So I had never heard of this before but I guess they're becoming pretty common! I watched Nightline last night and they did a clip on Dadchelor parties, this is where the dad to be gets together with a bunch of guy friends and they all bring him diapers (or other gifts if requested) and then they all go out and party since obviously the dad-to-be will be much to busy after the baby is born.
I thought it was funny, but I told DH if this gets us some diapers then I am more than willing to let him have a night out on a party bus! I was joking, but now I am wondering how many of you have heard of this or have husbands who will be participating?!
Re: Dadchelor parties?
This is the first I've ever heard of this. It sounds ridiculous to me! I think it would be more beneficial before he becomes a dad to spend some time with you and appreciate being a couple.
Of course, I guess you can't deny the benefits of a male version of a baby shower, especially if it gets you more stuff.
My borther had one at the same time we had a girly baby shower for SIL so it gave the guys something to do. It was more of a BBQ and beer thing.
DH will be having a "Pamper Party", as we call, them around Halloween.
My little goofball born 1/2012
I think its cute (although I dont think DH would accept diapers in public) to do at home in the "man-cave" aka the garage with the football game on the big screen (got to man it up!!)
Wee#3 - Miscarried 11/2015
Rainbow Wiggles Due 06/29/2017
This. I would not be okay with a bachelor like party.
My SIL who is planning one of my showers asked if MH would want to have a "Dude Shower" while we were at the girls' shower. She thought her bf would like to plan it for MH and the guys could go bowling or play pool and they could bring "man gifts," which she specified as gifts the guys can put together and such. I thought this was fine, because most of the guys in the family would travel with their women to be in town for the shower, so they might as well go hang out together somewhere. Because Lord knows MH has no desire to watch me open presents and play silly games with his aunts. I don't know if that means that couples are expecting to do two gifts now that I think about it? But my guess is the guys won't bring gifts and they'll just hang out and have fun.