Going back to team Green, for now

Ok, so we found out at the beginning of October that we would be having our 3rd boy... well sort of. We had our oldest son with us and we didnt want him to find out cause he would tell EVERYONE and we are keeping it a secret until the birth. SO the tech was a complete jerk and he went over the parts but we saw them from the back so all we saw was a bump between its legs, which at first I was like ``Ok, another boy`` but then I thought maybe she had swollen parts, so I asked the tech to spell it since our oldest is only 3 and cant spell. I thought he said ``same as him`` but my husband heard ``not same as him`` So we left with the genereal idea that it was a boy. Well I was talking to a friend of mine last week who had the same tech and he told her that it was hospital policy NOT to tell you  what it was, which makes me skeptical of what he told us, since her scan was a week after mine. She also had a bunch of issues with him and went to the head of radiology who told her that they have had numerous complaints about that particular tech. So DH and I have decided that we would ask our high risk doctor when we go to see him at the end of the month to just confirm. Though I am sure it is a boy, I am really hoping the tech was wrong and it is a girl!!! it will be our first and my parents 2nd grand daughter (we are batting 1 for 5 right now and she was the first born) I will be happy either way, but maybe a little more happy if it is a girl!!!