Why is it when you are getting married all you hear from some (not all) friends is how your wedding is going to be because their wedding was like that. My friend was constantly telling me to not expect my wedding to be perfect because hers wasn't. Now she caught wind we are TTC (DH told her DH) and all I hear is how my pregnancy will be because that is how hers was. She has told me that I will do nothing but eat, gain 50 lbs, not want to do anything but sleep, and a bunch of other things all because she did. GRRR.... I have tried to think of a really clever response but all I say is "We'll see". Anyone else have someone like that to deal with? What do you say to them?
Re: It gets so annoying
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Yeah I don't think so either... sorry but I plan to have as much modesty as I can control.
Yep. My H, the doctor and nurse(s). No one else needs to be in the room with me. Oh, and H will be up holding my hand, not with video camera filming the birth. We have already agreed on that... not that he wanted to. He has no intention of walking anywhere past my waist.
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My SIL is a really smart woman, and she said to me the other week, that you O in the middle of your cycle. lol I had to explain to her that for people with normal/average length cycles that happens to be true, but doesn't actually work like that.
My friend, who I adore, said to me, we had sex every day from the time my period ended to the time is should have started and I took a test and it was +. She's now 8 weeks along. I wish it was that easy, and wow exhausting. Could you imagine? I'm on CD 70!
It sounds like one of two things. Either
a) she's a know it all (or wants to be a know it all)
or
b) she wants to give you advice and has no idea how to do it
Either way, it doesn't seem that she will stop doing so. You could probably tell her politely that things may or may not be the same because, as you said, every pregnancy and baby is different. But it doesn't sound like she'd take it. You may just have to glaze over and put yourself in your happy place.
My DH has told me to just zone her out like I do him
I actually kind of agree with her friend. I had so many nurses, a med student, and my doctor down there that I pretty much stopped caring. However, I wouldn't exactly invite people to check my vagina out.