Just curious what everyone thinks of using a first name that is very different in origin from your last name.
I love the name Gianna but our last name is Scottish and I feel like its too much of an origin difference.... do you think its a do or a don't??
Re: mixing origins?
I don't think it really matters
We're using a Native Name and our last name is either Irish/German (DH not 100% positive)
I don't think it matters.. unless you're in a seinfeld episode.. Donna Chang
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With Gianna, I don't think it's a big deal.
If it was Donatella, Mei, or Xochitl....yeah, that's a problem. But Gianna is pretty mainstream and doesn't sound unusual with a non-Italian last name.
Exactly.
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First of all, just b/c you're Asian that doesn't mean you have to name your kid MeiLi Xiao. I was best friends with a girl in high school whose parents had come to America from Taiwan like 10 yrs ago -- her name was Vicky, and no, it was short for anything. Her siblings were Julia and Kevin, and her parents had VERY Asian fns.
Second, who cares what the origin of a name is? Not using a name just b/c you're not of the same heritage, is just another thing people do to sustain the social divide between the classes and withhold total equality.