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I've been keeping a secret...

I know I've been super MIA - mostly because I stay so busy with Kate.  But, also because I knew I couldn't be around without opening my mouth!

We are joining the 2u2 club - I am currently 16w pregnant.  With a baby BOY!

We found out the week Kate was admitted to the hospital to start chemo.  Talk about shock as I was waiting to start so I could get my IUD.  This was not in our plan at all.

We decided to proceed forward with genetic testing and I had a CVS in early October.  Unfortunately we were unable to get a decent sample size so we had to wait weeks for the sample to grow and be sent off for testing. 

Unfortunately, we found out that Will has CAMT and will be following in his big sister's footsteps.  He will require a complete bone marrow transplant.

I realize that making the decision we have made to continue forward with a pregnancy with known complications is not something everyone will do.  However, we are excited for our little boy and faithful that he will be healed completely.  We have not made the CAMT diagnosis public on FB yet but will soon I'm sure.

I hope people can respect our decisions.  We've done this before and know we can do it again - this baby is a miracle and we are sure the Lord has big plans for him!

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  • Wow, what a wonderful blessing.  Congrats on having a little boy, and I hope his journey goes smoothly as he follows in his big sisters footsteps.  
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  • Congratulations on your newest little miracle! 
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  • Congrats on your BFP! How exciting and I am sure terrifing. I will be thinking of him and praying for him that he truely follows in his big sis's foot steps and makes a full recovery.
  • I said it on FB and I will say it here, congrats Mama!!!!!
  • Oh, wow, what a lot to deal with! First of all, huge congratulations on your baby boy.  Second, many thoughts and prayers for peace, strength, and healing for all!!
  • Yeah! Congrats!! Boys are so so great, lots of high energy! And I havnt even

    Wrapped my brain around the two under two idea and I am having my second in 2 mnths.. 

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    Oh, wow, what a lot to deal with! First of all, huge congratulations on your baby boy.  Second, many thoughts and prayers for peace, strength, and healing for all!!
    . This. Congratulations on your second little miracle! My thoughts, as always, are with your family.
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  • What a blessing!  Congrats on your little boy and I hope everything goes smoothly for him as he follows in Kate's footsteps!

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  • Wow!  What a wonderful blessing for you to have another little one!  I'm sure that you're scared and excited at the same time!  Congratulations!
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  • congratulations! it is so exciting that you're expecting- i am sure it is also scary knowing the complications ahead, but at least this time around you know what to expect.

    i am also just impressed you found time to have sex given all the turmoil you had going on! 

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  • Congratulations!!  What a crazy time to find out you're expecting again!  It had to be nice to have something so positive happening at a challenging time.

     Will his cord blood be able to help him or is this something that would exist in his cord blood as well?

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    Congratulations!!  What a crazy time to find out you're expecting again!  It had to be nice to have something so positive happening at a challenging time.

     Will his cord blood be able to help him or is this something that would exist in his cord blood as well?

    It is genetic so his cord blood with be affected by CAMT as well.  He will need a donor just like Kate.

  • oh wow, congratulations!!! I hope everything is smooth sailing for Kate and baby Will.
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  • Big congrats. I hope you have a smooth journey when you have this with Will.
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  • I just saw this on FB - so exciting.  I place no judgment on your decision, as I can only imagine I'd do the same.  I'm sure everything will work out fine in the end. 

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  • Congratulations on baby Will!  I hope and pray that his journey will go as well as kate's! 
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  • I already told you this but I am so happy for you!
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  • Congrats on your miracle baby!  I hope that an early diagnosis will help you find a donor quickly.  
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  • Congrats!!!  What a miracle! :) so excited for you!  He's a lucky boy to have you for a mom.
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  • Oh my goodness!! I just saw on FB! 

    First of all, congratulations!

    Secondly, I'm sorry that you will have to go down the CAMT road again. That said, you are becoming an expert in navigating it, and this little guy came to you knowing he found the perfect parents to help him get through this!

    Finally, fantastic name, if I do say so myself! ;) 

    Good luck with everything! 

  • A huge congratulations!  What an amazing story!

    I'm so sorry to hear about the repeat diagnosis, but as others have said, you know what you're doing and he's lucky to have you as parents.

    Please keep us posted on both of your blessings!  I wish you the best!!! 

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  • Congrats...and big, big hugs...
  • Congrats!
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  • Oh wow, that is quite a secret!  Congratulations on your surprise boy!  You and your DH are very special people, you'll all be in my positive thoughts!
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  • WOW!  The Lord has great things for you also!  Congratulations!  I am amazed at your journey and humbled by your strength.  My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.  
  • Congratulations!

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  • Congrats!  How exciting.  I'm thinking of your whole family!

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  • Congrats to you and your family!  Whatever your journey is with this wonderful miracle, he will be a true blessing and Kate will be a great big sister.
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  • Wow! Congratulations!!!!!!
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  • Yay! And Yay for your stellar secret keeping ability!
  • Wow!!! Congrats on your baby boy :):)

    Hope Kate is feeling well! I have been following your blog......always praying for you guys!

     

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  • Congratulations to you & to big sister, Kate! What an amazing miracle. I Am sorry for the repeat diagnosis, but, I am confident that your experience with Kate will guide you through this challenge. Your babies are lucky to have you & your DH. your strength is a continued inspiration. 

     

    Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy & for sweet Kate as well! Welcome to 2u2!  

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  • Congrats on your new little miracle boy!
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  • Congratulations!
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  • Congrats LCB!
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  • Congratulations! How wonderful :)
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  • congrats.  the best blessings come when you least expect them and when you are not looking for them.  i am sure your decision has not been easy.  I hope your pregnancy continues to go well.
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