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help me out girls....

brianandcandybrianandcandy
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I have a big decision waying on my head right now. I have been living at my dads with my fiance' for a couple years working as a waitress and trying to save enough money to get our own house. My fiance' was in a touring band for years and has recently quit the band and got a job working at wine and seafood dtore his parents own.

Here's the toughy, this morning he asked me what i thought about quitting my job and working at his parent's store with him and moving in with his parents since they live only a few miles from the store (my dads is 45 minutes away from his parents store) wich would save in gas. I'm torn because my dad is divorced and would be alone if we were not here and we have alot of space here. He sticks to one part of the house and my fiance' and I get the rest. I'm willing to make the change becuase I love my fiance's parents and I don't want to be waitressing too far into my pregnancy anyway but I'm afraid of making the move and regretting it. I don't want to feel trapped or suffocated half way through a pregnancy. Does anybody have any advice as to how I can make a decision?!

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Re: help me out girls....

  • greenluckiesgreenluckies

    Your father won't be alone if you're visiting him, espescially with a baby right?

    My brother wants to join the Marines, but he's afraid of leaving my mom alone and not being there to help her financially. He keeps putting it off each semester. I know that's not exactly the same situation, but would you regret not moving to your in-laws later? I tell my brother that she wont be alone since I'm about 30 minutes from my mom. Sorry if this isn't any help.

     

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  • brianandcandybrianandcandy

    thank you for the response, that's a good point. I have my own life too and i guess I can't worry so much about my dad being alone. After all he is the one who put himself in that situation in the end and like you said he would be getting visits as often as i could make them. I definately understand how your brother feels :( 

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