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How often did you ladies do it?

We're in our 2nd month ttc our second. How often did you get it on? ED or EOD? TIA!!
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Re: How often did you ladies do it?

  • We tried for 12 months, with a variety of timings.  The month I got my BFP we only did it once.  The entire month.  It's all about luck.
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  • We never planned it. Just whenever we were in the mood:)
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  • We did it EOD during the fertile days. I got pregnant the 2nd cycle.

     Good Luck!

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    Neither. The 2 cycles that I got pregnant, we had what you would probably consider crap timing. (O-2 and we only did it once each time.) All the previous well timed cycles were busts. 

    The point is, you have a roughly 20% chance of getting knocked up every cycle if you have sex during your fertile window. That's if you have sex once or 300 times. 

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  • The month we got pregnant, I think we did it two or three times. We just had lucky timing.

    The months before when I used ovulation predictors, etc., we didn't get pregnant, even though I "knew" the timing was right.

  • I remember trying to do it every day for the first few months.  Then one time I mentioned that to my doctor and she insisted that we only did every other day because sperm count is significantly lower when you do it every day.  The month we conceived this time we had sex 3 days before ovulation, IUI (day before ovulation), and sex day after IUI.  When we got pregnant in October we only had sex once the entire month. Presumably it was on ovulation day, but I wasn't tracking very well then.  Unfortunately it ended up being a blighted ovum.  Good luck!
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  • The month I got pregnant, we had sex O-1, O, and O+1. It really doesn't matter though because as Salt said above, you only have a 20% chance no matter how many times you are able to have sex.
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  • It only took one time after using an ovulation test strip.

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  • 2-3 in a row, 1 off - starting around 11 DPO and keeping up until ovulation. I'm an obsessive charter (ie: control freak) :)
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  • We did it ED for the week that I was getting EWCM and got a + OPK.  We got pregnant our first month trying both times.  Perhaps we're unusually fertile?!
  • We tried back in February and did it EOD between AF ending and ovulation. Then we decided to hold off on trying again until after a planned vacay in May. I started charting in June, we did it ED leading up to ovulation and we got pregnant.
  • Only once, O-2. I honestly think O-2 and O-1 have much better odds than O day, as it takes a while for the sperm to get to the egg. And I've seen a lot of people have success on just O-2 or O-1.
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  • We only had sex once the month I got my BFP. Surprise 

    DH was traveling a lot and I was crazy busy with work too. The day we did was my ovulation day though (according to fertility friend)... so that might have helped!

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  • We tried for 11 months this time.  The month of bfp we did 3 nights in a row prior to O because hubby would be gone on O day and after.  It worked!
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  • we went for the try with out trying I know not all can do this but we stoped preventing and i got my BFP the first month both time we did it this way so we would not get stressed out about TTC and it has worked great for us sending sticky baby dust to all

     

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  • On our BFP cycle, we did EOD and got O-2 and O. The cycles that we got ED timing didn't result in a +. EOD is less tiring and worked for us. Smile
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  • once every day during my fertile days... sometimes twice a day. Worked on the 1st try. Good luck to you :-)
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  • Um like twice, and I had been on the pill then took some meds that could poss cancel it out, and well apparently they did because suprise!

     

    Keep on trying!!!!!!!

  • The month I got pregnant, only a couple of times.  I had been charting since January and after 4 months discovered I was only ovulating every other cycle.  The cycle I got pregnant was supposed to be a "non-ovulating" cycle so I took a break from charting that cycle.  Low and behold my next period never came!
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  • Okay say I was supposed to ovulate on July 7, I did it: 6/30, 7/2, 7/4, 7/6, 7/7, 7/8, 7/10

    This was the 3rd month TTC but the only month that we actually had sex A LOT and it worked!

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  • Whenever we felt like it.... usually about every 1-3 days, depending on life. We had just moved cross country and were living in my parents' basement until we got our house.. but that didn't stop us. :D
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  • Once; on Mother's Day.
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  • After I noticed fertile cervical mucus, every other day for a week.
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  • I did it a lot.  ED during my fertile window plus a few days earlier in that week.  But I had exactly the same amount of sex the other 5 cycles that we tried, and I didn't get pregnant any of those months.
  • Once, only on O day. I thought our timing was bad this cycle!





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  • We charted and tried a variety of methods for 8 months.  We decided to stop trying and live our lives happily as a family of 3 and a month later I was pregnant.  

    With my daughter it took 5 cycles and 6 months- 4 of them charting. 


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  • With DD, we had sex two days in a row (DH had poison ivy) on cycle days 14 & 15. I O'd on CD 14. It was our second month TTC.

    With this pregnancy, we had sex three days in a row, on cycle days 13, 14, & 15. Again, I O'd on CD 14. This time around, it was our first month TTC.

  • I was using an ovulation predictor kit, so on the day I would get a +, we would try that day, the next day, and the next day.

     so.....ED for 3 days.

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  • ED at about the same time for a week.  We started a few days before my +OPK and then continued a few days after.  We were extremely lucky to get a bfp the first cycle.  Have you read Taking Control of Your Fertility?  I learned a LOT from reading that book charting my temps and looking at CM. 
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  • First, I'd like to ask... WTF are ED and EOD? They're not in the glossary.  Excited dry-humping and ecstasy on demand? So confused...

    Anyway, we decided to start trying in April, so I started charting.  I wasn't showing any signs of ovulation and my temps were all over the place.  In May I became a lot more lackadaisical about temping and just kind of went with the flow.  We were really busy and on opposite schedules so we were getting busy about once or twice a week (it would be EOD by my definition).  Apparently I ovulated without any change in cervical mucous around May 28th, because I got pregnant while still waiting to ovulate.

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  • ED + 2x the day of O. 

    We'd tried EOD unsuccessfully for 2 cycles before we switched to ED around the fertile window.

    GL!

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  • salt78salt78 member
    imagejfischer1115:

    First, I'd like to ask... WTF are ED and EOD? They're not in the glossary.  Excited dry-humping and ecstasy on demand? So confused...

    ED = Every Day

    EOD = Every Other Day

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  • We went with EOD, relaxed, and had fun with it during 1st cycle.  Ours resulted in a BFP this month <3  Best wishes to you!
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    When TTC we tried to do it every 2-3 days through out my cycle and then EOD in my fertile window.
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  • We had sex for 10 days in a row around my fertile window.
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  • We did the did every day during the week-ish time that I thought I was ovulating, I didn't chart or temp or anything.  I feel incredibly blessed to say that we got pregnant both times on the first round, I know that many are not so fortunate and do not take this blessing lightly!
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    We'd do EOD  around my fertile patch. DH was not very good with ED.
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    imageJoie80:
    We'd do EOD  around my fertile patch. DH was not very good with ED.

    And it took two cycles.

  • My DH and I did EOD. It worked out though b/c my fertile day was on our anniversary Smile
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