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DH just got told he's not coming home!

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Ok, now I'm freaking out. DH was told today that he's not coming home in October due to a change "plans" over there. Unless some act of God happens he won't be home until late January :(  

I just don't even know how to process this... 

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  • whispergrrlwhispergrrl member
    Oh, wow...that really sucks! I'm sorry, hon. I hope something changes so he can be home WAY sooner (and that he's safe and healthy!)
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  • babylove0511babylove0511 member

    oh my goodness =( i am so so sorry M. i am hoping that this is not the case and he will be back in Oct. keeping you in my T&P and hoping for a quick safe return. 

     

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    IUI 1,2,3 BFN
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  • jb2rnjb2rn member
    Oh, I am so sorry. I am a military wife as well, and I think this is most of our fears having a husband that is active duty. I so hope that there can be an exception - someone who can be understanding and stay behind for him Many hugs...
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  • bbakersgirl75bbakersgirl75 member
    O wow I am so sorry to hear this news. I really hope they can make an exception for him, or something wonderful could happen, to send him home. Keeping you and DH in my T&P's.
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  • steveandkim2steveandkim2 member
    Oh sweetie - I'm so sorry, but I hope something can be worked out.  Thinking of you!
    TTC since April 2009 dx = PCOS; TTC History for DS - A FET miracle after 7 IUIs; 2 fresh transfers, and 1 other FET resulted in BFNs. Hoping and Praying for baby #2: Cycle 1 - FET; November 2012 BFN Next Steps - who knows? Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry.  I hope something changes and he can come home sooner.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
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  • NicoleeBonsaiNicoleeBonsai member

    oh my gosh sweetie, i am so so sorry. that is just awful.

    i'm really, really hoping there is a change of plans and he gets to come home in time to welcome your baby to the world. ((HUGS))

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  • ashonkwiler09ashonkwiler09
    Oh sweetie I'm so sorry. I'm heartbroken for you.
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  • LCS040209LCS040209
    OMG, I am SO sorry, M. I cannot even imagine how you must be feeling right now. So many big hugs and prayers headed your way. My heart hurts for you.
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  • SunMoon&StarsSunMoon&Stars member
    That's terrible. I'm so sorry.
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  • RachH517RachH517 member
    I am so sorry :(
    Me: 33, Hypothalamic Amenorrhea, DOR (AMH .35), DH: 38, Borderline low morph
    5/09- Off BCP, 5/09-9/09- No period, 9/09-9/10- Lots of Tests & accupuncture
    10/10 and 11/10- 2 rounds of Menopur + TI= BFNS
    12/10-IUI #1 Menopur = BFN
    1/11- IUI #2 Menopur = BFP, 2/11 missed mc at 9 weeks, D&C
    5/11- Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum
    6/11- IUI #3 Menopur = BFP, 8/11 missed mc at 11 weeks, D&C
    1/12- Lap and Operative Hysteroscopy to remove uterine septum (again) & scar tissue
    2/12- Stint Removal, 3/12 repeat SHG and HSG- showed scar tissue blocking right tube
    4/12- Operative hysteroscopy (again), RE said he can now see right tube (yay!)
    5/12- Stint removal, 6/12 repeat SHG and HSG-both tubes are open!
    8/12- IUI #4 Bravelle = BFN
    9/12-IUI #5 Bravelle = BFN
    1/13- IVF #1, micro-flare protocol, 7R, 6F, 5dt of 2 AA embryos, 1 to freeze = BFP
    Beta #1: 176, Beta #2: 422, EDD 10/8/13- it's TWINS!
    *PAIF/SAIF always welcome*
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  • bubbas mama1bubbas mama1
    Oh no M :( That is heartbreaking news! Will be praying that an "act of God" happens & that he will be able to be home with you to welcome Baby S into the world! Sending a huge hug & lots of thoughts & prayers your way!! 
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    Aug - IVF #1 - 3 embies transferred = BFN
    Mar - IVF #2 - 2 embies transferred & 4 frosties = BFN
    June - FET #1 * 2 embies transferred = BFP (C/P @ 5w4d)
    Sept - FET #2 * 2 embies transferred = BFP
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  • etoyamaetoyama member
    Oh M! No :( I'm so sorry. I can't believe it. That so unfair. Biggest of (((HUGS))) sweetie. I hope with all my heart that there IS an act of God and something changes and he can come home when he was supposed to.
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    Oh no, I am so sorry!  I really hope something changes and he gets to come home by October!  Big ((hugs))
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  • cbubbles2cbubbles2
    Oh wow sweetie I am so so sorry. I hope something changes and he can come back as planned. ((hugs))
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  • Bella2u07Bella2u07 member

    Oh no!  I am so very sorry M!!!

    Keeping you in my thoughts for things to change so dh can come home sooner.

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    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
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  • Temp616379875002458Temp616379875002458 member
    I'm so sorry. That is crappy news. Maybe things will change again before then?
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  • EchloeEchloe
    I'm really sorry.
    Beautiful Miracle Baby lost at 21 weeks due to pre-term labor and incompetent cervix. FET#1 BFN, FET#2 BFP, early loss. FET#3 BFN. IVF#2 BFFN. FET #4 BFP after removing bilateral hydrosalpinx and 3 months of lupron depot. Sticky Bun is here!! Image and video hosting by TinyPic Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • EriksgalEriksgal
    ((hugs)) I will be praying he gets to come home sooner. I know this is his job but it just stinks!
    Diagnosis: DOR and MFI-low everything IVF #1 = triplets! 2 girls and a boy! Born Sept 29, 2011 at 32w6d due to Pre-e and HELLP syndrome Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • tshotttshott member
    I am so sorry!!!  I hope that something happens and he gets to come home as planned.
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    11/10 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    12/10 - Unmedicated cycle due to RE not doing treatments in December = BFN
    1/11 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    2/11 - Same sh!t, different month = IUI cancelled due to no response = BFN
    IVF #1 - Start stims (Follistim) 5/10, add in Ganirelix 5/14
    ER 5/21 - 13 retrieved, 7 mature, 5 fertilized; ET 5/26 - transferred one perfect 1AA blast. 3 snowbabies.
    Beta 6/3 - 15.8; Beta 6/7 - 21.8; Beta 6/10 - 7 :(
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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    ::hugs::

    I am so very sorry. 

    TTC #2 since June '08

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    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

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  • GlowconsinGlowconsin
    I'm so sorry, sweety!
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