August 2011 Moms

FFFC

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Mine:

I have become so sleep deprived lately, I have actually yelled at DS. I feel so bad for doing it, but he has been so fussy lately (6 week g/s) and I can't keep my emotions under control. It has only happened twice, but I feel terrible afterwards.

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  • Remember FF, right!

    I have to go to the beach this weekend for a tournament I am coaching in and  I'd rather my mom come instead/ or with my hubby.  I am so worried about "working" and DH having no clue what he's doing or DH going to the bar to watch football w LO.

     

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  • I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!
  • I am jealous of DH. I am spending my maternity leave in pain, still recovering from delivery, an emotional basket case, up at night with an infant, and at home all day with a baby that does not do much more than eat and sleep. DH is taking a 2 month paternity leave in January and February when DS will be 4-6 months old. I am sure DS will be tons of fun by that age and will be on a more predictable schedule, which means DH probably won't have his fair share of long nights. But, I am enjoying cuddling with my baby. He won't be this small much longer.
  • I've also yelled at DS a few times. I've now figured out that if you can get to crying before he does, he gets so confused and stops in his tracks. My dog thinks it's fun to howl along, too, so it gets kind of crazy here when DS is fussy.

    I'm almost excited to go back to work for some normalcy again. I could never do the SAHM thing. I think i might start throwing my own hissy fits. I just wish I liked my job more.

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  • I'm tempted to delete my FB account because thing are getting wayyyy to personal over there, it makes me feel all "1984"/iROBOT or whatever. But, I'm worried I'm going to miss something by deleting it.
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  • DS is more than 8 weeks now, and I thought we were making some progress on his sleeping. Last night, however, he screamed whenever we put him in the cradle and would not sleep unless he was being held. I finally came downstairs and put him in his swing at 6 am and went to sleep on the couch. I was SO frustrated and mad that I yelled at both DS and DH. I feel bad. I know he's so young, but I was just too frustrated.
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  • imagesptaylor91:
    I'm tempted to delete my FB account because thing are getting wayyyy to personal over there, it makes me feel all "1984"/iROBOT or whatever. But, I'm worried I'm going to miss something by deleting it.

    I feel exactly the same way. I want to delete it, yet I can't.  

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  • imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     

    My confession:

    I'm so sick of DH's lazy ass. He gets unemployment, so he's not working right now. Do you think just once that maybe he could offer to get up with the baby at night? Nope he gets his 8 to 10 hours of sleep. It's not like he has a job to go to and needs to sleep, so I'm just a little pissed off that he can't even offer to let me sleep and he get up with her. I'm getting so fed up with him. The only thing he does to take care of the baby is make her a bottle when I ask him. It's bullsh*t. I can't even go anywhere without her because he doesn't know how to take care of her and just lets her cry. He's only changed her diaper 3 times since she's been born. I feel so sad, alone, depressed, and overwhelmed.

    End of rant. 

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  • imagemandyhall2882:

    My confession:

    I'm so sick of DH's lazy ass. He gets unemployment, so he's not working right now. Do you think just once that maybe he could offer to get up with the baby at night? Nope he gets his 8 to 10 hours of sleep. It's not like he has a job to go to and needs to sleep, so I'm just a little pissed off that he can't even offer to let me sleep and he get up with her. I'm getting so fed up with him. The only thing he does to take care of the baby is make her a bottle when I ask him. It's bullsh*t. I can't even go anywhere without her because he doesn't know how to take care of her and just lets her cry. He's only changed her diaper 3 times since she's been born. I feel so sad, alone, depressed, and overwhelmed.

    End of rant. 

    I'm so sorry you're going through this!  You need to sit down with your H and talk about how you're feeling, otherwise you'll just keep building up resentment towards him and it'll definitely hurt your marriage.  My H is pretty clueless, but I ask him to help and he's getting there.  He's terrified of babies, so I understand that he's not completely comfortable, but he's at least trying now, I had to ask him for the first few weeks to help with simple tasks, but now he will pick up DS when he's crying and I'm not in the room,  he changes diapers quite often, and will even dress him for the day...although the last two tasks take him a long time to do, I don't criticize him or say anything but thank you.  I've realized that I need to go at this with a positive mindset and he's definitely getting better. 

    Good luck with your H, just don't be afraid to ask him for help...boys can be pretty dumb, we need to make sure we train them properly :)

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  • imagemandyhall2882:

    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     


     

    I believe its mylovelyusername/peonypetla/hisnoIfac/ect

    Shes been posting on TTC and BOTB 

    I've been following the drama, it gives me some good reading when the boys are asleep.

    My confession is that I secretly want a weekend away, just by myself. I love my kids and DH but, lately, I don't feel like he worries about how I'm feeling ( I know hes does, but meh)

  • imagesptaylor91:
    I'm tempted to delete my FB account because thing are getting wayyyy to personal over there, it makes me feel all "1984"/iROBOT or whatever. But, I'm worried I'm going to miss something by deleting it.

    I'm with you on this one. I'm about done with staying in touch with people I haven't seen in forever and will never see again. I need to sever that tie. I like stalking too much, though.

     

    My confession: I hate my job. I don't want to stay home with DS because that made me crazy before I came back to work. I like working, but not this. It just doesn't interest me anymore. I'm thinking about TTC#2 early next year so I have a good excuse to quit next fall.  The only thing stopping me is that we need a bigger place for 2 kids, and we can't make that happen if I'm not working. 

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  • imagemandyhall2882:

    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     

    My confession:

    I'm so sick of DH's lazy ass. He gets unemployment, so he's not working right now. Do you think just once that maybe he could offer to get up with the baby at night? Nope he gets his 8 to 10 hours of sleep. It's not like he has a job to go to and needs to sleep, so I'm just a little pissed off that he can't even offer to let me sleep and he get up with her. I'm getting so fed up with him. The only thing he does to take care of the baby is make her a bottle when I ask him. It's bullsh*t. I can't even go anywhere without her because he doesn't know how to take care of her and just lets her cry. He's only changed her diaper 3 times since she's been born. I feel so sad, alone, depressed, and overwhelmed.

    End of rant. 

     

    I'm sorry.. that sucks.  I have to straight out ask DH to do things or he mostly wont.  I've also had to show him what things work best with LO, what routine, what order.  We always give his bath together at night and then my H usually feeds him a couple times in the evening.  But again, this isn't without me asking him to and showing him what to do.

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  • My fffc:   DH sleeps like a brick so unless DS is screaming over the monitor he wont wake up.   Tonight I'd like to put that darn monitor in his ear and pretend I'm sleeping lol!  
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  • Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 
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  • imageSarahPLiz:
    Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 

    I feel the same as you sometime! I have a September baby.. and sometimes it feels like all the other babies are so much older and my LO. 6 week growth spurt? We haven't even hit 3 weeks yet! I basically got told by the Sept board to go away. 

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  • For some reason, it's easier to take care of both LOs when I'm home by myself. As soon as DH walks through the door at the end of the day DD starts whining! I don't understand it. It's so peaceful all day (for the most part)...but as soon as he's home she turns into a fuss ball. For that reason, I've come to enjoy the work week more than the weekends!

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    imageSarahPLiz:
    Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 

    I feel the same as you sometime! I have a September baby.. and sometimes it feels like all the other babies are so much older and my LO. 6 week growth spurt? We haven't even hit 3 weeks yet! I basically got told by the Sept board to go away. 

    Well that's crappy. I'm sorry! 

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  • imageSarahPLiz:
    imageohyeahdollface:

    imageSarahPLiz:
    Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 

    I feel the same as you sometime! I have a September baby.. and sometimes it feels like all the other babies are so much older and my LO. 6 week growth spurt? We haven't even hit 3 weeks yet! I basically got told by the Sept board to go away. 

    Well that's crappy. I'm sorry! 

    I was going to board bounce, since I could technically relate to both ends. They pretty much told me it was dumb to try to fit in to a new board, when I was pregnant with the ladies over here. Silly ladies! Oh well, people over here are so much nicer.  

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  • My ILs are coming this weekend and I'm going to want to punch them. I hate it when they visit and hold LO. I want to scream and grab my baby and run away with her.
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  • imageetoyama:
    My ILs are coming this weekend and I'm going to want to punch them. I hate it when they visit and hold LO. I want to scream and grab my baby and run away with her.

    Oh goodness...this is how I feel. My ILs are usually great, but since LO has been born they have been driving me up the wall. MIL hoards him whenever she's around and says the most annoying things. Also, when he's fussy, they won't give him back to me to let me try to comfort him. They insist on trying to figure out WHY he's fussy. He must be hungry. His diaper must be dirty. He must not like the light on. He must want to go outside. OH MY GOSH! Just let me handle it!

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    imageetoyama:
    My ILs are coming this weekend and I'm going to want to punch them. I hate it when they visit and hold LO. I want to scream and grab my baby and run away with her.

    Oh goodness...this is how I feel. My ILs are usually great, but since LO has been born they have been driving me up the wall. MIL hoards him whenever she's around and says the most annoying things. Also, when he's fussy, they won't give him back to me to let me try to comfort him. They insist on trying to figure out WHY he's fussy. He must be hungry. His diaper must be dirty. He must not like the light on. He must want to go outside. OH MY GOSH! Just let me handle it!

    Glad I'm not the only one! There's nothing worse than seeing your child upset and not being able to comfort them. Mine do the same thing and try to figure out why she's crying. I want to say, "she wants her mom, and she knows you're not her!"
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    imageetoyama:
    My ILs are coming this weekend and I'm going to want to punch them. I hate it when they visit and hold LO. I want to scream and grab my baby and run away with her.

    Oh goodness...this is how I feel. My ILs are usually great, but since LO has been born they have been driving me up the wall. MIL hoards him whenever she's around and says the most annoying things. Also, when he's fussy, they won't give him back to me to let me try to comfort him. They insist on trying to figure out WHY he's fussy. He must be hungry. His diaper must be dirty. He must not like the light on. He must want to go outside. OH MY GOSH! Just let me handle it!

    My (future) MIL is like that. She also she whistles at my son like you would a dog. I don't know why it bothers me so much, but it seriously raises my blood pressure. That being said, she is not a bad MIL to have, as I have seen many stories much more ridiculous than mine. 

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    imagemandyhall2882:

    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     


     

    I believe its mylovelyusername/peonypetla/hisnoIfac/ect

    Shes been posting on TTC and BOTB 

    I've been following the drama, it gives me some good reading when the boys are asleep.

    My confession is that I secretly want a weekend away, just by myself. I love my kids and DH but, lately, I don't feel like he worries about how I'm feeling ( I know hes does, but meh)

    Yep. She has also posted on the baby names board. That child has issues!

     

  • Logically I know that it takes 2 people to make a baby. And the kid "belongs" to both people. But for some reason after 9+ months, 22hrs of labor, a c-section under general anesthesia, mental/physical/emotional stress/changes & thousands in medical bills & baby supplies...i feel like she belongs more to me than to my X. I know it doesn't make it right but those are my feelings. And it breaks my heart everytime I look at her & think/know that it's a very real possibility that I'll have to evenly split time with her, just because loserdad filed for joint custody already. (FTR: he's a good dad to his other kids, I just think he sucks as a human). I'm afraid that with all this on my mind, I won't form a strong emotional bond w/LO even though I know she won't be taken completely from me & I'll always be her mom. But still, my fear is that I won't connect with her. I don't want to say that I regret making the decision to have her...I just regret the person I chose to procreate with ((guess this is more of a rant than a confession...sorry))
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  • imageWashingtonQueen:
    imageHelloWaldorf:
    imagemandyhall2882:

    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     


     

    I believe its mylovelyusername/peonypetla/hisnoIfac/ect

    Shes been posting on TTC and BOTB 

    I've been following the drama, it gives me some good reading when the boys are asleep.

    My confession is that I secretly want a weekend away, just by myself. I love my kids and DH but, lately, I don't feel like he worries about how I'm feeling ( I know hes does, but meh)

    Yep. She has also posted on the baby names board. That child has issues!

     

     

    Issues doesn't even begin to describe it... Did you see this morning's drama from "myshiityusername" . The worst/most entertaining part is that she talks to herself with her AEs .  

  • imagemananana:

    I love my career and never thought I could do the SAHM thing, but it's now my deepest wish.  I couldn't possibly leave work in the lurch and consider breaking my contract and we owe so much in student loans that it's not an option, but I keep hoping there will be a way. 

    It's kind of ironic that I'll be off to be with other children for most of their waking hours while someone else is with my child for most of his waking hours.

    Ironic isn't it?  I really want to stay at home now too, I never would've thought I'd say that but in my head I come up with all sorts of plans to make it happen. Unfortunately none of these plans are really feasible :( 

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  • imagemomack86:
    Logically I know that it takes 2 people to make a baby. And the kid "belongs" to both people. But for some reason after 9+ months, 22hrs of labor, a c-section under general anesthesia, mental/physical/emotional stress/changes & thousands in medical bills & baby supplies...i feel like she belongs more to me than to my X. I know it doesn't make it right but those are my feelings. And it breaks my heart everytime I look at her & think/know that it's a very real possibility that I'll have to evenly split time with her, just because loserdad filed for joint custody already. (FTR: he's a good dad to his other kids, I just think he sucks as a human). I'm afraid that with all this on my mind, I won't form a strong emotional bond w/LO even though I know she won't be taken completely from me & I'll always be her mom. But still, my fear is that I won't connect with her. I don't want to say that I regret making the decision to have her...I just regret the person I chose to procreate with ((guess this is more of a rant than a confession...sorry))
    I'm so sorry. That is such a crappy situation. If you ask me, there's no question that child is more yours than his. And there's no doubt in my mind she feels connected to you. She knows her mom. (((HUGS)))
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  • imagemandyhall2882:

    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     

    My confession:

    I'm so sick of DH's lazy ass. He gets unemployment, so he's not working right now. Do you think just once that maybe he could offer to get up with the baby at night? Nope he gets his 8 to 10 hours of sleep. It's not like he has a job to go to and needs to sleep, so I'm just a little pissed off that he can't even offer to let me sleep and he get up with her. I'm getting so fed up with him. The only thing he does to take care of the baby is make her a bottle when I ask him. It's bullsh*t. I can't even go anywhere without her because he doesn't know how to take care of her and just lets her cry. He's only changed her diaper 3 times since she's been born. I feel so sad, alone, depressed, and overwhelmed.

    End of rant. 

    I can somewhat relate.  My husband has been driving me nuts.  I feel like I'm taking care of two babies.  Sometimes I'm just too exhausted to even talk to him and I feel like I wouldn't even care if he left me because I do everything myself anyway.  I hate feeling that way towards him.  I'm so happy with the baby and never even got hit with the baby blues, I just never imagined that I'd have to deal with my husband's bullsh*t and THAT would bring me down.  I'm happier when he's at work and just me and my LO by ourselves.  I've talked to friends and supposedly they (the men) change after they get used to the shock of having a child so I'm going to wait it out.  Good luck to you and your H and just know that you're not alone in your feelings.

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  • mandyhall2882 We have comment at various times on each others post so I feel I can say this to you.  As you know my boyfriend wasn't very supportive of me having this child having had a few already, but as I had hoped he has come around.  I am sorry that your husband who like you mentioned isn't working doesn't help you out more.  My boyfriend doesn't work either and he has commented that he isn't looking forward to me going back to work and saddling him with LO.  I do a lot for my LO but my boyfriend is a big help except when he tells me "she is crying because you are doing this or that wrong."  Isn't there someone like your parents or in-laws or a friend who can help you out? I feel for you because if my bf did not come around and share his prior knowledge I would be besides myself.  Good Luck to you.  

    ohyeahdoll... I have seen you on several posts as well and I too was an August turned September in giving birth.  I was not officially kicked out of the Sept. Boards but they sure don't make me feel welcome.  It sucks how mean some people can be simply because they don't really know you.  I like it better here with you and the rest of the gals. 
     
    momack86 I haven't really known you just seen you around recently, but I feel for you.  If my boyfriend and I split (I bite my tongue) It would be hard.  A: I love him. B: He is a terrific father to his other children. C: Unlike yours he wouldn't fight for custody joint or otherwise, but I would let him see her whenever he wanted to. As for the regrets I have none about having her, but neither do I have any about whom I created her with nor would I.  If I didn't have her with him who knows who I would have and when.  I cannot imagine my life without Grace A. and that is because she as much a part of him as of me.  Hell she looks just like him and I feel like I was just the vessel she was carried in for 10 months.  Good Luck to all you ladies.  
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    mandyhall2882 We have comment at various times on each others post so I feel I can say this to you.  As you know my boyfriend wasn't very supportive of me having this child having had a few already, but as I had hoped he has come around.  I am sorry that your husband who like you mentioned isn't working doesn't help you out more.  My boyfriend doesn't work either and he has commented that he isn't looking forward to me going back to work and saddling him with LO.  I do a lot for my LO but my boyfriend is a big help except when he tells me "she is crying because you are doing this or that wrong."  Isn't there someone like your parents or in-laws or a friend who can help you out? I feel for you because if my bf did not come around and share his prior knowledge I would be besides myself.  Good Luck to you.  

    ohyeahdoll... I have seen you on several posts as well and I too was an August turned September in giving birth.  I was not officially kicked out of the Sept. Boards but they sure don't make me feel welcome.  It sucks how mean some people can be simply because they don't really know you.  I like it better here with you and the rest of the gals. 
     
    momack86 I haven't really known you just seen you around recently, but I feel for you.  If my boyfriend and I split (I bite my tongue) It would be hard.  A: I love him. B: He is a terrific father to his other children. C: Unlike yours he wouldn't fight for custody joint or otherwise, but I would let him see her whenever he wanted to. As for the regrets I have none about having her, but neither do I have any about whom I created her with nor would I.  If I didn't have her with him who knows who I would have and when.  I cannot imagine my life without Grace A. and that is because she as much a part of him as of me.  Hell she looks just like him and I feel like I was just the vessel she was carried in for 10 months.  Good Luck to all you ladies.  
     
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  • hubby has been so busy with work he is never home and I feel like a single mother lately....it sucks and i miss him :(
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  • imageetoyama:
    imagemomack86:
    Logically I know that it takes 2 people to make a baby. And the kid "belongs" to both people. But for some reason after 9+ months, 22hrs of labor, a c-section under general anesthesia, mental/physical/emotional stress/changes & thousands in medical bills & baby supplies...i feel like she belongs more to me than to my X. I know it doesn't make it right but those are my feelings. And it breaks my heart everytime I look at her & think/know that it's a very real possibility that I'll have to evenly split time with her, just because loserdad filed for joint custody already. (FTR: he's a good dad to his other kids, I just think he sucks as a human). I'm afraid that with all this on my mind, I won't form a strong emotional bond w/LO even though I know she won't be taken completely from me & I'll always be her mom. But still, my fear is that I won't connect with her. I don't want to say that I regret making the decision to have her...I just regret the person I chose to procreate with ((guess this is more of a rant than a confession...sorry))
    I'm so sorry. That is such a crappy situation. If you ask me, there's no question that child is more yours than his. And there's no doubt in my mind she feels connected to you. She knows her mom. (((HUGS)))

    thank you :) 

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  • imageCrash Into Me:
    If I hear the SHHH sound one more time today I might lose my mind.  The 5 S's were not working last night (well, DH wasn't doing them right) and finally I told him it was time to move on to a different method.  I picked her up, put her vertically on my chest and she stopped fussing immediately.  I hate doing that, I know DH is really trying, but I spend so much time with DD that I KNOW how to calm her quickly. 

    I hate when I do that. But really..my way is better. LOL

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  • imageohyeahdollface:
    imageSarahPLiz:
    imageohyeahdollface:

    imageSarahPLiz:
    Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 

    I feel the same as you sometime! I have a September baby.. and sometimes it feels like all the other babies are so much older and my LO. 6 week growth spurt? We haven't even hit 3 weeks yet! I basically got told by the Sept board to go away. 

    Well that's crappy. I'm sorry! 

    I was going to board bounce, since I could technically relate to both ends. They pretty much told me it was dumb to try to fit in to a new board, when I was pregnant with the ladies over here. Silly ladies! Oh well, people over here are so much nicer.  

    I feel this way too - I am Sept 2nd and I love my August mommies so much that I don't even care I am technically a September mommy. Plus, this board lets me learn from what others have already done! I <3 you ladies!

     My confession: The other night I was really frustrated feeding the baby while DH slept that I started bawling...loudly. I am unhappy with my body (okay 3 wks pp and I am way hard on myself), I am giving up my job because it I can't do it and take care of her, and my skin broke out so I have zits everywhere. It was one of those weird moments where now I look back and laugh at how shallow I was being...but really I do miss my body...please tell me I can get it back?!

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    imageSarahPLiz:
    imageohyeahdollface:

    imageSarahPLiz:
    Also, I haven't been here in 2 months. Not because I don't like y'all but because I don't feel like I fit anymore. I had a July baby, but he's developmentally and August baby, so I don't fit with the July moms either. I mostly just lurk both boards. 

    I feel the same as you sometime! I have a September baby.. and sometimes it feels like all the other babies are so much older and my LO. 6 week growth spurt? We haven't even hit 3 weeks yet! I basically got told by the Sept board to go away. 

    Well that's crappy. I'm sorry! 

    I was going to board bounce, since I could technically relate to both ends. They pretty much told me it was dumb to try to fit in to a new board, when I was pregnant with the ladies over here. Silly ladies! Oh well, people over here are so much nicer.  

    1 - SarahPLiz - I am glad to see you around here. I've been wondering about you and baby ATL

    2 - WTF September board? Their loss.

    3 - OhYeah, I am the opposite of you I guess. DD came early so I ended up with a July baby (but I like it better here :D), so when I wanted to talk 6-week growth spurt, people were posting about their LO's losing their umbilical cord stump. lol At least if you ask a question, you can be pretty sure most of the board has been through the same thing already, so you can get lots of advice :)

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  • my FFFC:

    I am glad DH is out tonight (he went to play Dungeons and Dragons with his friends - did I mention I married a geek? lol). He's been out of a job for 3 weeks now, which means we've been together pretty much 24/7 since then. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, but I just feel like I can never get any alone time with him around so much.

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    imageWashingtonQueen:
    I am soooo sick of that 16 year old running around the boards talking about trying to get pregnant!

    I must have missed this. What boards is she posting on? 

     


     

    I believe its mylovelyusername/peonypetla/hisnoIfac/ect

    Shes been posting on TTC and BOTB 

    I've been following the drama, it gives me some good reading when the boys are asleep.

    My confession is that I secretly want a weekend away, just by myself. I love my kids and DH but, lately, I don't feel like he worries about how I'm feeling ( I know hes does, but meh)

    Yep. She has also posted on the baby names board. That child has issues!

     

     

    Issues doesn't even begin to describe it... Did you see this morning's drama from "myshiityusername" . The worst/most entertaining part is that she talks to herself with her AEs .  

    I honestly dont think that the new user name is her. I think it is someone trying to piss her off.

  • *sorry about the formatting, on my phone.*1- I feel like a b!tch because I pretty much have my pre-preg body back. Pure luck and good genes I guess. But the b!tch part is that I get secretly happy seeing certain people around town that told me my body would never be the same and flaunting my size 2 jeans in front of her. HA. 2- I love that we have both sets of parents near us and I want DS to be close to his grandparents. But I have major territorial issues with my mom around him. She keeps 'accidentally' calling herself mommy and calling him her little boy. And she does this stupid whistle and clicking to get his attention like he's a dog. I just want to snatch him from her and remind her that she is NOT his parent.
                                       
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