better! Hugs!
  • Sending ((hugs)) I have a name picked out already for the baby girl I may never have. I haven't shared it with anyone and hope I can talk dh into it if I ever get the chance to use it.

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