My Gram (DD great Gram) comes and stay monday night through tuesday day. I am very grateful for her. She helps clean, cook, and help with baby. My confession is.. I dont like her to feed DD because she doesnt burp her well enough. She holds DD like she is made of thin glass. She isnt that fragile! And she needs a good pat to get out her burps.
My step sis came to visit last week and said her dad said some a-hole things at a family function about how my mom "spoils" me and is spending too much time with me and DD. Are you effing kidding me! My mom lives an hour away and will stay the night once every two weeks. She has come to visit with him a couple times. I hate when he comes with her because he just lectures me and gives me his opinion on everything even though I dont ask for it. I told my mom that I would prefer for her to come visit without him.. I know thats mean but I cannot stand him!!
And my H got this new game that him and his friends from work play on ps3 and it pisses me off when he comes home, takes a shower, eats, and get on.. when I am left to bathe and feed DD her evening feeding.. I feel like he should want to spend that time with her and that he SHOULD help me bathe her and he should give her her last feeding before she goes to bed because I will be the one to get up with her at night and then all the next day again. I think I need to have a talk with him.. He already doesnt wake up for any night time feedings and yesterday he didnt feed her ONE time! I shouldnt be the only one to do that task. When he gets home from work there are things I like to be able to do too.. Like take a freakin shower..
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My Gram (DD great Gram) comes and stay monday night through tuesday day. I am very grateful for her. She helps clean, cook, and help with baby. My confession is.. I dont like her to feed DD because she doesnt burp her well enough. She holds DD like she is made of thin glass. She isnt that fragile! And she needs a good pat to get out her burps.
My step sis came to visit last week and said her dad said some a-hole things at a family function about how my mom "spoils" me and is spending too much time with me and DD. Are you effing kidding me! My mom lives an hour away and will stay the night once every two weeks. She has come to visit with him a couple times. I hate when he comes with her because he just lectures me and gives me his opinion on everything even though I dont ask for it. I told my mom that I would prefer for her to come visit without him.. I know thats mean but I cannot stand him!!
And my H got this new game that him and his friends from work play on ps3 and it pisses me off when he comes home, takes a shower, eats, and get on.. when I am left to bathe and feed DD her evening feeding.. I feel like he should want to spend that time with her and that he SHOULD help me bathe her and he should give her her last feeding before she goes to bed because I will be the one to get up with her at night and then all the next day again. I think I need to have a talk with him.. He already doesnt wake up for any night time feedings and yesterday he didnt feed her ONE time! I shouldnt be the only one to do that task. When he gets home from work there are things I like to be able to do too.. Like take a freakin shower..