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Is your 3 year old completely potty trained?

DD is not.  She is super smart, even the pediatrician has noticed this because of her vocabulary.  He has given me tips on what to do but nothing seems to work.  I feel like she is purposely not wanting to give up diapers (well pull ups technically).  When I ask her to go on the potty she flat out tells me no.  Anybody else having similar potty training issues? I should add she has used the potty in the past so I know she knows how.  I have tried making her wear wet underwear for a bit (pedi suggested this) but the one time I didn't she didn't even care and she just ended up with a diaper rash.  I obviously can't continue that. 

Re: Is your 3 year old completely potty trained?

  • DS is and isn't PT.  At DC, he is - he hardly has accidents, poos and pees on the potty, takes a nap w/o a diaper on.

    But as soon as he gets home- he wants a diaper.  right now we're not in a situation where he HAS to be PT'd (like for preschool, for example).  So - I'm just not worried about it.

    he will sometimes go on the potty at home.  Just the other day, he actually stood up to pee (DC is teaching him how).  So - I know he'll get there. 

    And if we come up on a weekend where we really don't have any reason to go out, we may have a 'diaper free weekend!' to try and encourage him to use the potty.

    But I'm really not worried about it.  I know he knows how - he just is choosing not to.  I'm letting him make that choice for now. 

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  • Hell no!  DS is incredibly smart  and advanced for his age, but he is not potty trained.  People will go on and on about how smart he is and then when they find out he isn't potty trained, they act like there must be something wrong with him.  He knows what to do and has done it, but he cannot seem to either realize the need fast enough or is just lazy!

    It's funny how the average age to be potty trained is like 2.5-3.5, but everyone who already has a potty trained child seems to have done it at 18 months.  Someone is lying!


  • DD is wonderful at home only (still wears a pull up at night) ... she is great and never wets all day long in her panties. As soon as she gets to school we have to put a diaper on - she refuses to ask the teacher to go. She loves her teachers I think she is maybe just not comfortable going or something! I have the opposite problem you have!
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  • I could have written this same post. Not a chance!  She knows how to use the potty, she has used it successfully, but straight out wants to keep the diapers. Drives me insane.  I want to be done with diapers.  She is a smart girl but just tells me no and goes in her diaper/pull-up.
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  • Ah....this makes me feel a little better. DS is almost 3 and tells me the same thing. He will try for us before bed, and tries at DC, but doesn't really care about going. He is very detail oriented and his vocabulary is great as well. I think he gets too busy playing or working on something that he just doesn't want to be bothered with the potty.

    I will say one thing that I started just 2 days ago with him is a potty timer on my phone. I set it every hour (I will change this to every 2 hours once we get the hang of this) and when the timer goes off he just looks at me and asks "Is it time to go potty?" It is starting to sink in a little. He will willingly go to the potty and tell me to turn off the alarm until next time.  The first few times he resisted a bit, but then gave up and went for me. We don't always pee/poop but at least he is starting to try. Smile

    I think soon I will try using underwear at home and use the potty timer. I just tell myself that he will one day be ready and take it one day at a time. 

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    I could have written this same post. Not a chance!  She knows how to use the potty, she has used it successfully, but straight out wants to keep the diapers. Drives me insane.  I want to be done with diapers.  She is a smart girl but just tells me no and goes in her diaper/pull-up.

     

    Why don't you take the diapers away?  Not snarky - just an honest question.  Do you really think she'd continue to go in her pants for weeks and weeks? 

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  • I think we are going to try the 3-day method...with that you completely take away all diapers and pull-ups. If they start to go you rush them to the potty so they connect the feeling of having to go with the potty. It's going to be a hellacious 3 days but I'm willing to give it a shot.
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  • Just did the 3 day method last weekend but she hasn't gotten that grasp of pooping in the potty.  If it doesn't click in the next week or so I may have to revert back to pull ups hoping she will at least continue to pee on the potty.
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  • I think DD is only potty trained b/c of peer pressure at school.

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    imagelawry13:
    I could have written this same post. Not a chance!  She knows how to use the potty, she has used it successfully, but straight out wants to keep the diapers. Drives me insane.  I want to be done with diapers.  She is a smart girl but just tells me no and goes in her diaper/pull-up.

     

    Why don't you take the diapers away?  Not snarky - just an honest question.  Do you really think she'd continue to go in her pants for weeks and weeks? 

    Yes she would.  She is a stubborn little thing.  Tried the wet underwear and it didn't bother her at all.  She straight up didn't care that she was soaking wet.

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    imageDreamsicle23:

    imagelawry13:
    I could have written this same post. Not a chance!  She knows how to use the potty, she has used it successfully, but straight out wants to keep the diapers. Drives me insane.  I want to be done with diapers.  She is a smart girl but just tells me no and goes in her diaper/pull-up.

     

    Why don't you take the diapers away?  Not snarky - just an honest question.  Do you really think she'd continue to go in her pants for weeks and weeks? 

    Yes she would.  She is a stubborn little thing.  Tried the wet underwear and it didn't bother her at all.  She straight up didn't care that she was soaking wet.

     

    My DD was potty trained and accident free. This past week she had at least 2 accidents at daycare every day. She would hold it until the very last second (legs crossed/waddling to the potty) and then dribble a little on her way. Basically she knows what to do and gets MOST of the pee in the potty but if she is really into what she is doing she doesn't want to stop and go potty. So frustrating. 

  • Are any of your DD's friends potty training or a little more trained?  I would go on an outing with them and go to the potty often have them go to togeher and watch and take turns, make sure there is lots to drink.  A mall will have lots of different bathrooms and escalators to ride.  A little peer pressure may encourage her to see that pottying is fun

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  • Nope.  Not at all.  DS2 turned three 2 weeks ago.  I know it will happen eventually.
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  • Nope----we are fully trained to pee on the potty but she has never pooped on the potty. We have been trying but she holds it for days so we cave and give her a diaper to go in because she gets so blocked up. Have had poop issues for some time, been on mirilax for about 2 years now and we still have to use mineral oil or a laxative at times to help.
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  • Yes. She only wears a diaper to bed at night. Naps she stays dry. I'd just take the pull-ups away & let her wear underwear. If she goes to DC make sure she has a change of clothes including socks & shoes. They do make these thick underwear you can get at Target that help. They are regular underwear just thicker to absorb any accidents. I think Gerber makes them. Good luck. 
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