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TTC After a Loss
Feel like BLAHHH! (BFP mentioned)
I didn't even post that I got a BFP on Tuesday because I was too worried and my worries proved true. I got my second beta today and it's down to a 9. I am having my second miscarriage in 3 months and can't even handle it right now. I know I have the Factor V and taking all the meds. But it's just not working! Why is life so cruel.
My husband doesn't know what to say but we'll keep trying. It sucks! His body doesn't go through all the hormonal changes and mind games of pregnancy symptoms. He trying his hardest to be there for me and I don't even know what I want him to say. I just feel so alone right now.
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Re: Feel like BLAHHH! (BFP mentioned)
I am so sorry that you are going through this again. Men don't grieve the same way we do and they find it hard to know what to do. Please be kind to each other as you go through this second loss.
I found that taking a TTC break after our second loss helped. It was definitely needed to heal emotionally and physically. I found it took me a lot longer to start feeling better after my second loss than it did with my first.
You will be in my thoughts. Sending ((hugs)) to you today.
BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
My Blog: The Canadian Housewife PGAL/PAL Welcome My Chart
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
((BFP 7/29/13)) ((EDD 4/12/14)) It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!
I am so very sorry for your losses. There was never a time in my life that the gender differences between men and women were so dramatic as when we were dealing with our losses. It does feel lonely. They are grieving too, just in their own way. Men cycle through the grief process much slower. It can take them years. Women can cycle through the stages in a matter of minutes. Tell him specifically what you need (hold your hand, go get food, cuddle you, leave you alone, talk about it, don't talk about it etc).
Big hugs. We are all here for you.
9 angels in heaven-3 in my arms and 1 in the NICU
Mono/di twin girls: Josephine born to heaven and Evangeline born Earthside at 25w
BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
"Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience." Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
This time I'm not leaving without you.
BFP #1 5/26/11 - said goodbye to our DD at 13w on 7/29/2011
BFP #2 12/16/11 - Chemical Pregnancy
BFP #3 1/21/12 - Welcome Zoey Paige - 9/23/12!
BFP #4 11/27/13 - STICK BABY!
married 7.26.08
BFP #1 6/28/11 ~ EDD 3/7/12 ~ m/c 7/15/11 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/29/11 ~ EDD 5/12/12. 4/25/12: Our take home baby is here!
BFP #3 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/11/14. 4/27/14: Our second take home baby is here!
I am so sorry you are going another loss. ((Big hugs))
BFP 9-16-11
Married to DH since 11-2-08
DD (9) DS (8)
Jude Levi, My rainbow baby, born May 8th 2012. We are so in love!
::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
Henry Cavill...You're welcome!
BFP #3: EDD 1/10/13 **DS born 12/30/12!!!**
BFP #2: MC 7/2/11 @ 12 weeks
**Missing our February '12 LoveBug**
BFP #1: MMC discovered on 12/6/10
BFP 1 4/2010 M/C 5/1/2010 8w2d EDD 12/10/10 BFP 2 5/5/2011 C/P?? 5/14/2011 5w2d EDD 01/12/12 BFP 3 3/12/2012 EDD 11/23/12 Ultrasound 4/11/12 H/B 160bpm! It's a GIRL!