Trouble TTC

I don't think I'm getting a job.

There's a big possibility that I may not be back in the classroom this year.  I was laid off in May, and school starts tomorrow so today is the last day to be recalled.  I'm waiting on a possible call for a maternity leave, so my fingers are still crossed for that.

I'm going through a whirlwind of emotions right now.  DH is being very supportive and reassuring me that we will be okay and God has a plan for us even though we may not see it right now.  My thoughts go from being okay to freaking out.  I think of costs for our treatments and how we may have to take longer breaks.  I think of how I'm going to deal with my in-laws who are always bugging us about money and my job situation.  I plan on subbing in corporations close to home, but I think of what I'm going to do all day for a full year.

So any T&P you could spare would be great and for those of you who have been laid off - any money tips, what do you do all day, etc?

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  • I'm sorry that I cannot give you any advice, but I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers. Your husband is right. God has a plan even if you may not see it right now. Good luck with everyting and I hope everything works out for the best.
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  • Hi there, as for what to do all day....I always joke and say I am busier now that I stay home, than when I worked full time.  I save money by shopping sales, clipping coupons, cooking most of our meals from scratch, heck I bake our bread, etc now.  I volunteer for a local tourist attraction....it is a old fashioned village with historic homes and such...I demonstrate spinning/weaving/knitting/etc.  I am very active in a local knitting group and a county weaving/spinning guild  and a state one as well.  (I am a board member in both).  I sew and knit most of our gifts/home goods.  My friends laugh and call me Martha Stewart, but hey it gets the job done.  :)

    I do have a small online business (although have it shut right now) and I help my husband with his work as a Realtor, but that doesn't take a ton of my time.

    I do have Rheumatoid Arthritis and that is a big part of why I don't work a full time job, when I flare I am useless.  And we didn't want the stress of me working full time while we pursue IF treatments as well.  I am lucky that I can stay home and I try to make the most of it.

    Good luck to you! 

    TTC since 2006
    Me: 36 DH: 40
    DH dx azoospermia My dx: RA & AMA
    d-IUI's--6/10, 7/13 & 8/4: all BFN
    d-IVF#1--Lupron/Menopur/Bravelle/Novarel; mini-dose protocol
    ER: 10/25--18R; 14F; ET: 10/28--3dt of 2 embies; 3 blasts frozen
    + HPT 11/4; Beta #1--14dp3dt: 441; Beta #2--21dp3dt: 9298
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  • I am sorry about the job situation. I hope you get a call soon!
    Dx: Unexplained Infertility

    TTC #1 
    IUI's #1 - #3 Clomid = BFN's, IUI #4 Follistim = BFP
    Grayson arrived via emergency c-section on 7/28/12!

    TTC #2 
    IUI's #1 - #4 Follistim = BFN's
    IVF #1 w/ ICSI + PGS: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur
    ER 4/13 - 19R, 13F, 4 PGS tested embryos, 1 normal
    5/14 FET: BFP. Beta #1: 123, Beta #2: 327, Beta #3: 854
    Cora arrived 1/23/15 via RCS!
  • I am sorry you are going through this!  I will certainly say a prayer for you that it all works out for you.  I left a high paying job in the city to move back closer to family and work for the family business.  It was a huge pay cut and has made financial stability a lot harder to achieve.  But, that being said my hours are way less as well.  I have found that finding my inner Martha Stewert (as PP said ;-))  has been very relaxing for me.  Im a horrible cook, but its fun to try.  And I have been doing some scrapbooking as well as any other fun crafty projects I dream up!!  Anyways, good luck with everything, your in my prayers!
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  • That sucks.  I hope you get called today! 


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