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My Dh is being an ass please kick his ass
My Dh's response to the c/p is that I shouldn't be upset because it was only 4 days. And I should just have a whatever attitude and not care about anything. Yeah well if I didn't care we would never have a kid, he wouldn't have a new job and we would be living in east bum fck. I didn't realize I needed someone to manage how upset I needed to be, FYI I have a mother *raging* And he can't seem to grasp why I feel like I have been teased, my question is why doesn't he?
TTC#1
DX Hypothyroid,Prolactinoma, Annovulatory Cycles, Celiac, Lichen,IBS, Severe Allergies ETC>>
M/C 1/2011
May 2011 Clomid 50mg +Ovidrel-BFN
June 2011 HSG, DH SA Both Normal
Sept 2011 C/P
Sep 2011 IUI w/Frozen Sperm, progesterone therapy
DX Hypothyroid,Prolactinoma, Annovulatory Cycles, Celiac, Lichen,IBS, Severe Allergies ETC>>
M/C 1/2011
May 2011 Clomid 50mg +Ovidrel-BFN
June 2011 HSG, DH SA Both Normal
Sept 2011 C/P
Sep 2011 IUI w/Frozen Sperm, progesterone therapy
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Re: My Dh is being an ass please kick his ass
He's just being a man. I think it takes men a hell of a lot longer to get it. I don't even know my husband understands the extent of my heartbreak over this m/c and he was there every step of the way. He was bummed, but he was over it after a few days.
I just asked him how he would feel if we had a chemical pregnancy, and his response was that he wouldn't be as sad if it didn't have an umbilical cord yet. Which just goes to show you - men are wayyyyy different than women.
Chart/Blog
Nothing breeds faster than Crazy
TTC#1 Chart
TTC#2 Chart
IUI #1 - #4 (repronex trigger) = BFN
IUI#5 on 10/28/2008 ** BFP 11/10/08 ** EDD 07/21/09 *** It's a GIRL (07/14/09)
med/treatment free BFP 06/28/10. EDD 03/05/11 *** GIRL #2 (02/23/11)
beta#1 @ 17dpo = 1296 .... beta#2 @ 19dpo = 3034
it's the Bug and Baby Belle!
This, totally. I'm sorry he is being so annoying.
IVF with ICSI #1: BFP
TESE for DH 08/09/09
ER 08/09/09; ET 08/14/09; Beta #1 08/23/09: 150; Beta #2 08/25/09: 267
TTC #2: FET #1: BFP
ET 06/16/11; Beta #1 06/25/11: 282; Beta #2 06/27/11: 777
First u/s: Twins! Baby A stopped growing @ 9 weeks, forever in our hearts
TTC #3: FET #2: c/p lost at 4 weeks
Men are from mars.
Seriously though. They just process everything totally different then we do. I'm sorry he's being such an ass.
TTC #1 - May 2010 - IUI #3: BFP
TTC #2 - May 2012 -IUI #2: BFP
Men are dumb.
Mine just came back from walking the dogs and listening to someone's pod cast. He said, "did you know that if you are trying to conceive you shouldn't take ibuprofen?" I gave him a blank stare and said "did you know that I haven't taken an Advil or an Aleve in over 5 years?"
TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!