Pregnant after a Loss

Do you still check when you wipe?

I pee at least a dozen times a day. I still check for blood every.single.time. Do you?
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BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
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  • Every single time.



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  • I wish I could say no, but sadly I still do.
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  • Every single time. it is good to be aware of any unusual discharge.  I am not as anxious as I used to be though.
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  • NeenyWNeenyW member
    Every time! As if I didn't go to the bathroom enough, I will go in there when I don't have to go just to check.
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  • Always have.
  • clondoclondo member
    Every single time. And when I am having an awful day, my eyes tend to "see" things that aren't there.  Which I get freaked out and have DH come look. He probably thinks I am crazy.
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  • YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought I was the only one :)
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  • yes, although now I am looking for my plug
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  • Absolutely. Every time.
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  • Yes.
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  • Yes... I don't think I'll stop till this baby is out.
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  • Sadly nodes head, told DH the other day and convinced him I am crazy
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    Yup!

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  • imageGummybear:
    yes, although now I am looking for my plug

    This.  

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  • Yep, every time. Even at 3am. So sad.
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  • Yup. Every time. And I go about every 20 minutes.
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  • Not every time, but I check frequently.  I guess I'm not really looking for blood at this point as much as weird discharge.  I never had any bleeding with my MMC, though.
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  • Sometimes when I don't even need go pee...
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  • Still do.
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  • Almost 32 weeks, and yes, I do still check for blood.  EVERY.  SINGLE.  TIME.  Sometimes, I'll have some of that mucousy discharge (TMI TMI!), and will run to the bathroom to check, thinking it's going to be blood.  I don't think you ever feel safe once you've lost a pregnancy. 

    One thing I haven't had for awhile, though (knock on wood!), are miscarriage dreams.  Those were awful, reliving a loss over and over every single night, and waking scared that I had lost the baby (again).

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  • unfortunately :-( wish i could stop...
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  • Absolutely.  Every. Single. Time.
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
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    Every. Single. Time.
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  • Even in the middle of the night. I'll turn the bathroom light on just to see that everything's ok.

  • Every single time.
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  • Every time.
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    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
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  • {lowers head and whispers, yes}  I know by not AF isn't coming, but 2 wks from now is when I started bleeding during my DAngelS's pregnancy so... 

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  • imageGummybear:
    yes, although now I am looking for my plug

    precisely this!

  • yep, every time.
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  • Yup.  It became a habit with all the spotting early on.

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  • Every time.  Sometimes I forget in the middle of the night, but that's the only time I don't do it.
  • Yep. Even in the middle of the night when I don't have my contacts in and can barely see.
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  • Every single time. It's not as nervewracking as it was in the beginning though.
  • Every single time (unless it is the middle of the night and I am doing the perfected pregnant sleep pee).  I am pretty sure I will always check.
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  • Yep, every time I pee with the light on, I check.  Which is weird because I didn't have any bleeding either (mine was a missed miscarriage, only had bleeding after D&C).

    I did have a horrible miscarriage dream this morning though... every time I was wiping I'd see more and more and more blood... it was pretty traumatizing, even though it was just a dream.  And after all this time...  But thank God, only a dream.  I hope my LO doesn't know that I dream about stuff like that.

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  • Wow, and I thought I was the only one!. I used to check in the middle of the night, but I've conditioned myself to not do that. You always feel that relief when it's all good though!
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