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My MIL just called me really upset. My SIL is 20 weeks pregnant and had her u/s last week. The doctor called her today and mentioned something along the lines of the baby only having 2 or 3 valves (I don't know exactly since I heard it second hand from my MIL) and that they need her to come in and get some blood work ran because that is a risk factor for Downs.
My SIL is really upset and confused and so is my MIL. I think they are just struggling because they don't know what any of this means (my SIL's doctor did not explain it very well to her and she was too upset to ask).
I would like to help them but can't seem to find any information on this. Does anyone have any familiarity with this?
Re: Heart Valve and Down Syndrom Risk
My quad screen came out at elevated risk for DS, so we were sent to a perinatologist for a more accurate u/s and to discuss an amnio. We decided against the amnio because we were keeping the baby no matter what, and the risk of miscarriage from the amnio was only slightly lower than my chance of DS.
So, they continue to monitor the baby periodically for growth, etc. But I will tell you that they told me that 20 weeks was still too early to get a really accurate look at the heart. I had to go back a few more times, and each time they look at the heart and it's fine, thankfully. I'm not a doctor, but just because heart problems are common in babies with DS doesn't mean that all babies with heart problems have DS.
I understand their fears, as I've been worried all along about my baby having DS. DH has been able to put it out of his head & hope for a healthy baby, but I can't stop worrying. The genetic counselor told me that if I was worried about the risk of miscarriage from the amnio, I could have a late amnio at 32+ weeks, and if anything happens, I'll just have a preemie instead of a miscarriage, and I'll be able to know for sure before the baby is born. That's something they could think about, too.