Started TTC 2/2009
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
Re: Tree Poll
DX: Severe MFI 9/1/11
Because of Undescended testicle at birth
IVF #1 October BFN; 5 snowbabies
FET: November/December 2011
ET: 12/7/11; Beta 1: 12/16/11: 66 Beta 2: 12/19/11: 212! 1st ultrasound 1/3/12! Graduated 1/10/12: heartbeat 160
SAIF Always Welcome
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
I voted no, because everyone is different and you have to follow your own rules, not those of society.
That being said--is there any reason you don't like Christmas? I'm not Christian (or religious at all), yet I still love this time of year; it has a feeling of giving and hope to the season, and its an opportunity to see lots of friends and family. I decorate because it puts me in the mood of giving, even if it is a hassle.
TTC #1 Since 8/2010
Me: 34, DH: 35 DX: DOR (FSH 14.9, AMH 0.67, AFC ~10) and Egg Quality
IVF #1 Feb 2012. MDFL protocol w/ Met. 7 ER, 0F.
May Donor Egg IVF cycle:3 EF, 1 blast ET 5/12, 2 frosties
BFP 5/21! beta #1 5/22 306 beta #2 5/24 818 beta #3 5/31 15,038.
"Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian." --Dennis Wholey
Oh no - I absolutely adore Christmas! I just hate dragging all the boxes from the basement, struggling to unravel the lights, putting the hooks on all the ornaments, dealing with the sap all over the car, trying to keep my 3 dogs away, watering it, worrying about my house catching on fire, blah...blah...blah...Not to mention taking it all down after Christmas.
And to top it off, the only one who sees it is us.
I LOVE Christmas and have been listening to Christmas carols for a week already. It's the tree and decorating I just can't get into.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
NO WAY!!!!! I hate those fvcking things with a passion.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
Ha! We could turn this into a Christmas pet peeve post.
I hate the old-fashioned plastic Santas and snowmen that people crowd their yards with. Honestly, some lady down the road has over 100 of those damn ugly things in her yard.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
This reminds me of something my mom did a few year ago when she was still teaching. Some snooty lady in her department started complaining about all the things she considered to be tacky holiday decorations. After the lady left the room my mom suggested that everyone in her department go home and dig out examples of said decorations and then the day before Christmas break cover her room with them. So they did it. And the lady.was.piiissed.
Anyway, I hate the giant inflatables too. I also don't like the plywood cutouts of gingerbread men, the nativity scene, Snoopy, etc.
And to answer your original question: put it up if you'll get joy out of it. Don't do anything because you feel you "should". If it's more of a pain in the a$$ than it's worth, don't bother. I have my tree up, but only because I wanted to put it up. We don't have people over for the holidays. I just like looking at it when I walk downstairs in the morning.
Bahahaha!!! The first time DH took me to meet his mom he said, "wait till you see my mom's neighbors house" We turned the corner and I was not quite prepared for what I would see. There was one of those inflatable things for every holiday plus some. And it was nowhere near any holiday. I was like OMG. Now every time we go to Home Depot DH threatens to buy one and put it in our yard. LOL I dont get it, they look ridic inflated, let alone during the day when they are flat....
My neighbor started decorating his yard with all manner of hideously tacky things on October 23. More than a week before Halloween! Plastic candy cane fence with lights... giant plastic snowmen... enormous plastic ornaments hanging off the porch... big white swirly light-up Christmas trees... the works. And in the middle of it, he put a plastic ghost holding a jack-o-lantern. You know... for Halloween.
I love Christmas decorations, but they should stay in the basement until after Thanksgiving.
And to answer OP's question... don't decorate because you feel obligated. Decorate because (if) you want to!
TTC#1 since 5/2010 (charting, AO)
2/2011: DX: PCOS, hypothyroid (1700 mg Metformin, 50 mcg Synthroid)
8/10/2011: First RE appt.
9/2011 & 10/2011: Clomid + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
11/2011: Femara + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
1/2012: Femara + Follistim + Ovidrel + TI = BFP! (Praise the Lord!)
?3/23/2012: Graduated from the RE... moving on to a regular OB!?
?10/29/2012: Our precious baby boy was born via emergency C-section. 5 lbs, 13 oz; 18" long ?
I voted no b/c there have been years we haven't put a tree up... either too busy or knowing we're going out of town for Christmas. I LOVE Christmas decorations, but honestly the last few years if I have decorated, its been half-hearted b/c I'm so bummed about still not having kids to celebrate with.
You would not be a Scrooge IMO if you didn't put a tree up.
TroubleTTC
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end --Semisonic
**TTC since 04/09, C/P 02/02/10; 4 weeks, 3 days**
**Dx: Anovulation, Hypothryroidism, Mild Endo, Pituitary Adenoma (prolactin issues), PAI-1, MFI **
**7/10: Clomid + TI= BFN**
**3/2/11: 1st RE appointment**
**DH= Morph= 2%, Motility= 30%**
**HSG= All clear!!**
**3/11: Femara + Pregnyl + TI= BFN**
**5/17/11: Laparoscopy / hysteroscopy = mild endo**
**7/11: Novarel + IUI #1= BFN (7mil, 75% motility, 2% morph)**
**8/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #2= BFN (11mil, 35% motility, 1% morph)**
**11/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #3= BFN (9mil, 2% morph)**
**Jan 2012: Follistim (75ius) + IUI #4= CANCELLED due to cyst -put on bcp**
**Feb 2012: Follistim (75ius) + Novarel + IUI #4.2= BFFN (2.5mil, 13% motility, 1% morph)**
**Mar 2012: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5= CANCELLED due to 35mm & 14mm cysts**
**On med break indefinitely...IF Sucks!**
Congratulations Cutebride!! --TWINS!! Congratulations, Luvie, on your sweet boy! Congrats, Jess! So happy for you ladies!
~~Also best of luck to Kati, illinigal, and youngin!~~
IVF #1- BFN
IVF #2- BFP!!! Beautiful baby girl became an angel on 2/6/13 at 17.5 weeks due to PPROM/IC
**PAIF/SAIF welcome**