peonypetal..why'd you DD?

NotGabber · September 2011

salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?

Whatever it is, the profit margin can't be great. Or else they'd have access to healthcare and a second vehicle.

If my drug dealer boyfriend didn't buy me a car, I'd move on to a better drug dealer.

violaplayer · September 2011

That's all I have to say about thaaaat.

jenk84 · September 2011

How much for a ball? hahaha

brookelynpaisley · September 2011

salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?

I was wondering when you'd show up to this party

misstrish521 · September 2011

brookelynpaisley:
salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?

I was wondering when you'd show up to this party

Took her long enough.

salt78 · September 2011

brookelynpaisley:
salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?

I was wondering when you'd show up to this party

My reception is kind of spotty out here, but luckily not so much that I missed out on this clusterfvck.

WingoTaco · September 2011

retallica:
OP I see a fantastic episode of Maury in your future

Yes

MrsBlindLove · September 2011

NotGabber:
salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?
Whatever it is, the profit margin can't be great. Or else they'd have access to healthcare and a second vehicle.
If my drug dealer boyfriend didn't buy me a car, I'd move on to a better drug dealer.

Word. I know I did.

misstrish521 · September 2011

salt78:
brookelynpaisley:
salt78:
So what kind of drugs does he sell?

I was wondering when you'd show up to this party
My reception is kind of spotty out here, but luckily not so much that I missed out on this clusterfvck.

I'm glad to see you here!

ks3pink · September 2011

I just wanted to say that this sadly is most likely true. She is still a teenager (by age and maturity level) and this is really how they think. I can unfortunately see one of my high school students thinking this was going to be "so great".

OP - If you aren't ready for marriage why would you PLAN to have a baby? And at 19? I was 18 with DD, it wasn't planned and though I wouldn't trade her for the world I wish I had been finished with college and married. Please think about this before Monday! You have plenty of time.

kelnyc · September 2011

dani2480:

peonypetal:
We only broke up once and he didn't have relationships with the other girls. The first one was his ex and we didnt break up we just werent committed yet. He was never in a relationship with his daughters mom she was just someone he messed around with. I'm not worried about them because I know where he wants to be and so do they since he keeps coming back to me.So no there is nothing wrong!

Sweetheart, I'm going to say this as gently as possible.

Do not have a child with this man unless you are fully prepared to be a single mother. I know right now you to are "in love" and think everything will be perfect forever. But it won't. He has a poor track record of impregnating women and then leaving (and while he may stay involved in the kid's lives, it is NOT the same as being there full time).

Your boyfriend lacked the maturity and forethought to use protection with these other women. Did he want these kids? Or were they truly "accidents"? You don't know what he told them. He may tell you that the pregnancies were accidents, but he could have been whispering in their ears that he "loved them" and "wanted to make a baby" with them, or whatever else. And he'd have every reason to lie to you about what was said to them back then. You could just be his next "victim", who he's saying all the right things to so he can "spread his seed". Believe it or not, there are some guys out there that secretly enjoy impregnating as many women as possible. Naturally, they don't tell this to the women they're with. But, his track record seems to suggest this could be the case with this guy. Plus... one has to wonder why he'd be sleeping with his ex? I assume they were exes for a reason? At the very least, why didn't he use protection with her? Is he mentally handicapped such that he doesn't realize that unprotected sex can lead to babies?

And if he already has three mouths to feed, and no job, how will he take care of your child/children? Consider that you don't have a job, or means to get to a job. How will you provide food, shelter, medicine, diapers, clothes, etc. for your own child?

This man will never be able to 100% devote himself to you and your children together, because his time, money, and attention will be forever shared and divided with his other children and their mothers. Is that REALLY what you want? For the rest of your life?

::golf clap::

Seriously OP, have you NEVER seen an episode of Maury? Almost all of those girls were once in the situation you are in now, and 9 times out of 10, it doesn't end well for them. You will NOT be the 1 time it's all sunshine and roses, I assure you.

ryansmamaxo · September 2011

He's probably one of those guys who does the classic "I wanna get you pregnant" or "I want to put my baby in you" while he's having sex with her. Why do guys do that?!?!? Probably because they want you to agree to go bareback or let him splooge in you. I promise you this man will not end up being a father, but a baby Daddy. Huge difference.

kelnyc · September 2011

ryansmamaxo:
He's probably one of those guys who does the classic "I wanna get you pregnant" or "I want to put my baby in you" while he's having sex with her. Why do guys do that?!?!? Probably because they want you to agree to go bareback or let him splooge in you. I promise you this man will not end up being a father, but a baby Daddy. Huge difference.

LOL@ "splooge".

AshleyR711 · September 2011

I love that this CF has been going on for over 4 hours.

Titts McGeee · September 2011

dalandrea:
peonypetal:
He still has money coming in. I'm 21 we have been together for going on 4 years. His sons is 6 and 3 his daughter is 18 months.
As a teacher, I can't let this one go... you claim to be "very well educated" yet last time I checked this sort of grammatical error is tackeled somewhere around 2nd grade...
ETA: typo

In which grade do they teach the correct spelling of "tackled" ?

Jessys_Girl · September 2011

Paisley4140:

peonypetal:
I'm not going to take it out myself I'm going to the clinic on Monday. Ive been on birth control for a long time so we have waited long enough we both are ready now.

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

The Princess Bride, FTW!!!

Manalyzer:

I believe this is appropriate, no?

This.Is.Awesome.So.Awesome!

peonypetal · September 2011

I'm getting tired of everyone here talking crap about me even after I logged off. I know that if we were in real life noone would say half of this crap to my face. You can talk all your crap on the internet because you know you won't have to back it up!

RayRay007 · September 2011

candr09:
6to82010:
peonypetal:
staycee:

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

What is an alot?

In what way, other than playing with them and perhaps feeding and bathing, is he "taking care of" his kids? Like babysitting? It certainly isn't "saving for their college education."

He buys them what they need...with what money?

I love alots.

I also love TTGP for threads like these.

RayRay007 · September 2011

cruelsound:
TunaTown:
kcanuck:

Yes!! Absolutely you can take out your own Mirena!! It is super easy and will save you having to go to a clinic!

First, get a pair of vice-grips. Boil them in clean water for at least 10 minutes (don't want to be dirty!!) and then pass them up into your vag. Place the Mirena stings into the vice-grips and ensure it locks.

Next, tie a string to the vice grips! Some people do this step first prior to inserting them into the vag, but you can do it either way. Then, tie the string to the handle of an open door. Lie down facing the door, and slam the heck out of it!!!

Hopefully it will remove your entire uterus! Seriously, if you aren't ready to get married, your BF can't support his kids and nobody seems to have a job--you are NOT ready to have a kid. You remind me of my (step) kid's deadbeat birth-mom.

Yes, Peony is ignorant.

But it doesn't warrant the post above.

All I could picture was some lady bleeding to death with a pair of vice grips in her hand and this post open on her computer.

Maybe I'm an awful person, but LOL!

eatdrinkstretch · September 2011

peonypetal:
I'm getting tired of everyone here talking crap about me even after I logged off. I know that if we were in real life noone would say half of this crap to my face. You can talk all your crap on the internet because you know you won't have to back it up!

If you were my friend in real life, not only would I tell you this to your face, but I would have slapped you about midway through this conversation. No joke.

JacquiSLO · September 2011

staycee:
Ramby:
PostyNotes:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.

Maybe this is too far, considering I missed everything today but... that is hilarious - I'm guessing the original post was something around the lines of Medicaid paying for her future LO b/c she didn't have insurance? Still... PostyNotes, you crack me up!

it started with her asking how to remove her mirena herself because she'll be O'ing tomorrow and wants a baby NOW! And can't afford a doctor visit to have it removed and doesn't want to wait a month for an appt anyway.

Therefore the "no insurance" direction the post went.

Sorry, I missed the original post. How does she know she'll ovulate tomorrow? Does she have super psychic power?! Is there an untapped resource of ovulation prediction that tells you exactly when you'll be ovulating that we've all been missing out on? And to think, I've just been checking CM and looking for the temperature shift. Sheesh.

Ramby · September 2011

peonypetal:
I'm getting tired of everyone here talking crap about me even after I logged off. I know that if we were in real life noone would say half of this crap to my face. You can talk all your crap on the internet because you know you won't have to back it up!

Once again... showing your maturity - which will obviuosly help you on this post Hmm

I don't know if I want to back it up...

SSGWifey · September 2011

eatdrinkstretch:

peonypetal:
I'm getting tired of everyone here talking crap about me even after I logged off. I know that if we were in real life noone would say half of this crap to my face. You can talk all your crap on the internet because you know you won't have to back it up!

If you were my friend in real life, not only would I tell you this to your face, but I would have slapped you about midway through this conversation. No joke.

Yes Yes

on_a_whim · September 2011

Oh my... this is still going on? *cringes*

SSGWifey · September 2011

on_a_whim:
Oh my... this is still going on? *cringes*

Sigh... yes. Are we done yet?

bostonbluejay · September 2011

dalandrea · September 2011

Titts McGeee:
dalandrea:

peonypetal:
He still has money coming in. I'm 21 we have been together for going on 4 years. His sons is 6 and 3 his daughter is 18 months.

As a teacher, I can't let this one go... you claim to be "very well educated" yet last time I checked this sort of grammatical error is tackeled somewhere around 2nd grade...

ETA: typo

In which grade do they teach the correct spelling of "tackled" ?

This is like 4 hours old, but I had to redeem myself and my other typo.... I totally know how to spell tackled correctly... oops. Embarrassed

btaylor19 · September 2011

also, btay was here. *waves*

megs&hops · September 2011

eatdrinkstretch:
peonypetal:
I'm getting tired of everyone here talking crap about me even after I logged off. I know that if we were in real life noone would say half of this crap to my face. You can talk all your crap on the internet because you know you won't have to back it up!

If you were my friend in real life, not only would I tell you this to your face, but I would have slapped you about midway through this conversation. No joke.

This.

srgw · September 2011

We would never be friends in real life but if I put up with your crap for half a second it woud be me asking for my money back! I work to earn a living. Not to support you, your BF and those poor innocent children.

My H and I share a car and work in opposite directions in different cities. We make it work. Sometimes I'm at work 2 hours before I start and sometimes he's there 2 hours after he's done. We deal because we're adults. (We'd add the bus into the equation but it's a 1.5 hour ride one way with 3 transfers and we'd rather not.)

You're going to do whatever you're going to do, I realize. Take a moment to think about the repercussions of your decision if you will though. Not for you, but for the innocent child. And while you're at it, don't you want to better yourself? College or technical school? You're not working so why don't you get some scholarships or take out some loans and get more than a GED? Just a thought.

grahambaby · November 2011

mrsz2008:
peonypetal:
cantalopes24:
peonypetal:
PostyNotes:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.

I am very well educated.

Then why don't you get a job that offers health insurance?

I had a job but the person I was riding with quit so I had no way to get there.
Lol, you don't have money for transportation to a job, but you think you can afford a baby.

Yes THIS!

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