Neither. The 2 cycles that I got pregnant, we had what you would probably consider crap timing. (O-2 and we only did it once each time.) All the previous well timed cycles were busts.
The point is, you have a roughly 20% chance of getting knocked up every cycle if you have sex during your fertile window. That's if you have sex once or 300 times.
I remember trying to do it every day for the first few months. Then one time I mentioned that to my doctor and she insisted that we only did every other day because sperm count is significantly lower when you do it every day. The month we conceived this time we had sex 3 days before ovulation, IUI (day before ovulation), and sex day after IUI. When we got pregnant in October we only had sex once the entire month. Presumably it was on ovulation day, but I wasn't tracking very well then. Unfortunately it ended up being a blighted ovum. Good luck!
The month I got pregnant, we had sex O-1, O, and O+1. It really doesn't matter though because as Salt said above, you only have a 20% chance no matter how many times you are able to have sex.
BFP #1 6-8-11 EDD 2-19-12. DD born 2-3-12 via induction due to pre-e.
BFP #2 9-7-13 EDD 5-22-14. It's a GIRL! DD#2 is on her way.
We did it ED for the week that I was getting EWCM and got a + OPK. We got pregnant our first month trying both times. Perhaps we're unusually fertile?!
We tried back in February and did it EOD between AF ending and ovulation. Then we decided to hold off on trying again until after a planned vacay in May. I started charting in June, we did it ED leading up to ovulation and we got pregnant.
Only once, O-2. I honestly think O-2 and O-1 have much better odds than O day, as it takes a while for the sperm to get to the egg. And I've seen a lot of people have success on just O-2 or O-1.
DH was traveling a lot and I was crazy busy with work too. The day we did was my ovulation day though (according to fertility friend)... so that might have helped!
TTC #1 since 6/10
BFP #1: 8/10, ectopic pregnancy
BFP #2: 6/6/11, EDD 2/14/12, DS born 2/8/12 via c-section
we went for the try with out trying I know not all can do this but we stoped preventing and i got my BFP the first month both time we did it this way so we would not get stressed out about TTC and it has worked great for us sending sticky baby dust to all
The month I got pregnant, only a couple of times. I had been charting since January and after 4 months discovered I was only ovulating every other cycle. The cycle I got pregnant was supposed to be a "non-ovulating" cycle so I took a break from charting that cycle. Low and behold my next period never came!
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Whenever we felt like it.... usually about every 1-3 days, depending on life. We had just moved cross country and were living in my parents' basement until we got our house.. but that didn't stop us.
I did it a lot. ED during my fertile window plus a few days earlier in that week. But I had exactly the same amount of sex the other 5 cycles that we tried, and I didn't get pregnant any of those months.
We charted and tried a variety of methods for 8 months. We decided to stop trying and live our lives happily as a family of 3 and a month later I was pregnant.
With my daughter it took 5 cycles and 6 months- 4 of them charting.
ED at about the same time for a week. We started a few days before my +OPK and then continued a few days after. We were extremely lucky to get a bfp the first cycle. Have you read Taking Control of Your Fertility? I learned a LOT from reading that book charting my temps and looking at CM.
First, I'd like to ask... WTF are ED and EOD? They're not in the glossary. Excited dry-humping and ecstasy on demand? So confused...
Anyway, we decided to start trying in April, so I started charting. I wasn't showing any signs of ovulation and my temps were all over the place. In May I became a lot more lackadaisical about temping and just kind of went with the flow. We were really busy and on opposite schedules so we were getting busy about once or twice a week (it would be EOD by my definition). Apparently I ovulated without any change in cervical mucous around May 28th, because I got pregnant while still waiting to ovulate.
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We did the did every day during the week-ish time that I thought I was ovulating, I didn't chart or temp or anything. I feel incredibly blessed to say that we got pregnant both times on the first round, I know that many are not so fortunate and do not take this blessing lightly!
Re: How often did you ladies do it?
We did it EOD during the fertile days. I got pregnant the 2nd cycle.
Good Luck!
Neither. The 2 cycles that I got pregnant, we had what you would probably consider crap timing. (O-2 and we only did it once each time.) All the previous well timed cycles were busts.
The point is, you have a roughly 20% chance of getting knocked up every cycle if you have sex during your fertile window. That's if you have sex once or 300 times.
The month we got pregnant, I think we did it two or three times. We just had lucky timing.
The months before when I used ovulation predictors, etc., we didn't get pregnant, even though I "knew" the timing was right.
We only had sex once the month I got my BFP.
DH was traveling a lot and I was crazy busy with work too. The day we did was my ovulation day though (according to fertility friend)... so that might have helped!
we went for the try with out trying I know not all can do this but we stoped preventing and i got my BFP the first month both time we did it this way so we would not get stressed out about TTC and it has worked great for us sending sticky baby dust to all
Make a pregnancy ticker
Um like twice, and I had been on the pill then took some meds that could poss cancel it out, and well apparently they did because suprise!
Keep on trying!!!!!!!
Okay say I was supposed to ovulate on July 7, I did it: 6/30, 7/2, 7/4, 7/6, 7/7, 7/8, 7/10
This was the 3rd month TTC but the only month that we actually had sex A LOT and it worked!
We charted and tried a variety of methods for 8 months. We decided to stop trying and live our lives happily as a family of 3 and a month later I was pregnant.
With my daughter it took 5 cycles and 6 months- 4 of them charting.
With DD, we had sex two days in a row (DH had poison ivy) on cycle days 14 & 15. I O'd on CD 14. It was our second month TTC.
With this pregnancy, we had sex three days in a row, on cycle days 13, 14, & 15. Again, I O'd on CD 14. This time around, it was our first month TTC.
I was using an ovulation predictor kit, so on the day I would get a +, we would try that day, the next day, and the next day.
so.....ED for 3 days.
First, I'd like to ask... WTF are ED and EOD? They're not in the glossary. Excited dry-humping and ecstasy on demand? So confused...
Anyway, we decided to start trying in April, so I started charting. I wasn't showing any signs of ovulation and my temps were all over the place. In May I became a lot more lackadaisical about temping and just kind of went with the flow. We were really busy and on opposite schedules so we were getting busy about once or twice a week (it would be EOD by my definition). Apparently I ovulated without any change in cervical mucous around May 28th, because I got pregnant while still waiting to ovulate.
ED + 2x the day of O.
We'd tried EOD unsuccessfully for 2 cycles before we switched to ED around the fertile window.
GL!
ED = Every Day
EOD = Every Other Day
And it took two cycles.