Pregnant after a Loss

My Specialist Appointment

We discussed that we want as much testing as possible this time.  We don't want to worry about cost, we will figure it out some how, we just need answers.  After going through our family history and looking at an u/s, the doctor believes that this could be an X chromosome genetic mutation.  In other words, we may never be able to have boys.  That is a best case scenario.  Worst case is, we will never have a healthy pregnancy.  I was not able to have my amnio becase the membranes had not fused (not big enough yet).  I go back next Tuesday to have it done.  Although we got no real answers, I feel very good about the plan we decided on.  After studying our family histroy and comparing both babies they now have an idea of what to est for.  Even though we won't have all our answers for 4-6 weeks, we are hopeful we may find some answers this time.  Thank you to everyone for your T&P for this appointment.

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  • I'm so sorry you weren't able to get the amnio today and have to go back, abbs.  I really hope you get all the answers you need.  Thinking of you!!
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  • Sorry you weren't able to get your amnio done today. Hopefully you will be able to get some answers. Lots of continued prayers for you. 
    BFP#1=12/24/10 missed m/c @ 9w2d BFP#2=4/13/11 EDD 12/24/11 (coming full circle!)
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  • I'm sorry for all your going through...been thinking about you and DH alot
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
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  • I hope you get your answers very soon.  Hugs
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  • I am glad you got some answers I am sorry you couldn't get amnio today many prayers for next weeks
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  • Abbey, I am so so sorry you weren't able to get the amnio today.  Continued prayers sent to you and your husband.  I really hope they are able to do the amnio next week and that you get the answers you are seeking.  (((big hugs))) 
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  • I will continue to send lots of T&P's!

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  • I'm so sorry you are still waiting for real answers, but it's good to hear that you feel confident about the plan you and your doctor decided on.  I really hope the best case scenario plays out for you.  You will continue to be in my prayers.  
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  • Thank you for updating us.  I can't imagine the pain of waiting so long for answers.  I hope when the answers do come, they provide the insight you need for starting a healthy family.  Still sending you as much love and as many prayers as I can.

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  • Just wanted to send you thoughts and prayers! Just stay positive!
    "You and me together can do anything, baby!!" DMB
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  • I am so, so, sorry for all you're going through and truly admire your strength and grace! I hope the amnio brings so much needed answers and you have a chance to plan how to go forward. I continue to send prayers that your LO will be healed. ((HUGS))
    BFP#1 9/14/10 (EDD 5/21/11); no fetal pole 6w6d, 7w4d, d&c 10/8
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  • Thanks ladies.  You really know how to make me feel good.
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  • I'm so sorry you weren't able to get the test today, but I'm glad you came up with a plan you feel comfortable with.  Sending lots of T&Ps for Tuesday's amnio.  ((Big HUGS))
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    BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
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  • Huge hugs... Sending many t&p your way for the amnio.
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  • I am sorry that it was not as reassuring as we had all hoped and that you are left waiting still. I hope that they can give you answers and a plan to provide you with your take-home-baby. I still pray that this pregnancy will have a positive outcome. Big hugs.

     

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  • Abbs, I just saw your thread on TTCAL and I'm so very sorry you've gotten bad news about your current pregnancy.  All sorts of hugs headed your way both now and as you move forward. 

    FX that they can get you more answers with the amnio.

    BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11

    BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14

     

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