Found out officially today that our baby died last week. At last weeks ultrasound my RE said he was concerned about the slow heartbeat and my progesterone levels. So while I have had a week to prepare for the worst, it was still devastating. My doctor has recommended a D&C on Thursday. It took us 17 months to get pregnant and now I am so worried we will never get our take home baby.
Not too mention my cousin shared with me that she is pregnant and due two weeks after what was my due date. It's just all too much right now.
Me-39, DH 36
Married May 2010 TTC since June 2010
Un-monitored clomid cycles 1/11-3/11
Began seeing RE March 2011
4/11-6/11 Femera +IUI =BFN
7/11-8/11 Femera +trigger shot +IUI =BFN
Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy on 9/8/11
Surprise natural BFP! on 9/30/2011
M/C at 8 weeks D&C on 11/3/11
2nd M/C on 12/25- natural
Feb-June Follistim + IUI= BFN
IVF #1- Start Stimms- 8/3 ER- 8/18 5R 4M 3F ET- All 3 on 8/21 =BFN
IVF #2- Start Stimms- 11/5 ER- 11/19 9R 8M 8F ET- 11/22 3 8 cell embies. BFP HPT! 12/4 Beta #1- 12/6 976!
Ultrasound on 12/21- Twins!
I am very sorry. My SIL is due a few days away from what would have been our due date I know how that feels. I am hoping time heals and we all get out take home baby.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know it can make it even harder when others who are close to you are pregnant. It will get better with time and I hope you have your take home baby soon.
I'm so sorry for your loss I too lost a June bug and it just plain old sucks. I hope you find the support that you need here. TTCAL is also a fabulous board.
I am so sorry to read your news. Having a week to prepare or not, the news does not get any easier to take in. Take time to grieve your loss. <<hugs to you>>
BFP#1 8/24/11, EDD 5/5/12, D&C 10/24/11 due to missed m/c
:::HUGS::: I'm so sorry for your loss! Welcome to a great board!
~Jess & Mike May 12, 2007
12.6.07 CP at 5w
5.21.08 BO discovered at 7w, D&E at 8w3d
8.31.08 CP at 4w5d
BFP Sept 25, 2008 bfp buddy lkstor
Landon born June 6, 2009
3.25.11 missed m/c discovered at 9w6d, D&E at 10w2d
4.28.11 MTHFR a1298c homozygous discovered
4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
10.12.11 Diagnosed with Type III Luteal Phase Defect
10.2011 Starting hcg injections on 5, 7 & 9 dpo
BFP 12.7.11 - EDD 8.14.12 - IT'S A BOY! Fruit Baby Life During and After RPL
Re: No June bug for us.
UGH I am so sorry.
It's so unfair and just awful. I'm sorry you've found yourself here but I hope you find the hope and healing that you need.
Don't lose hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
*BFP #1 9/10/11 Natural m/c 11/1/11 at 11 weeks, 5 days*
*Diagnosed as unexplained infertility*
*BFP #2 12/6/14 after IUI#2 Hopeful! EDD 8/14/15*
I am very sorry. My SIL is due a few days away from what would have been our due date I know how that feels. I am hoping time heals and we all get out take home baby.
HUGS
Big hugs to you...
I am so sorry for your loss.
BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012
FF Chart
I'm so sorry for your loss I too lost a June bug and it just plain old sucks. I hope you find the support that you need here. TTCAL is also a fabulous board.
{{{hugs}}}
Carter Robert 7.18.08 | Brynn Sophia 5.24.10 | Reid Joseph 9.10.12 | Emerson Mae 1.27.14
BFP#1 8/24/11, EDD 5/5/12, D&C 10/24/11 due to missed m/c
BFP #2 2/1/12, EDD 10/11/12. Baby arrived 10/9/12
BFP #3 5/6/14, EDD 1/14/15
DS siggy warning!
:::HUGS::: I'm so sorry for your loss! Welcome to a great board!
12.6.07 CP at 5w
5.21.08 BO discovered at 7w, D&E at 8w3d
8.31.08 CP at 4w5d
BFP Sept 25, 2008 bfp buddy lkstor Landon born June 6, 2009
3.25.11 missed m/c discovered at 9w6d, D&E at 10w2d
4.28.11 MTHFR a1298c homozygous discovered
4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
10.12.11 Diagnosed with Type III Luteal Phase Defect
10.2011 Starting hcg injections on 5, 7 & 9 dpo
BFP 12.7.11 - EDD 8.14.12 - IT'S A BOY! Fruit Baby
Life During and After RPL