I guess I'm the only one that's going to take a shot at this..I'm sorry you're going through this, but I really feel like you should follow your intuition on this one, and it sounds like you don't really want to get pregnant right now. I was raised by a single mom until I was 5, so I know how it feels (as do you), just because our parents did it, doesn't mean we should have to. I know that you already have one child, but I strongly believe that a baby will not make a marriage better or stronger. Children are hard.. (as you already know), and they can make a stressful or unhappy situation even worse. I think it's great that you guys are being proactive and getting therapy, and I'm sure your issues can be worked out. Until then, please be honest with yourself and your husband..I hope this helps, and I hope I didn't overstep my boundaries..
Patiently waiting for our 1st since 9/2010.
Dealing with MFI, good count, good motility, 3% morph-HSG all clear, all other test results came back normal, IUI is our next step May 2012- Clomid 50mg + IUI = BFN June- Cycle Break July- Forced cycle break due to cysts August- Femara, Trigger, IUI#2= ?
I have to admit that although the sex is great with my husband, we've been doing it so much lately that I really would love to go to bed and actually lay down and go to sleep. That sounds terrible but he's said the same thing lol. But hopefully all this BDing will give us a BFP this cycle
Married since June 2010
TTC #1 since 04/2011
3 abnormal PAPs and 2 colpo/biopsy since 09/2009
LEEP 05/2011
ASCUS PAP 08/2011 which means no PAP for 6 months!! YAY!!
BFP 11/6/11!! EDD: 7/15/12
1st u/s 11/21/11: TWINS!
16 wks 1/30/12: BOY and GIRL!
Schedualed c-section for 7/2/12 38wks 1day
Went into labor 6/25/12 37wks 1day. Delivered two healthy babies
1. I am a pet lover but I HATE when people refer to their pets as their "babies" or "children". I had pets growing up and a few while on my own. I loved them and felt that they were part of the family, however they were never my "baby" or my "child". I think that whole idea is ridiculous.
2. I think those big sister or big brother shirts are way over done and kind of lame.
3. During my 2ww I was going through everything in our spare room in case we needed to start organizing for a nursery. Now that I am 99.9 AF will show up in the next couple of days I have no motivation to finish the project and you can't even walk in our spare room.
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Me: 32 DH: 37 Married: May 24, 2008 TTC #2 since: June 2020
After taking a test and throwing it away, I sometimes go back and take it out of the trash a few mins later to see if maybe I didn't wait long enough lol...I'm a loser
I've done this too.
DomesticDiva, I'm sorry you're going through this right now. Sounds really tough.
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After taking a test and throwing it away, I sometimes go back and take it out of the trash a few mins later to see if maybe I didn't wait long enough lol...I'm a loser
After taking a test and throwing it away, I sometimes go back and take it out of the trash a few mins later to see if maybe I didn't wait long enough lol...I'm a loser
I guess I'm the only one that's going to take a shot at this..I'm sorry you're going through this, but I really feel like you should follow your intuition on this one, and it sounds like you don't really want to get pregnant right now. I was raised by a single mom until I was 5, so I know how it feels (as do you), just because our parents did it, doesn't mean we should have to. I know that you already have one child, but I strongly believe that a baby will not make a marriage better or stronger. Children are hard.. (as you already know), and they can make a stressful or unhappy situation even worse. I think it's great that you guys are being proactive and getting therapy, and I'm sure your issues can be worked out. Until then, please be honest with yourself and your husband..I hope this helps, and I hope I didn't overstep my boundaries..
You absolutly did not and I thank you very much. We also both agree with the top bolded part.
Born 27wks 3 day 2 lbs 10 oz 15 inches
My BFP chart
Just recently we decided to TTA going forward for financial reasons only. I keep hoping I got pregnant this cycle prior to our decision. I haven't been charting so I'm not sure if its possible, but a girl can dream, right?
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I really couldn't care less about the fact that Michael Jackson supposedly could have been saved. I think he was a tortured soul and he's probably better off gone.
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I guess I'm the only one that's going to take a shot at this..I'm sorry you're going through this, but I really feel like you should follow your intuition on this one, and it sounds like you don't really want to get pregnant right now. I was raised by a single mom until I was 5, so I know how it feels (as do you), just because our parents did it, doesn't mean we should have to. I know that you already have one child, but I strongly believe that a baby will not make a marriage better or stronger. Children are hard.. (as you already know), and they can make a stressful or unhappy situation even worse. I think it's great that you guys are being proactive and getting therapy, and I'm sure your issues can be worked out. Until then, please be honest with yourself and your husband..I hope this helps, and I hope I didn't overstep my boundaries..
Dealing with MFI, good count, good motility, 3% morph-HSG all clear, all other test results came back normal, IUI is our next step
May 2012- Clomid 50mg + IUI = BFN
June- Cycle Break
July- Forced cycle break due to cysts
August- Femara, Trigger, IUI#2= ?
Married since June 2010
TTC #1 since 04/2011
3 abnormal PAPs and 2 colpo/biopsy since 09/2009
LEEP 05/2011
ASCUS PAP 08/2011 which means no PAP for 6 months!! YAY!!
BFP 11/6/11!! EDD: 7/15/12
1st u/s 11/21/11: TWINS!
16 wks 1/30/12: BOY and GIRL!
Schedualed c-section for 7/2/12 38wks 1day
Went into labor 6/25/12 37wks 1day. Delivered two healthy babies
I have a few that are super flame-worthy.
1. I am a pet lover but I HATE when people refer to their pets as their "babies" or "children". I had pets growing up and a few while on my own. I loved them and felt that they were part of the family, however they were never my "baby" or my "child". I think that whole idea is ridiculous.
2. I think those big sister or big brother shirts are way over done and kind of lame.
3. During my 2ww I was going through everything in our spare room in case we needed to start organizing for a nursery. Now that I am 99.9 AF will show up in the next couple of days I have no motivation to finish the project and you can't even walk in our spare room.
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DH: 37
Married: May 24, 2008
TTC #2 since: June 2020
I've done this too.
DomesticDiva, I'm sorry you're going through this right now. Sounds really tough.
I've totally done that.
I did it this morning
I hate it too! MH gets up and does the dance with the commercial... Yeah...he's that cool...haha
You absolutly did not and I thank you very much. We also both agree with the top bolded part.
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7DPO Progesterone: low. CD3 BW: normal, HSG: clear
DX: severe MFI (low all 3) and low T. Undergoing replacement therapy.
Another one..
I listened to the album everyone told me to and I still do not like Adele or get the hype with her.