I'm asking the pedi too, but I'm just curious what you all think. Do you have any guidelines on how much milk vs how much food for a 6-7 month old? I've read milk is still the main form of nutrition so I want to make sure I'm not inadvertently substituting food for milk, but it's getting a little hard to keep the same feeding schedule he has at daycare on the weekends.
Any advice on the schedule would be really helpful too.
Basically this was his schedule:
7/7:30 nurse
8:30 cereal and/or babyfood
11:30 babyfood
12:45 bottle
3:30 bottle
5:30/6 babyfood
6:30/7 nurse
The problem is that at home, I can't make milk fast enough for two bottles within less than 3 hours in the afternoon. So I asked DCP to give him a bottle at 11:30 instead of food, and babyfood at 12:45 instead of milk, but that's hard for her to do because all the kids eat lunch at 11:30; so we decided on bottle at 8:30 and food at 3:30. But, that isn't the easiest for pumping or weekends either (I guess on the weekends I would just feed him a little later than 7:30, or feed him cereal rather than milk, but then I'm worried I'm not giving him enough milk those days). I can go up to 5 hours without pumping during the day and do ok, if that matters. He also wakes up around 10 pm and 2am for night feedings but I'm hoping those diminish soon.
sorry this is long and confusing - thanks if you read this far and have any thoughts
Re: breastmilk vs. babyfood
So how did this work with daycare? I'm mainly trying to keep the same schedule he has at daycare at home so he's not totally thrown off on the weekends. It seems to nap well he needs to eat before his nap and so that kind of dictates the other feedings, maybe not so much a schedule as a routine I guess.
6:30/7 am - nurse
8:30 am - breakfast
9:30 am - bottle
11:30 am - lunch
12:30 pm - bottle
3:30 pm - bottle
5 pm - nurse (he wanted to nurse as soon as we got home)
6:30 pm - dinner
8:00 pm - nurse before bed
Why are you giving him bottles when you're home with him instead of nursing? Unless you're EPing (and it doesn't seem like you are), I would just nurse him on weekends and don't worry about making bottles. If he wants to nurse more often, it's ok.
I nurse and pump, but realized I make only 3oz or so in 3 hours and 5oz plus at 4 hours, so I try to space milk out so he fills up a little better.
oh, and I'm nursing on weekends, but try to stick to the same general times so his naps aren't thrown off. He definitely sleeps better when the naps are at the same time and he eats right before.
Could you try pumping more often during the week to boost your supply (over time) so you can keep up better on the weekends? Or pump at night between his bedtime and the first nighttime feeding so you have some extra milk to supplement for the next day?
He eats so frequently at night (we put him down at 7 and he's up between 10 and 11, then again around 2 or 3) that I can't fit in any pumping at night. Its not that I can't necessarily keep up with the total amount, it's more the timing of when DCP gives him a bottle vs. when I can nurse. I guess it sounds like that I don't need to really worry about keeping the same feeding routine at DCP and home though?