Trying to Get Pregnant

Tsk tsk

Bored + Bitter = Bad Combination.

Many of you women (not all) are unnecessarily mean to others who are seeking advice and knowledge.  Ya'll are quick to call MUD or AE or troll if someone asks a question that you do not like.  How about taking a step down from your high horses and actually be a help to those who are seeking to learn?  You criticize people for their ages, sense of humor, insurance issues, and TTC questions.  Alot of you are teachers/parents and I wonder whether you are always as rude as you are on this board (I'd say that the majority of you would never speak this way to someone in person).  And let me spare you the efforts: AE?  Yup.  MUD?  Nope (but some of you will inevitably try and turn it into MUD).  Troll? Sure, whatever you want to run with.  Purpose of this post?  Just really tired of ya'll.  

Either way, newbs beware about what you post here - the helpful and kind women on this board are few and far between.  Keep that in mind before posting.

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  • Thank you for showing us the error of our ways. You are so wise.
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  • Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger? Are you KU yet so that you can announce it at your wedding?!? That would be so great - squeeeee!!!
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  • It's y'all.

    Why couldn't you just say this under your real screen name. If that is how you feel, that is fine, but I see no reason this post had to hide behind an AE. Huh?

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  • imagethekikimonster:

    imagemrsz2008:
    Thank you for showing us the error of our ways. You are so wise.

     Morning, Z! *waves*

    Hey kk!!! :-D how are you this morning??
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  • imagebtaylor19:
    Tuesday was yesterday, you are late

    Yes

     

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  • Please tell me, how are you- who just wrote a post to point out the flaws of others- any better?

    Get over yourself. Or at least have the balls to say what you think under your real sn. Knowing that you are 'just really tired of us' means nothing when we don't know who you are.

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  • You need to get a freaking clue.  All you pay attention to are the posts that do get flamed, but there are many posts that the people you are complaining about offer helpful info and answers on.  Do you pay attention to that?  No.  You just want something to complain about and my guess it's because you're one of the people who have gotten flamed.

    As far as insurance issues, what do you want people to say to someone who has no insurance...no way to ensure that the child they are trying to have will have access to proper health care.  It's irresponsible in almost every case to try to have a baby if you can't even afford health insurance for yourself (so you can get proper pre-natal care) or the baby.  

    The TTC questions complaint isn't even accurate because MOST of them get answered with accurate info.  The age thing, there are a lot of women on this board who are young and do not get flamed for their age.  You know when people get flamed for their age?  When they are horrifically ignorant, uneducated, and immature.  (Pinkladyjz for example)

    You have no idea what you're talking about.  

      

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  • imageMySweetBaboo:

    It's y'all.

    Why couldn't you just say this under your real screen name. If that is how you feel, that is fine, but I see no reason this post had to hide behind an AE. Huh?

    I'm not sure she's really an AE. Remember this? Ah, memories...

    https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/56709046/ShowThread.aspx 

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    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
  • Most of the answers given are honest. If you are going to ask a dumb question like if you should have your own insurance before having a baby, then perhaps blunt answers are the only thing that can cut through the stupid.
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  • imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger? Are you KU yet so that you can announce it at your wedding?!? That would be so great - squeeeee!!!

    Oooh, that's right!!  

    That was soooo important to her to be able to make that announcement.  I wonder how it's going.

     

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  • imagerainyday31:
    Most of the answers given are honest. If you are going to ask a dumb question like if you should have your own insurance before having a baby, then perhaps blunt answers are the only thing that can cut through the stupid.

    This exactly. Yes

  • imagebtaylor19:
    Tuesday was yesterday, you are late

    Yes

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  • imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

     

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  • imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imageMySweetBaboo:

    It's y'all.

    Why couldn't you just say this under your real screen name. If that is how you feel, that is fine, but I see no reason this post had to hide behind an AE. Huh?

    I'm not sure she's really an AE. Remember this? Ah, memories...

    https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/56709046/ShowThread.aspx 

    Good work BED!!!  Also, if she said in her OP that she is an AE...then she must have been an AE when she made that CRAZY post about fingering herself to get KU....which means, it was probably the MUD that she's complaining about people calling out.  Right?  

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  • imagebostonbluejay:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger? Are you KU yet so that you can announce it at your wedding?!? That would be so great - squeeeee!!!

    Oooh, that's right!!  

    That was soooo important to her to be able to make that announcement.  I wonder how it's going.

    I'm so glad she's back! I've been really worried about her and that mean old FI who pulled out and ruined the wedding plan!

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    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
  • imageAnoraStar:

    Please tell me, how are you- who just wrote a post to point out the flaws of others- any better?

    Get over yourself. Or at least have the balls to say what you think under your real sn. Knowing that you are 'just really tired of us' means nothing when we don't know who you are.

     

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  • imagebostonbluejay:
    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imageMySweetBaboo:

    It's y'all.

    Why couldn't you just say this under your real screen name. If that is how you feel, that is fine, but I see no reason this post had to hide behind an AE. Huh?

    I'm not sure she's really an AE. Remember this? Ah, memories...

    https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/56709046/ShowThread.aspx 

    Good work BED!!!  Also, if she said in her OP that she is an AE...then she must have been an AE when she made that CRAZY post about fingering herself to get KU....which means, it was probably the MUD that she's complaining about people calling out.  Right?  

    Makes perfect sense if you're a crazy person. :)

    *** Trigger Warnings ***

    TTC #1 since March 2011
    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
  • imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

     


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  • imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    *** Trigger Warnings ***

    TTC #1 since March 2011
    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
  • imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    In that case, you all are bishes!!  I'm totes never coming back!  Big meanie heads

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • imagebtaylor19:
    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    In that case, you all are bishes!!  I'm totes never coming back!  Big meanie heads

    Did I do it right?  Am I pregnant now?

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • imagebtaylor19:
    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    In that case, you all are bishes!!  I'm totes never coming back!  Big meanie heads 

    No offense btay...but you are not very good at pulling off crazy.  ;)  You are entirely too normal/well balanced.   

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  • imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imageMySweetBaboo:

    It's y'all.

    Why couldn't you just say this under your real screen name. If that is how you feel, that is fine, but I see no reason this post had to hide behind an AE. Huh?

    I'm not sure she's really an AE. Remember this? Ah, memories...

    https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/56709046/ShowThread.aspx 

    Your memory is impeccable. IMPECCABLE, I say! 



     

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    bfp 2 - baby born via c-section on 5.4.12 @ 37 weeks

    bfp 3 - blighted ovum/d&c on 4.13.13 @ 8 weeks

    bfp 4 - 3rd IUI, very late BFN with super low P, c/p

    bfp 5 - natural bfp while on lupron, baby born via RCS on 4.27.15 @ 39 weeks

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  • imagebtaylor19:
    imagebtaylor19:
    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    In that case, you all are bishes!!  I'm totes never coming back!  Big meanie heads

    Did I do it right?  Am I pregnant now?

    Yes. If you stick around after your GBCB as a troll, then it's twins. Squeeee!!! 

    *** Trigger Warnings ***

    TTC #1 since March 2011
    Dx = Unexplained IF
    1 medicated TI cycle & 4 clomid IUIs = all BFNs
    June 2013 IVF #1 = 6 frosties + BFP!
    DS1 born 2/14

    TTC #2 since December 2014
    May 2015 unassisted BFP ended in m/c at 7wks
    April 2016 FET #1 = BFN
    June 2016 FET #2 = c/p
    August 2016 FET #3 = BFP!
    DS2 born 4/17
  • imagebwe1100:
    imageAnoraStar:

    Please tell me, how are you- who just wrote a post to point out the flaws of others- any better?

    Get over yourself. Or at least have the balls to say what you think under your real sn. Knowing that you are 'just really tired of us' means nothing when we don't know who you are.

     

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    uh, ok. I don't know what is ambiguous about what I said though...

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  • Who pissed in your Cheerios this morning?
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  • imageMySweetBaboo:

    It's y'all.

    This!!  I love you Baboo! 

    If you don't know how to use y'all correctly you don't deserve to use it!

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  • imagebostonbluejay:
    imagebtaylor19:
    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    imagesalt78:

    imageBlueEyedDreamer:
    Hi, annie! How'd it go scooping your FI's semen into your vag with your finger?

    I'm assuming it went well. She has a 4/30/12 due date in her profile. 

    The crazy ones always get KU fast.

    (Hi, salt! <3

    In that case, you all are bishes!!  I'm totes never coming back!  Big meanie heads 

    No offense btay...but you are not very good at pulling off crazy.  ;)  You are entirely too normal/well balanced.   

    Aww nuts.  I should have mispelled more words.

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    Who pissed in your Cheerios this morning?

    Yes I was going to say "who lit your tampon on fire" but apparently Crazybelles is KU.

    Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.

    IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.

    Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.

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  • imageAnniebellie12:
     

     Sure, whatever you want to run with.  Purpose of this post?  Just really tired of ya'll.  

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    1st BFP- March 2011. Natural MC @ 8 weeks
    2nd BFP- July 2011.  Chemical Pregnancy
    3rd BFP- Sep 2011. My beautiful son was born May 2012.
    4th BFP-August 2014- Due May 12, 2015


  • atlbatlb member

    I missed anniebellie!!!

    So, are you still sneaking the cigs?

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  • imageAnoraStar:
    imagebwe1100:
    imageAnoraStar:

    Please tell me, how are you- who just wrote a post to point out the flaws of others- any better?

    Get over yourself. Or at least have the balls to say what you think under your real sn. Knowing that you are 'just really tired of us' means nothing when we don't know who you are.

     

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    uh, ok. I don't know what is ambiguous about what I said though...

    Maybe the PIP was meant for the OP?  For hiding behind an AE to say what she really wanted to say because she is too afraid to say it under her real screen name?   That is, of course if she is an AE since that whole other issue about announcing her pregnancy at the wedding thing. 

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    Confirmation and Removal of Endo - March 2012
    +#1 on 4/1/12 - m/c @ ~8w 5d
    +#2 Tx cycle 4 - 5 mg Letrozole + 75iu Follsitim & Ovidrel w/ IUI on 11/13/12 - EDD 7/23/13 
    7 week u/s revealed THREE babies, all with heartbeats.  153bpm, 148bpm, and 136bpm
    9 week u/s revealed loss of Baby B.  A and C are growing on track.  A measuring 9w1d with 172bpm and C measuring 9w0d with 179 bpm.  
    Elective sex determination u/s on 2/8 revealed... boy AND girl!
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  • imagebostonbluejay:
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    *swoon*

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • yikes.....
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    ?TTC#1 since 04/11?CP 03/28/12?Me:Polycystic Ovaries&Endo??Him:MFI- Awaiting 2nd SA?
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  • So then, just how should we respond when an 18 year-old with no insurance, who just met her BF three weeks ago, asks if using a turkey baster to get KU is more accurate than scraping semen out of a condom and inserting it with her finger? Or when someone says "I just HAVE to KU right now!!"?
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