With PT. My dd has been PTing solidly for 6 mo. She's been interested for a year. She poops on the potty like a champ. Rarely does she ever go in her diaper. However, pee is another story but we've been spending the w/e's PT at home. So she's right there. She just needs to be reminded often, not just on the w/e's. DCP thinks shes too young (2 1/2). We don't think she is too young seeing as how she now tells us when she has to go.
Shouldn't DC, be on board? Mind you this is her first time owning her own dc, she's always worked at her MIL's. I would think she would sit down w/ us and go over some rules & ideas.
Frustrated!!!
Re: DCP not on board...
they have watches that remind kids to go potty. maybe if the DCP heard the beeper giong off she would remember to help your daughter go potty.
Have a sit down with the DCP and discuss how close she is to being Pt'd.
I definitely think 1) your daughter is ready and 2) that your DCP should be on board with you.
At DD's daycare (center), they introduce (show) the potty starting at 18 months. If they want to sit on it, they let them sit on it when it's time for diaper changes (every 2 hours). They keep it very casual when they are younger and when the parents are ready, the children can wear underwear and they will work with them on it. For DD, she was ready at about 26 months. I talked to the teachers as I thought she was ready and they agreed it was a good time for her to try.
DD attending PDO, and they encourage and support PTing in the class. All the kids are 2 1/2, and absolutely they don't care if you send a kid in undies and they have accidents. It is part of caring for a 2 1/2 year old.
I'd be a bit upset with a day care provider who refused to do what they should with a child that age. It sounds like laziness to me.