TTC After a Loss

good news but still in need of a lot of patience

So I had been going for weekly b/w results because of my molar pregnancy. Anway, I got my b/w results yesterday and my HCG levels were down to 5. Now I just have to go for monthly b/w. At my last visit with my OB he said that I have to TTA until my b/w comes back negative for 6 consecutive months. ugh, that sure is a long freaking time :(

I plan to go speak with him b/c I've been doing some research, with the help of a fellow bumpie, and I've found some studies showing that it's not necessary to wait that long. I know doctors always try to err on the side of caution but I'm just not feeling that cautious and there is always that patience problem I mentioned... 

DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
Twins lost to due to partial molar pregnancy: September 2011 
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Re: good news but still in need of a lot of patience

  • I'm so glad your levels are going down so well! I know just what you mean about having patience. My doctor is one of the ones who errs on the side of caution too and recommended I wait three months. It can imagine what your going through waiting six. If you've done research and feel comfortable, then I think you should talk with your doctor and do what feels right for you. Hopefully, you guys can come up with a good solution.
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  • I am glad your levels are going down nicely. My OB is one of the cautious ones too. I have not had a molar pregnancy, but six months does seem like a long time to wait. Good luck.
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  • (Hugs) sorry about the TTA wait. Hopefully you and your doctor can discuss it in greater detail.
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  • After my molar pregnancy I did a lot of research too, and was pointed in the direction of Dr Goldstein at Bringham & Women's Hospital in Boston. He is one of the top researchers and runs a molar pregnancy clinic. According to his research, I'd your hcg reaches zero (well,
    I have to say, I know 6 months sounds like torture, but it isn't that much different than 3 months. We got cleared for a 3 month wait time, but in month 4 (when we were going to try), we discovered some new issues that we had to work through. I may not even be able to try in month 5, because my RE wants to do more testing.
    I would say though, no matter what wait you get, take the time to learn about your cycle. Chart to track ovulation. Make sure you are getting/staying healthy, see an RE or do some more in depth testing of you desire. Use the forced break to your advantage.
    Best of luck to all of you. Also, baby center has a molar pregnancy board, of you are interested in some more support.
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