during ds's school halloween party his teacher told me we ned to have a meeting to start a behavior plan for him. i know he has hitting and biting issues and we are trying to teach him better was to express his anger.
here is what happened according to her: ds pulled a little girl's hair and i (the teacher) pulled ds's hair to show him that pulling hair is bad and hurts. an education student from a nearby university happened to be observing the class that day and wrote a report about me. things got really crazy for a while but everything is ok now. we just need to have a behavior plan in place for ds.
im shocked and super mad for so many reasons. what kind of teacher pulls a student's hair? why are didn't i know about this sooner? how is everything ok now? was she disciplined? are other parents aware?
am i overreacting? ds is apraxic and can't tell us if things like tjis are happening. do i call the principal. do i pull him out of school? this is a special needs preschool so he can't transfer to another class. thoughts and opinions please