I know this has been discussed a lot in the past, but at the moment I'm too lazy to go back thru the posts and look.
I know it's possible to survive this. I'm going solo with Lillian to Virginia in September. The thought of changing diapers on an airplane and going thru security with a baby is making my head spin. She will be approximately 9 months old at the time of the trip.
Please give me any helpful tips you can. It will be much appreciated!
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Re: Air travel with LO
I suspect that airlines try to keep the middle seat open. I've rarely traveled alone and not had an extra seat on the plane...
Next, the 2nd your seatmates come on, a quick, "hey, I know it might be an awkward trip, I'll try to keep it as lowkey as possible" usually winds up in the other person sharing horror travel stories with their own kids, which makes you remember that most people do it. And it breaks the ice. That business person who initially gave you a dirty look will probably be playing peekaboo in 45 minutes.
I have once had the person next to me ask to change his seat, which was great since I had to nurse, too and that would have been super awkward.
Anyway, I've found that my anxiety about flying is nearly always worse than the trip itself. Good luck!
Personally, I found travel to be much easier than I expected- I flew with C solo when she was about 3.5 months. I used my Ergo and that helped a lot. For our last trip we got a new toy and brought favorites, as well as food (since she eats lots of solids.)
I might suggest picking up an inexpensive cloth diaper cover to use over her diaper, if you don't already have one. The first time we flew I had her in sposies and was absolutely terrified of leaking/blowouts, so I just put a cover over it since we were going to use it on the trip anyhow. Great peace of mind. Now I use GroVia shells with the disposable BioSoakers in it- less to cart around (the soakers are like a hospital postpartum pad, basically) and I don't worry about speeage because of the security of the cover.
Where in VA are you headed? We are flying there in September ourselves.
We're flying from Seattle to Norfolk and visiting family in Virginia Beach. I think we will be leaving on the 25th, but nothing is for sure since tickets aren't purchased yet.