i always thought that pregnancy would finally give me firm abs for once in my life (granted, not due to muscle), but my belly is still pretty squishy even though i'm 24 weeks along. it still feels pretty marshmellowy and i think this is why i feel insecure about when people touch my belly. i'm average weight but typically hold all my weight in my belly.
Re: how hard is your belly?
mine is squishy as well, and i'm 25 weeks. I have always been a bit overweight.
I too get really uncomfortable when people try to touch my bump... i will say it defnitly has become more defined in the last 2 weeks.
This seems to change a lot for me. There are times I'm as hard as a rock then there are other times I feel like my fat roll is back. I'm like you, fairly average but hold some extra pounds in my tummy area.
If you feel insecure don't let people touch you. lol. I think this is one of the creepiest parts of pregnancy!
BFP #2: 8.31.16 Dx w/ GD @ 28w DD Born @ 36w: 4.21.17
This exactly. Mine's as hard as a basketball when standing.
Cooper: 11/20/11
Julian: EDD 8/1/16
PCOS & Endo. w/ DOR
People always tell me that mine is hard, but they are only touching it when I'm standing. I still have the squishy going too. It will get hard soon enough for all of us.
Mine too! If someone wants to touch my belly I try to plan it so I'm standing up... lol
Oh man...if someone tried to touch my belly while I was sitting down I might have a panic attack!
mine is hard all the time, sitting, standing, and even laying down. It def feels like something in there. LOL