TTC After a Loss

I'm back :(

My third pregnancy has ended in yet another loss. This time ectopic. I cannot believe I'm here writing this. I've lost my right tube.

I just got home from the hospital. My shoulders hurt like crazy (something about them having to pump gas into my body for surgery) and my belly feels like it's been tenderized like a piece of meat.

I never thought I'd have to worry about an ectopic. It literally never crossed my mind that it could happen to me.


[spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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  • I am so so sorry for your loss.  I know it will take time to heal emotionally, but I hope you bounce back physically from the surgery as quickly as possible.  ((huge hugs))  We're here for you. 

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    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

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  • I'm so sorry not only for your loss, but also for the experiance and pain you are going through. I hope you recover quickly.
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  • I am so, so sorry for your losses. No one should have to go through this once, let alone multiple times. I wish I could say something to take away your pain. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry that you are going through another loss.  Each one hurts just as much if not more than the first!  None of us should have to go through this multiple times. I hope you heal quickly from your surgery and that you feel better soon. Big squishy hugs to you. 
  • I am so sorry hun!  I hate that you are going through this again...especially with the physical pain on top of it from surgery.  I hope you heal up quickly and we will be here for you.  (((((HUGE HUGS)))))
    TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
    6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
    7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
    7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
    8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
    11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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  • I'm so so sorry Laurakat. ((HUGE HUGS))
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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • Oh no, no, no! I'm so, so sorry for your loss and that you had to go through surgery. Huge, giant ((hugs)). No one should ever have to endure so much loss. 
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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  • Oh no!!!!  Noooo nooo that is not how this was supposed to go gosh darnit.  Katherine, I am so so very sorry.  ((((ginormous hugs)))) to you.
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  • (Hugs) I'm so sorry sweetie.

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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are on some good pain meds, but anyway the shoulder pains should subside soon. Try to take it easy and just relax as much as you can. Take care and again, I know I don't know you but I am still so very sorry that you are going through another loss.
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  • Oh no! I am so, so sorry for your loss.....
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  • I am so sorry.
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  • Oh no - I am so sorry for your loss! Please take care of yourself (HUGS!)
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  • OMG I am so sorry you're back. ((HUGS)), so not fair
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  • Oh Kat, my heart is breaking for you. I can't believe this is happening to you. Sending tons of ((hugs)) and healing vibes your way. I am so sorry.
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    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • Oh hun! I am so so sorry!!!! {{{hugs}}}


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    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It isn't fair that we have to be here, but we all have each other. We are here for you whenever you need us. I hope that you have a quick recovery from surgery.
    Wedding 08/08/08

    BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

    Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11

    BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13

  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  ((hugs))

    I hope you get on the road to recovery soon.  

    TTC since July 2010 BFP#1~5/8/11~~EDD 1/18/12~Natural M/C Confirmed 6/1/11 BFP#2~12/2/11 ~EDD 8/13/12~It's a girl!~Emma Grace born 8/12/12 Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so sad to hear this :(  My heart is just breaking for you. Big ::HUGS::

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  • I am so sorry for your losses. There are no words to say except this sucks and it's not fair. I hope you can give yourself plenty of time to grieve. No one should have to go through this.
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  • Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through this. :( It breaks my heart.

    I hope your recover quickly from surgery. ((hugs)) 

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  • Oh no! So sorry you have to come back and sorry about the ectopic and surgery. I cant imagine going through it after all you've been through. ((Big Hugs))
    Married since 06/2004, TTC since 01/2011

    BFP #1 and M/C 5/2011

    BFP #2 7/1/2011, Blighted ovums officially diagnosed at 9w6d, D&C 8/19/2011.

    BFP #3 12/7/2011, EDD 8/15/2012, Harper Lorelai born 8/09/12

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  • I'm so sorry for your losses. No one should ever have to go through this, let alone multiple times. (((HUGS)))
    Missed miscarriage D&C May 2011, Missed miscarriage D&C October 2011 Expecting a baby girl in 2013!
  • I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts today. ((hugs))
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.  Sending many T&P to you and your family!!


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  • How awful.  I'm so sorry you are having to go through all this.  ((hugs))
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  • I am so so sorry for everything you've had to go through.  T&Ps to you.
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  • I'm so so sorry. Please take care of you. 
    TTC #2: 12/2012
    Back to our beloved RE 10/2013
    BFP #5 3/5/14
    Beta 1: 47. Beta 2: 87. Beta 3: 482!

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  • I am so sorry.  This just is not fair.  ((HUGS))
    Chemical Pregnancy 2001, Married 8/8/09, TTC April 2011, BFP 5/8/11, Missed M/C @ 9wk5d, D&C 6/21/11 BFP 11/13/11 Chase Everett born at 29wks 0 days on 5/7/12 at 2 lbs 14 oz, 14 1/2 inches long.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. No one deserves to go through this even once, let alone multiple times.
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    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
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  • no no no.. this is not fair universe! ((huge hugs)) I am so sorry sweetie..my heart is hurting for you.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope you start feeling better soon.

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    Trying for #1 since May 2010   l   DX ~ Unexplained Infertility June 2011

    IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks

    November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!

    Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26

    1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12 :)   **TEAM GREEN!**

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    ~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~

    Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14 :)    **TEAM GREEN!**

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  • ((BIG HUGS)) I'm so, so sorry.

    5/16/2005: M/C at 7 wks
    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
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  • oh honey, my heart breaks for you! I am so so sorry you are going through this. Its not fair one bit. Why does it have to happen to anyone and certainly not someone who has already been through so much. Sending you BIG ((HUGS)) and know that you and your husband are in my T&P.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the physical recovery comes quickly. ((HUGS))
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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss and all that you've been through.  Sending many T&P your way. 

    ((((hugs))))

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  • I am so very sorry you are back here.  I'd been following your posts on PGAL, and I cannot believe this is happening to you again.  All my T&Ps.
    Me (28): fine, DH (28): MFI
    Married 6/21/09
    Off BCP and TTC 4/17/11
    BFP #1 (ended in CP) 7/15/11
    Varicocelectomy surgery 9/4/12 - T improved to normal, but still low count

    Current Status: Pursuing Jan '15 IVF w/ ICSI
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  • I am so very sorry that you are going through this! I commented on your other post and I was praying it was just a cyst! Take it easy, get some rest and most of all let your body heal! I've been where you are now so if you'd like to talk about it, please PM me! ((Huge Hugs)) to you! T&Ps coming your way!
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  • There are just no words.  My heart breaks for your losses, I am so so sorry!!
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