CP: How many sexual partners has your SO had?

DEBBIE33CASEY · September 2011

[Poll]

lurkeyloo · September 2011

I'll put my stuff out there Smile

I had sex with one person before I met DH. After that relationship ended, I decided I did not want to have sex again until I was married. (I became much more serious about my faith/involved with church during this time)
I met DH and he was a virgin. We waited until our wedding night to have sex, and it was amazing! Smile

So my number is 2
His is 1

DEBBIE33CASEY · September 2011

lurkeyloo:

I'll put my stuff out there

I had sex with one person before I met DH. After that relationship ended, I decided I did not want to have sex again until I was married. (I became much more serious about my faith/involved with church during this time)
I met DH and he was a virgin. We waited until our wedding night to have sex, and it was amazing!

So my number is 2
His is 1

that's really cute

My DH was a virgin when we started dating and I love that... and while I try to live with no regrets, I think it would have been nice if I had been too.

lurkeyloo · September 2011

DEBBIE33CASEY:
lurkeyloo:

I'll put my stuff out there

I had sex with one person before I met DH. After that relationship ended, I decided I did not want to have sex again until I was married. (I became much more serious about my faith/involved with church during this time)
I met DH and he was a virgin. We waited until our wedding night to have sex, and it was amazing!

So my number is 2
His is 1
that's really cute My DH was a virgin when we started dating and I love that... and while I try to live with no regrets, I think it would have been nice if I had been too.

Ditto... I still wish he was my first and only. But it has never seemed to really bother him as much as it did me.

Mistym05 · September 2011

DH and I started dating when we were 16, we are each others one and only!

DEBBIE33CASEY · September 2011

lurkeyloo:
DEBBIE33CASEY:
lurkeyloo:

I'll put my stuff out there

I had sex with one person before I met DH. After that relationship ended, I decided I did not want to have sex again until I was married. (I became much more serious about my faith/involved with church during this time)
I met DH and he was a virgin. We waited until our wedding night to have sex, and it was amazing!

So my number is 2
His is 1

that's really cute My DH was a virgin when we started dating and I love that... and while I try to live with no regrets, I think it would have been nice if I had been too.

Ditto... I still wish he was my first and only. But it has never seemed to really bother him as much as it did me.

that's funny b/c it bothers me more than I think it bothers him, too!!!

KatnisOnFire · September 2011

I voted "I don't know" because my DH will only tell me he was a bit of a whore when he was younger. I've asked, but he refuses to tell me.

ronnie day · September 2011

I put 3-7 because I have counted his previous girlfriends and give or take a one night stand...but I honestly don't know. We have never talked about it, and frankly, I am ok with not know. And I am totally ok with him not knowing mine...

chigirlinaz · September 2011

jesi_nickles:
I voted "I don't know" because my DH will only tell me he was a bit of a whore when he was younger. I've asked, but he refuses to tell me.

If it makes you feel better, my DH was a bit of a ho himself before we got together. But I actually do know his number.

Free2Sing · September 2011

lurkeyloo:
I'll put my stuff out there
I had sex with one person before I met DH. After that relationship ended, I decided I did not want to have sex again until I was married. (I became much more serious about my faith/involved with church during this time)
I met DH and he was a virgin. We waited until our wedding night to have sex, and it was amazing!
So my number is 2
His is 1

This is our story-- except I was the virgin. Definitely an amazing wedding night! TMI below....

I think we did it about 7 times in 12 hours our wedding night. Not. Kidding. We would go to sleep, wake up an hour later, and go at it again!

I SAID it was TMI... you scrolled down anyway!

Free2Sing · September 2011

PS- I want to click 'none' just for fun!

Then I started thinking about all the ways 'none' could actually be true.

Girl gets pregnant. Baby daddy gone. Girl meets virgin boy & doesn't have sex with him.

So technically, possible, although that would be a heck of a roller coaster ride by 4-5 months pregnant!

Sascha3 · September 2011

I was sexually active for almost 20 years before meeting my husband, so I am sure my number is much higher than his. And I never went more than 2 years being monogamous to one person. I have no idea what his number is but I don't think it's anything crazy. I will never ask, because I don't want him to ever ask me Tongue Tied

And it doesn't bother me at all to know he has had previous partners. I have never been with a virgin in my life and I am fine with that.

lindz7000 · September 2011

I don't know DH's number and it doesn't bother me at all. He doesn't know my number either. I think we could both come up with a rough estimate for the other person, but even if we were both way off base, I don't think it would make any difference in our relationship. We're both happy and committed now, so that's all that matters to me!

ambellina2113 · September 2011

LindseyK81:
I don't know DH's number and it doesn't bother me at all. He doesn't know my number either. I think we could both come up with a rough estimate for the other person, but even if we were both way off base, I don't think it would make any difference in our relationship. We're both happy and committed now, so that's all that matters to me!

This!!!

Our numbers are a part of the past--and I'm just not concerned about it.

farmfanatik · September 2011

DH and I are each others first and only, which I'm really happy about. And somehow we even managed to wait until our wedding night.

mckenya · September 2011

We both wish that we were each other's first and only. What a cool experience to share that with only 1 person.

DH is my #3. I was in long-term, monogamous relationships with the other 2 people. I loved them so I don't regret it.

I'm #7 for DH. I know about each and every one because it was 2 when I met him (we were friends for 3 years before we started dating). He regrets that he didn't have strong feeling for them now but he was definitely needing to sow his "wild oats" before he starting dating me.

Thinkerbelle80 · September 2011

who voted none? How did you get knocked up if your husband is still a virgin?

DEBBIE33CASEY · September 2011

Free2Sing:

PS- I want to click 'none' just for fun!

Then I started thinking about all the ways 'none' could actually be true.

Girl gets pregnant. Baby daddy gone. Girl meets virgin boy & doesn't have sex with him.

So technically, possible, although that would be a heck of a roller coaster ride by 4-5 months pregnant!

I figured there could be couples out there that aren't sexually active with each other, too. It would be rare, but I've seen crazier things on tv!

That's why I put a none option on the other poll, too, b/c with IVF and such there are certainly ways to get pregnant and never have sex!

Southern Belle Kathy · September 2011

Mistym05:
DH and I started dating when we were 16, we are each others one and only!

This exactly, and I'm so glad.

firegirle1 · September 2011

chigirlinaz:
jesi_nickles:
I voted "I don't know" because my DH will only tell me he was a bit of a whore when he was younger. I've asked, but he refuses to tell me.
If it makes you feel better, my DH was a bit of a ho himself before we got together. But I actually do know his number.

Same. eh so long as he is not a whore now! He is 8 years older so his number would be higher anyway.

Mommy2Grayson · September 2011

DH and I were both a little wild in our college days. His number is higher than mine by quite a bit, but either way, we are both settled and happy in our relationship so it doesn't matter anymore.

It's amazing that a couple of party people can settle down and become so commited! You'd never know that we both played the field...A LOT!

julybride_07 · September 2011

lurkeyloo:
I'll put my stuff out there
I had sex with one person before I met DH.
So my number is 2
His is 1

This for me too!

bear7328 · September 2011

We were each other's first and only. I don't know if I could live with it being any other way. We were high school sweethearts so all of our "firsts" were with each other.

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