peonypetal..why'd you DD?

sweetgotham · September 2011

brookelynpaisley:
sweetgotham:

MUDMUDMUDMUD...

You had a 'good job' (fyi, you still need to report tip money from working the poll, but I am sure you knew that) but between you and your husband had no car (Let me guess, when the baby comes, you will call 911...what is that...another $500-800 you can't afford so someone else will eatthe cost?) or other way to get there so you quit it, in this economy AND you have the mentality that government programs are, you know, free y'all!

I refuse. That's it. I refuse.

Why is she automatically MUD for being dumb? Some people really are stupid.

And speaking of dumb, you used the wrong "poll."

You are calling me dumb for a typo but the OP gets a pass? Confused

SSGWifey · September 2011

peonypetal:
cantalopes24:
peonypetal:
PostyNotes:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.

I am very well educated.

Then why don't you get a job that offers health insurance?

I had a job but the person I was riding with quit so I had no way to get there.

How about any public transportation...train, bus??

on_a_whim · September 2011

atlb:
peonypetal:

You must mean POLE not poll. I was not a stripper I would never do anything like that. We have a car but my boyfriend uses it during the day to drop off and pick up his kids. I was riding with a friend and she quit the restaurant was too far for me to take the bus and if I took the car the kids wouldn't get to school on time.

What is your degree in? And how many kids does your BF have?

I'm going to bet it isn't Linguistics, specifically English... and please goodness, I hope she doesn't say teaching...

6to82010 · September 2011

brookelynpaisley:
sweetgotham:

MUDMUDMUDMUD...

You had a 'good job' (fyi, you still need to report tip money from working the poll, but I am sure you knew that) but between you and your husband had no car (Let me guess, when the baby comes, you will call 911...what is that...another $500-800 you can't afford so someone else will eatthe cost?) or other way to get there so you quit it, in this economy AND you have the mentality that government programs are, you know, free y'all!

I refuse. That's it. I refuse.

Why is she automatically MUD for being dumb? Some people really are stupid.

And speaking of dumb, you used the wrong "poll."

HA HA!! I re-read that like 4 times, thinking she meant some sort of voting location - which is staffed by volunteers - and was wondering who would tip those people?...

BonitaKaz · September 2011

peonypetal:
sweetgotham:
peonypetal:
cantalopes24:
peonypetal:
PostyNotes:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.

I am very well educated.

Then why don't you get a job that offers health insurance?

I had a job but the person I was riding with quit so I had no way to get there.

MUDMUDMUDMUD...

You had a 'good job' (fyi, you still need to report tip money from working the poll, but I am sure you knew that) but between you and your husband had no car (Let me guess, when the baby comes, you will call 911...what is that...another $500-800 you can't afford so someone else will eatthe cost?) or other way to get there so you quit it, in this economy AND you have the mentality that government programs are, you know, free y'all!

I refuse. That's it. I refuse.

You must mean POLE not poll. I was not a stripper I would never do anything like that. We have a car but my boyfriend uses it during the day to drop off and pick up his kids. I was riding with a friend and she quit the restaurant was too far for me to take the bus and if I took the car the kids wouldn't get to school on time.

hmm... couldn't you all wake up early and he drop you off first then the kids? all in one big happy family trip? or pick you up after he drops off the kids if you're working nights?

staycee · September 2011

peonypetal:
We have a car but my boyfriend uses it during the day to drop off and pick up his kids. I was riding with a friend and she quit the restaurant was too far for me to take the bus and if I took the car the kids wouldn't get to school on time.

why don't you get a car, get a job, get insurance, get married, learn how to pay your bills and expenses every month (not letting the gov't provide you with a bigger apartment), and then maybe readdress the issue of removing your mirena

jp0129 · September 2011

advb0921:
Stupid work! I miss all the good stuff around here! Lol

Me too.. I take a 2 hr lunch and I miss so much.. need to learn to get on from my phone.

SSG I love your siggy Pic.

staycee · September 2011

peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?

Penguin1318 · September 2011

SSGWifey:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

I am new here too...but asking that sort of a question - you are just asking for snarky responses. Have you lurked here long - to get the feel of the boards?

I love your siggy pic. Brings back memories of when MH came home from deployment.

SSGWifey · September 2011

jp0129:

advb0921:
Stupid work! I miss all the good stuff around here! Lol

Me too.. I take a 2 hr lunch and I miss so much.. need to learn to get on from my phone.

SSG I love your siggy Pic.

Thank you!

BTW - Is there an Android App for this yet??? I can get on the site from my phone... but it would be great if there was an App.... hmm.....

peonypetal · September 2011

atlb:
peonypetal:

You must mean POLE not poll. I was not a stripper I would never do anything like that. We have a car but my boyfriend uses it during the day to drop off and pick up his kids. I was riding with a friend and she quit the restaurant was too far for me to take the bus and if I took the car the kids wouldn't get to school on time.

What is your degree in? And how many kids does your BF have?

I didn't go to college so I have a high school diploma. He has 3.

6to82010 · September 2011

staycee:
peonypetal:
We have a car but my boyfriend uses it during the day to drop off and pick up his kids. I was riding with a friend and she quit the restaurant was too far for me to take the bus and if I took the car the kids wouldn't get to school on time.

why don't you get a car, get a job, get insurance, get married, learn how to pay your bills and expenses every month (not letting the gov't provide you with a bigger apartment), and then maybe readdress the issue of removing your mirena

What? No way, its much easier for her to sit on her ass and let all of us tax payers take care of it for her. She says she was born after the 80s, so this chick is at most 21 yrs old. Clearly its time to start (add to?) a family. (Qualification: if you are 21, have a job, know how to pay bills, have insurance, a home, stability etc, clearly you are an outstanding person and this jab at peony's age/immaturity is not intended for you)

peonypetal · September 2011

staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?

He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

on_a_whim · September 2011

peonypetal:
PostyNotes:
peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.
I am very well educated.

In what?

6to82010 · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

OHMYGOD!!!!!!!! WTF.

brookelynpaisley · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

it just gets better and better. Seriously, again, keep the Mirena in

staycee · September 2011

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

on_a_whim · September 2011

6to82010:
peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.
OHMYGOD!!!!!!!! WTF.

Alright... here's the skinny...

1) At least ONE of you need to start looking for a job...today.

2) Once job is secured...wait...

3) Do NOT under any circumstances remove your Mirena...no matter what you see or hear...

4) Keep waiting...

5) ...keep waiting....

6) ....wait some more....

atlb · September 2011

OK, so you have a HS diploma, no job, a boyfriend that tries to skirt child support by quitting his job (and he has 3 kids already!!)... Yep, sounds like the perfect environment to bring a baby into. JHC.

Manalyzer · September 2011

Dude, it totally sounds like you have all your stuff together. I mean, your BF doesn't have a job, stays home with his kid from another chick, you don't have a job because you don't have transportation. Sounds like a legit reason to add another kid into the mix.

BonitaKaz · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

So, why can't you use the car? Don't they have school buses for the kids? Doesn't sound like he does much during the day.

And trust me, if y'all aren't ready to get married, y'all probably aren't ready to have kids. That's a much bigger commitment.

PostyNotes · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

You're an IDIOT.

An absolute, without a doubt, farking idiot.

Its people like you and your deadbeat BF that make the rest of us wish there were reproductive police. You shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. EVER. ON ANY PLANET.

MrsSerendipity · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

Oh FFS.

MrsSerendipity · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

Oh FFS.

foxxy1 · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

staycee · September 2011

BonitaKaz:

why can't you use the car? Don't they have school buses for the kids?

no kidding where are the school buses? Isn't the government supposed to be paying for school-type transportation (via school funding)?

Oh wait... the gov't has already doled out all its money to idiots like you who want a baby NOW cuz it's free!

peonypetal · September 2011

staycee:
peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

ToshaGirl · September 2011

For the love of......is this thread even real?

Listen sweetheart. You aren't ready to have a baby, regardless of what you might think.

And please explain, out of what income does he "buy them everything they want" ?

6to82010 · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.
We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

What is an alot?

In what way, other than playing with them and perhaps feeding and bathing, is he "taking care of" his kids? Like babysitting? It certainly isn't "saving for their college education."

He buys them what they need...with what money?

PostyNotes · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

Once again.... and please, take this to heart

You are an IDIOT.

staycee · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want.

whatever they want? Like playstations and stuff?

hey, do you have an iphone? Manicure? highlights? just wondering

DeerHunter79 · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

You are SO DUMB!!!!!!!! Please do not reproduce!!!!!!!!!!!

Manalyzer · September 2011

peonypetal:
We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

HOW? He doesn't have a job. This is so very very confusing.

How old are you? How long have you been together? How old are his kids?

peonypetal · September 2011

on_a_whim:
6to82010:
peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.
OHMYGOD!!!!!!!! WTF.
Alright... here's the skinny...
1) At least ONE of you need to start looking for a job...today.
2) Once job is secured...wait...
3) Do NOT under any circumstances remove your Mirena...no matter what you see or hear...
4) Keep waiting...
5) ...keep waiting....
6) ....wait some more....

I'm not going to take it out myself I'm going to the clinic on Monday. Ive been on birth control for a long time so we have waited long enough we both are ready now.

cantalopes24 · September 2011

atlb:
cantalopes24:
atlb:
brookelynpaisley:
atlb:
peonypetal:
PostyNotes:

peonypetal:
I deleted it because everyone was judgeing me.

The "government" will pay for your education too, maybe you should start there.

I am very well educated.

Obvi.

Hey now. She speaks well English

Do you think she's a lawyah?

Does she have her doctorate then?

I love you for remembering that. And for lots of other reasons too. Did she end up getting pregnant? Havent seen her in a while.

She must have gotten a not so faint BFP because she's on my BMB. Fortunately she hasn't almost died this pregnancy.

on_a_whim · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.
We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

Dense is the word that comes to mind.

So let me get this straight... neither of you work... and because you 'take care of his kids a lot (it's not alot, by the way).. and he "buys" them whatever they need and want (using quotations because I'm not totally certain about how this could be possible given the info you've supplied)... you think you're ready for a baby? That's effin' fantastic. This well-thought-out-plan-of-the-century is mind boggling.

PostyNotes · September 2011

Peony, for the love of fu^k! Stop talking.

candr09 · September 2011

6to82010:
peonypetal:
staycee:

peonypetal:
We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

but you are ready to procreate. I get it. Marriage is such a HUGE life changing commitment. He already has 3 and no job. You'd be insane to add to that.

We want to have a baby together I take care of his kids alot when they are at our house so I know that I'm ready. He's not working but he still is a good dad and takes care of his kids they have everything they need and he buys them whatever they want. We will get married later when we are ready for that.

What is an alot?

In what way, other than playing with them and perhaps feeding and bathing, is he "taking care of" his kids? Like babysitting? It certainly isn't "saving for their college education."

He buys them what they need...with what money?

Yes

AshleyR711 · September 2011

peonypetal:
staycee:
peony: - what does your boyfriend do for a job? How's his insurance plan? If he has insurance just get married and add on to his plan. Or is that too expensive?
He's not working right now because he watches his daughter during the day while her mom is at work. When he was working most of his check went to child support so her mom could pay for daycare so its better for him to just stay home with her. We are not ready to get married we talked about it maybe in a few years.

if neither of you work and he can barley support the kids has now... why on EARTH would you want to bring another child onto this earth who you and (he) can't support? That makes no sense. Is that the life you want for a child? Really?

peonypetal · September 2011

staycee:
BonitaKaz:

why can't you use the car? Don't they have school buses for the kids?

no kidding where are the school buses? Isn't the government supposed to be paying for school-type transportation (via school funding)?

Oh wait... the gov't has already doled out all its money to idiots like you who want a baby NOW cuz it's free!

The kids are too little to go on the bus they are only in headstart and 1st grade.I can't use the car because he has to go pick the boys up from theyre house then take them to school then pick his daughter up before her mom goes to work. it would be a big hassle if I took the car.

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