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Because I'm curious: do you take your kids into the liquor store?

Someone asked on FB--most said no, though a couple said yes. Some people said it was illegal or had been asked to leave.

 

I wouldn't attempt to take my teenager into one, but I've never had anyone say anything or refuse to sell to me with my kids in tow. I don't take them into the shady ones (hello, that's why those have drive thru windows), but I take them into the Whole Food's wine store and sometimes we go into Liquor Barn (basically the walmart of liquor stores).  

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Re: Because I'm curious: do you take your kids into the liquor store?

  • Ha!  I was 8 months pregnant and had DD with me the last time I went to the liquor store!  I needed vodka for my homemade vodka cream sauce.  I bought a small bottle.  Of course, it was wrapped in a little brown bag.  I tossed it into my purse and then headed into the grocery store. 

    My purse was a little full, so the top of the bottle kept popping out of my purse!  Klassy!  Stick out tongue

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  • No. And we don't have drive-thru liquor stores.
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  • I don't drink anymore but I used to, yes.  I don't see what the big deal is.
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    Sure. I've always taken my son into liquor stores except in Indiana where they have very amusing, arcane and ineffective laws about such things. Not sure why it would be OK to take a toddler but not a teen, but whatever. I get my teen to haul cases for me the same way he carries in groceries and mows the lawn.

    I was once asked to leave a restaurant in Indianapolis because I had DS with me. It was between lunch and dinner and I was picking up takeout. Because the room had a bar it was illegal to bring him. They directed me to the other side of the room, behind a half wall and a rail with 6" cafe curtains and we were suddenly legal again. Must some magical curtains.  And here's the thing, nobody from Indianawith whom I shared this story throught it was weird, amusing or even ironic.

     

    The person on FB is from Indiana, so it makes sense why people were saying it was illegal.

    Our liquor stores have signs that say that people under 21 are not allowed in the liquor stores, so I assume as the child gets older, they're more likely to not sell me alcohol? IDK, maybe I'm wrong.  I've seen kids older than mine in the liquor stores.

    Another question--do they not sell beer in grocery stores in Indiana?  

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  • Illegal?!  Is this true?  I'm going to have to look that one up.  

    Yes, I take my daughter.  Not often, but on occasion.  I had this conversation with a family member who was completely mortified that I've taken her.  I don't get it.  SHe knows we drink, just as I knew my parents drank.  Why would I hide the purchasing of said drink when I don't hide the actual drinking of it?  

    And what's the difference between going to the liquor store or purchasing it at the grocery store or Costco?   


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  • There are places that have drive through liquor stores?????? I can't remember the last time I have been to a liquor store. I haven't taken DS in, but only because he is a whirlwind of destruction and liquor stores tend to have many precariously balanced shelves of breakable objects. Other than that I would have no issue. I feel like the only place we get alcohol is wine at Coscto, though :)
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  • We have a great wine section at my local grocery store, so I usually just pick up from there while grocery shopping with the kids. 
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  • I take them all the time. No biggie. 
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  • No, but only because I am concerned about them breaking something.

     

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  • I am jealous of all of you that can buy wine in the grocery store!!!!  

    Ours is only 3.2% beer in grocery stores and gas stations. For all the hard stuff and real beer, have to go to a liquor store.
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    There are places that have drive through liquor stores??????

    My first thought, too! Damn puritanical MA laws!

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    imageDevonPow:
    There are places that have drive through liquor stores??????

    My first thought, too! Damn puritanical MA laws!

    Damn MA. Drive through packies would make my life a million times easier!  

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  • I am so jealous of those that can buy wine in a grocery store.  In my county in Maryland alcohol of any kind is only sold in a liquor store- no grocery, gas station, convienience store, etc.
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  • Not only do we have drive throughs we can get margaritas to go:)0
  • This weekend DH and I stopped in World Market and bought some beer and wine and DS was with us.  I did briefly wonder if anyone was judging us.  Of course World Market has food and furniture as well but we were only buying beer and wine.  DS knows that DH and I will have a glass of wine or beer.  We're not big drinkers at all, at most we have 1-2 drinks a month! 
  • Indiana? <raises hand>

    So yeah, no kids in a liquor store. No drive through liquor store windows. No alcohol sales on Sundays.* I got escorted out of a liquor store when ds was a tiny newborn because I had him with me. The manager did tell me, however, that I could stand at the door with the baby, get an employee's attention and have them get whatever I needed. I just couldn't cross the threshold into the actual store.

     

    *except for a recent law that allows local breweries and wineries to sell on Sundays for tourism reasons. We have an awesome brewery five minutes away so on Sundays we can now go get a growler of beer filled and bring it home. We have a winery five minutes in the opposite direction. Score!

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    I am so jealous of those that can buy wine in a grocery store.  In my county in Maryland alcohol of any kind is only sold in a liquor store- no grocery, gas station, convienience store, etc.

    It is only very recently in Ontario that some grocery stores have kiosks that will sell wine (and a very poor selection of wine to boot).  Buying booze and beer means going to a liquor or beer store for us too.

    Our liquor laws are brutal.  Not to mention how pricey the booze is!

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  • I have before but I avoid it mostly out of fear that they will break something.  We can buy beer and wine at the grocery store and it's very rare that I need to go to the liquor store in any case.
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    I am so jealous of those that can buy wine in a grocery store.  In my county in Maryland alcohol of any kind is only sold in a liquor store- no grocery, gas station, convienience store, etc.

    MD's county system is pretty confusing. My mother's summer place is outside of OC and I'm almost certain I've purchased chardonnay at the local 7-Eleven in a pinch. They do sell wine and beer at stores in Wicomico that are typically next to County Liquor stores which feature hard liquor and a poor selection of wines. One can also buy marked up liquor at bars in this part of the state.

    Yes, in Wicomico, also Montgomery County and some others it is different.  I've seen beer in a Chipotle in Montgomery County.  I am in Baltimore County- very strict! 

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  • No wine or beer in grocery or convenience stores? Wth? Even the Dollar Generals here sell beer and some wines. They may not be the good stuff but in a pinch I'm sure people snatch it up. I thought we were behind when they started selling and serving alcohol on Sundays. I wouldn't go into the liquor store with the kid simply b/c I have no need to and if I would worry her busybody would break something.
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    No, but only because I am concerned about them breaking something.

     

    Exactly this. I can just see DS knocking over a bottle display. I make DH go.

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  • Yes. I don't like it because I worry about them taking out a shelf full of glass bottles, not to mention they make it hard for me to browse. I wish they had drive throughs here! People's attitudes toward this are funny. We don't hide the fact that we drink, our kids will grow up knowing that their parents drink alcohol responsibly, so I don't see the need for them to think the liquor fairy comes during the night and magically fills the bar.
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    Yes. I don't like it because I worry about them taking out a shelf full of glass bottles, not to mention they make it hard for me to browse. I wish they had drive throughs here! People's attitudes toward this are funny. We don't hide the fact that we drink, our kids will grow up knowing that their parents drink alcohol responsibly, so I don't see the need for them to think the liquor fairy comes during the night and magically fills the bar.

    Ditto! 

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  • No.   We can buy wine in grocery stores (except on Sunday) and have drive thru beverage barns.

    Plus, my mom stocks up @ the Class 6 store on base and shares.  Told ya, she's a great mom : )


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  • In Indiana there is all forms of acohol/wine/beer in the groceries...just nothing cold.  (same with convenience stores and Walgreens/CVS type stores). 

    The only place to buy cold is at the liquor stores.  

    Also - can't buy any alcohol on Sundays or holidays (incl. election days). 

    There were 2 drive-thru liquor stores in the small town near where I grew up....not a big deal to me then, of course, but I'd love one of those now! 

     

  • It's illegal here, too.  Anyone under 21 is not allowed to even enter a liquor store or bar in our state.  In fact, there are restuarants that doors where you can enter through the bar, and you are not allowed to bring your kids through that door even to get to the main restuarant.  You have to go around to the other door.

    Now where I grew up, alcohol is sold in grocery stores, so it is obviously much different there.  Kids are allowed in bars up until a certain time, too.

  • I don't understand having wine in grocery stores and not being able to buy on Sunday- is it in a specific area they close off?  Do the cashiers just not ring it up?
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    I don't understand having wine in grocery stores and not being able to buy on Sunday- is it in a specific area they close off?  Do the cashiers just not ring it up?

    In some states, you have to go to a liquor store to purchase any kind of liquor. Grocery stores don't carry wine here.

    To answer the original question, I never bring my LOs to a liquor store. It's easy enough to have DH pick up whatever we want on the way home from work. I have gone pregnant though.

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    I don't understand having wine in grocery stores and not being able to buy on Sunday- is it in a specific area they close off?  Do the cashiers just not ring it up?

    The registers are set to recognize it's outside of the allowed times to sell. I used to forget sometimes when I worked at the grocery store in college only to hear this ear piercing "beeeeep".

    Jetta --- they sell individual, cold beers, wine coolers and indiv mini bottles of wine here. Embarrassed

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  • imageashleyaugust7:
    I don't understand having wine in grocery stores and not being able to buy on Sunday- is it in a specific area they close off?  Do the cashiers just not ring it up?

    some stores but ropes or whatever across the ends of the aisles with signs like "No alcohol purchases on Sunday".....but you must show ID, and even in the u-scans, the cashier must enter their 'code' or whatever.  So, it's just that you can't buy it. I usually shop at Meijer (similar to Walmart, only in the midwest), and they don't rope off anything.  And I must say, they do not skimp on selection.....the wine selection is probably bigger than any liquor store I've seen. 

    Also, I take my kids in that aisle nearly weekly, and I've never had anyone mention I can't.  

     

     

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    Jetta --- they sell individual, cold beers, wine coolers and indiv mini bottles of wine here. Embarrassed

    LOL! I actually went nuts on spring break in college buying little individual bottles of liquor in South Carolina.  

    They have some weir liquor law there, also......like you can't buy hard liquor between midnight and 6 p.m. or something?  there was something like that.....a limit on hard liquor between certain times.

     

  • I'm still trying to figure out why Wisconsin, of all places, does not have drive through liquor stores. That is genius.

    Anyway, I take my kids into the liquor store. The one we go to most often is actually also a deli and meat market. Its not wierd to see kids in bars here, though, so I've never had anyone give me a look about it.

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  • Yes. Since the only places allowed to sell liquor and beer are liquor stores, that is the only option for those of us who dont have anyone to watch them the kids while we run errands. Most liquor stores have lollies for kids, too. 
  • I have in a pinch, but prefer not to. I don't think that there is anything wrong with taking a small child into a liquor store, it just gives me anxiety with all of those glass bottles on shelves within the reach of my curious and clumsy kids.
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  • Yes I have and see no problem with it. Here in Wisconsin, an underage person can drink if the parents consent to it and are with them, so they are most definitely allowed in liquor stores. The alcohol laws are a bit more relaxed here.
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  • Yeah, ditto EM. I don't have the luxury of having a husband who can just pick it up all the time or can be home with the kids while I run my errands. We're in a dry town, so I buy the liquor when I'm in the "bigger" city doing my errands. 
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  • In CT we can't buy after 9 or on Sunday and holidays. The sell only beer in the grocery store, and they hang a locked tarp over the beer section at night/on Sunday.

    However, I can bring dd in the liquor store, and we do it often. She can also be in some bars as long as there is an adult with her.  I guess we aren't all that strict.

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