January 2012 Moms

Devastating news... :'-( update to water levels scare.

On Wednesday I posted about my water levels being very low at our A/S.  We went to see a specialist today and to get a 2nd level ultrasound. We did not get good news :(  It appears that baby has no kidneys. Without the kidneys baby is not recyclilng the fluid so there is no amniotic fluid for baby. Because there's been no fluid the lungs haven't developed. They are there, but are very small and underdeveloped. Although not having kidneys is a serious issue, that can be handled with dialasis and transplants, the biggest issue is the lungs from what I understand. Everything else with baby appears normal, brain heart and everything are perfectly fine... I guess thats what is making this so hard. 5 weeks ago at our ultrasound everything was perfect, including water levels. The specialist seemed very hopeless about the situation and mentioned infusing fluid, and inducing labor to delivering baby.  However, I meet with her again on Tuesday as I have a lot of unanswered questions... Things like, if they were to infuse fluid is it possible that the lungs could start to develop now (which would only be a few weeks behind), how servere is the kidney issue, do we have any hope of anything changing or is this pregnancy a loss? etc etc etc.  I could use all the thoughts and prayers anyone has to spare right now. Its so hard, after feeling baby moving around kicking and playing, seeing it suck its fist and hiccuping, to thinking that it may be over, its absolutely devastating.  We intend to get a second opinion just for our own sanity, we also plan to try anything and everything they offer if anything at all to try to save this baby. We are cautiously hoping for a miracle... I'll be sure to keep everyone posted as I find out more information... and I'll probably repost this on Monday for the weekday ladies.  Thank you everyone for your support during this scary time.

Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
«1

Re: Devastating news... :'-( update to water levels scare.

  • I will be praying for you and your baby!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Loading the player...
  • Oh my god...I am so sorry to hear about this.  I can't even imagine how worried you must be.  My thoughts are with you and I truly hope for the best.

    image

    Layla 01.08.12

    image

    Chloe and Vivian 07.23.13

    image

    My Gang.  Halloween 2013

  • Oh, girl...I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • i am praying for your baby and your family.

    stay strong, write down all your questions so you don't forget anything.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Many thoughts and prayers for you and baby. I hope things work out for the best.
  • I am so sorry to hear about this. I can only imagine how worried you are. Keep us updated... I will be praying for you ane the baby!!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Thoughts and prayers to you and your baby!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this.  My thoughts and prayers are with you, your DH, and your baby during this difficult and confusing time. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • That's terrible! Sending thoughts and prayers your way! I hope you get some good news/encouragement in the upcoming appointments!
  • Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Keep us updated.  Second opinions are never a bad thing.  T&Ps!!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I'm so sorry. I hope you're able to get your questions answered and that they can do something to help. I know bed rest, drinking tons of water, and swimming are supposed to help fluid levels, but I don't know if it depends on what's causing the low levels. T&P's for you guys.
    someecardscom - Im well on my way to getting absolutely nothing done today
    DD1: allergic to eggs & dairy Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    c/p 4/1/11

    DD2: milk and soy protein intolerant, allergic to eggs, soy, peanuts, tree nuts, sesame, bananasBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    MSPI Moms Check-In Blog
  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be praying for your baby's health and growth, and for your family during this scary time. Keep us updated, please.


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Pregnancy Ticker
  • I am so sorry to hear about this!!! You, your family, and that baby are all in my thoughts!
    image
    BFP #1 : 05.08.11 : EDD : 01.16.12 : DOB : 01.15.12
    BFP #2 : 12.26.12 : EDD : 09.08.13 : DOB : 09.03.13
  • :( I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
    BabyName Ticker BabyFetus Ticker
  • I'm so sorry. thoughts and prayers for you and your baby.
    Caroline (5), Kyle (3), Lucy (01/04/12)

    2012 Goal: working towards pre-pregnancy speed!
    04/15 KI Metric Marathon/16.3 m (2:05:55, 7:43 pace)
    05/06 Frederick 13.1 (1:41:09)
    11/04 NYCM
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Praying for you and your family. I had a friend who's baby was diagnosed with Potter's Syndome at her a/s last spring. She found a lot of support through message boards and parents groups. Hope you can connect with others who can give you information and understand what you're going through.
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I am so sorry.  That must be terrible to hear :( I hope your second opinion gives you more information.  I hope & pray that everything will get better and your baby will be able to develop its kidneys before birth.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Lots of prayers for your and baby!


    (PS. Did you used to have a siggy pic of your DD in her birthday highchair?? Just wondering if that was another person because our DDs have the same name :) love it!)
    image
    evelyn 4.2010 | will 1.2012 | baby BOY due 12.2014
    pregnant and/or breastfeeding since 2009.

  • I am so sorry to hear this. Be as positive as you can, sending you and your family lots of T&P. ((hugs))
    image
  • I am sorry for the bad news... wishing you all the best!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • praying for you and your little one ((hugs))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker
    imagephoto ry400_zpsf92defef.jpeg="YOUR URL HERE" width="180px">
  • Oh no, I'm so sorry!  I will be praying for you and your baby.  I pray that there is hope for your little one!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • I will be praying!!!  I'll send you a PM as well.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope for the best for you and the baby.  Please keep us posted.
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am so sorry to hear that, will definitely be saying a prayer for you and your family.
    BabyFetus Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • I am so sorry you and your family are going through this! I am sending some prayers up for you and baby right now! Keep us updated; I hope things will turn out ok!
  • I cant even imagine what you are going through Sad I think it very wise of you to get a second oppinion and for sure get all the answers to your questions. I will be sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way that your lo will make it through just fine and that you and yh can find the strength to deal with such an emotional and tough decision.

    HUGS!

    Please keep us updated and let us know how you and lo are doing.

  • I am so sorry. Praying for good news
    Robin - CO Mod * RP & JHutch Lover * Hufflepuff
    <><
    Tizzle 10/07 ~ Boppy 7/09 ~ Chicken 1/12
    imageimageimage
    imageimage
    Books read in 2013: ~ Audiobooks listened to in 2013: 3
    Currently reading: The Fiery Cross by Diana Gabaldon
    Currently listening to: The Dark Divine by Bree Despain
    my currently-reading shelf:
    Robin (jason&robin)'s book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (currently-reading shelf) image
  • I'm so sorry about your news, sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way

    Married my best friend 5/2/2008
    TTC our first miracle since November 2010
    BFP 3/16/2011 Chemical Pregnancy 3/20/2011

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker image image
  • Praying for a miracle for you and your LO! I hope you get the answers you need at your next appt. 
  • I can't imagine how frightening this must be for you and your family.  Keeping baby in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you get more answers on Tuesday.
  • I'm so sad to hear this, my heart is breaking for you.  T&P to you and your family, especially that precious little baby of yours.
  • T&P's for you and your baby. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. I hope you get the answers you need. Try to stay positive, you will be in my thoughts.
    Mom to Emma, Noah, Isaac, Asa, Asher, Jonah and expecting baby Alice 7/16


     



  • I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your little one.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic BabyFruit Ticker
  • I am so, so sorry to hear this.  You are in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope you get some good news and a good second opinion.



    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Married 7/11/09 TTC #1 Since 05/10
    BFP #1 09/20/10 Natural m/c 10/05/10
    BFP! #2 04/21/11... Beta 16 DPO: 437, 18 DPO:1446 Ultrasound 6w6d TWINS!
    Annabel & Sophia Born 11/28/11 at 34w6d
    BFP #3 10/4/16... Beta 13 DPO: 145, 15 DPO: 367 12/1/16 It's a GIRL!

  • That's so sad.  I'm praying for your baby to be healed and healthy. 
  • imageMAMAxB:
    Lots of prayers for your and baby!


    (PS. Did you used to have a siggy pic of your DD in her birthday highchair?? Just wondering if that was another person because our DDs have the same name :) love it!)

    Yes that was my siggy picture. Thank you! And thats awesome that they have the same name!

     Thank you ladies for all your support. I'll keep everyone posted on whats going on as I find more information... Hoping for a miracle...

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this scary time.  I will certainly keep you and your family (esp. this LO) in my prayers.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I can't imagine what you are your family are going through after receiving the news. Getting a second opinion sounds like a good idea. I'll keep you and baby in my prayers and hope that all turns out well. Hugs!
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"